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I hate myself

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I really do. I hate myself because of the sin I constantly indulge into knowingly against God. I hate myself for the way I treat my family and friends. I hate myself because of my illness. I hate myself because I can't do the one thing I love to do because of the physical pain. I wish God would have never created me.
 

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Hello brother. Welcome here. Am sorry about your illness. I pray that the very things that bog you down will become your strengths. Know that God loves you no matter what you do. When you feel convicted about it, take it to God. Change is slow but does come if you commit to it. Do take your anger against your self to God, He is the only one who can accept you unconditionally no matter what. I wish you the very best. God be with you as you learn His ways.
 
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I'm sorry you're feeling this way. When I'm feeling down, I try to focus on the positives in my life that I can easily overlook. Sometimes those positives may only be small things, but it may be just enough to hold on to so you can get through this. I'm reminded of a saying I always heard growing up 'God doesn't make mistakes'. He made you for a reason, even though you may not fully understand it all at this point in your life. Our walk with the Lord is a long one and we're constantly learning and growing. I say this to encourage you that there's still alot of wonderful things ahead of you. Don't loose hope. Praying!
 
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Hello and welcome to CF. I am sorry that you have so much hate and pain. Please know that God loves you and will never give up on you. It must be hard to have physical pain while trying to treat people nicely. I will pray with you.

Father, in Jesus name I pray that you bless our brother with a renewed, right Spirit of hope and faith. Bless him with healing and wisdom to repent, for his sins and to forgive himself too. Guide and bless him according to your will, Amen!
 
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not good to feel this way sweety,
lets pray ok.
and please dont put yourself down so much.
god made you and your special to him.

lord I pray right now, that freedomsniper will learn to love himself,
as you do the same. you love us no matter how much we sin, you still
love us. I pray against this spirit and send it back to hell now in jesus name. amen

and oh welcome to cf we are glad to have you here
 
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Hi, I'm sorry your self-worth is being challenged. I pray that the Lord gives you strength.

Father, I come before You to pray for FreedomSniper and ask that You comfort him in his physical and mental state. I pray that You erase any self-loathing and lift His spirits, and that he discover peace and rest within Your Word. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

"Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee." Isaiah 26:3

"O that thou hadst hearkened to my commandments! then had thy peace been as a river, and thy righteousness as the waves of the sea:" Isaiah 48:18
 
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