Is it ok for them to lust inside of a marriage?Yep. This is why we don't advocate unmarried couples living together.
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Is it ok for them to lust inside of a marriage?Yep. This is why we don't advocate unmarried couples living together.
Not everyone is Christian, and not everyone believes the bible. I'm just saying.Did you know the definition of fornication includes homosexuality?
[SIZE=+1]porneiva [/SIZE]Porneia (por-ni'-ah);
Word Origin: Greek, Noun Feminine, Strong #: 4202
Did you know that God ordained marriage between a man and woman? It matters not whether the government allows them to marry or not, it's still against the written Word of God.
- illicit sexual intercourse
- adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals etc.
- sexual intercourse with close relatives; Lev. 18
- sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman; Mk. 10:11,
- metaph. the worship of idols
- of the defilement of idolatry, as incurred by eating the sacrifices offered to idols
If you're engaging in sexual acts outside of God's marriage covenant of man and wife with Him, then you've lusted and fornicated.
Yes you can deny it all day. Doesn't change the fact that God's Word makes it clear that if you're having sex outside of the marriage covenant of Him a man and his wife, that you are fornicating.
Then let me suggest you look again. I can back up what I've told you God says because He says it first. Telling us what YOU think may be all that you can do. But I have the very Word of God.
And your lack of receiving His truth is because of your own hardened heart. The Bible in James 1:14-15 says :14but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. 15Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death
Your understanding is confused...ratheryou have not received God's understanding because your own evil desires want something else. And thus is born your excuse thatall we can do is think we know what God says.
It's been shown by God that the devil is a liar. And all of his machinations to bring confusion about what God's Word says are ineffective on the ones grounded in Christ.
Yall can continue to try and complicate God's Word because it gives you your evil desires. But His Word is as simple as what it says.
Your self-admitted confusion is not of God.
Erm, what I've told you is in accordance withwhat Scripture says. What you're saying is what you WANT Scripture to say. But like you said, you can only think.
I trust God's Word.You THINK your way is right. He KNOWS His is right.
Yep. God will only go so far in allowing you a chance to receive the truth. And then He will give you over to a reprobate mind and let you have it your way since that's what you want.
And one of the reasons I am here is to oppose that lie with God's truth. And the Bible says 18For they mouth empty, boastful words and, by appealing to the lustful desires of sinful human nature, they entice people who are just escaping from those who live in error. 19They promise them freedom, while they themselves are slaves of depravityfor a man is a slave to whatever has mastered him. 2 Peter 2:18-19
Read the whole Book.
Nice try, but it still doesn't change God's Word.
That's why I stand on His Word He speaks for Himself. You can reject what He says. But His Word is what it is.
You can debate all you like. People debate their opinions. God's Word never changes and that's why you keep hearing the same thing while you continue to add to your "argument.
Then you willfully choose to fornicate and it will be recognized as such.
I cant really be bothered to answer this bit by bit as you will just come out with more hate filled rhetoric.
So many gay people are pushed away from Christ by statements like you made above. I firmly believe God is not happy about this whatsoever, he wants all to come to him.
Fortunately my faith is as solid as a rock and your words (or text at least) arent going to have the desired affect of driving me away and if anyone who reads this is struggling with their sexuality in faith I urge them to ignore such comments too. Lately I have felt a great calling to reach out to gay people who feel they can't be Christian and have commited relationships, it's about time I tried to put this into practice offline too.
Christianity is all about love, people can speak out against that all they want, but it is all about love. Jesus is love, and as a result I believe any approach to tackling a percieved sin (regardless of whether its a sin or not) should be done in a loving way.
I'm going to step out of this thread for a day or so at least as it is making me be sarcastic and mildly annoyed (which I apologise for), and is causing others to be hateful too.
Zaac, personally I believe it is you who are going against God's word here, but it is not my place to condemn you for it, so have a good evening and peace be with you.
I know the context of the Scripture and used it correctly. You miss the point, not one I'm trying to make, but of THAT Scripture.Nope. I just hate to see folks thinking they are making a point while missing what the text is speaking to.
No it isn't as the woman was a sinner. The others coming for her wanted to stone her to death, stone by stone...Until Jesus spoke.Like I said, it's best to stop referencing things if you don't understand why what you're saying is out of context with what the text says.
You speak, yet say nothing.zaac said:I know what I'm talking about, and said what I intended to say the FIRST time.
Where did I say "all"?zaac said:You said some after the fact. That's the big difference.
zaac said:3We know that we have come to know him if we obey his commands. 4The man who says, "I know him," but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him. 5But if anyone obeys his word, God's love is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in him: 6Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did. 1 John 2:3-6
Not me friend. Apart from Christ I'm nothing. But I'm saved and this is by faith, the cleansing of Christ, and not by works so that no man can boast.zaac said:Who is boasting?
Who did I accuse friend?zaac said:Talk about making accusations.![]()
The Holy Spirit dwells in me and I have been given discernment. I'm not sure what you have except a condescending tone...zaac said:What the discernment of the Holy Spirit gives me is the right to proclaim God's truth in the face of lies. If you CHOOSE to do otherwise, do you.
...and what Scripture did you quote that I had a problem with?zaac said:If I quote God's Word and issue is taken with what God's Word says, the issue is with God's Word. And you staking claim to change that doesn't change it anymore than does the words of the ones who want to twist God's Word.
I figured as much. You say alot without speaking a word.zaac said:What does God's Word say?
What does God's Word say?
I was speaking of YOUR attitude.
Yep.
Then you'll look a long time. It's very rare that I give my interpretation for that very reason. As it stands and as it always has stood, my interpretation ain't worth a hill of beans. The only interpretation that matters is that of the AUTHOR and it is clear whose is aligned with what GOD says.
No zack, I'm yawning because you are incapable of answering questions and you are doing nothing but boring me.zaac said:What does the FULL COUNSEL of GOD'S WORD say? I know you're yawning because you think you've made a point. But all you're continuing to do is make it clear that you don't know what you're talking about by trying to separate that which can't be separated.
Quote it Zaaci. Quote one time where I said "all" Christians and lumped them into a group. Because dude, if I did that I would have been lumping myself in to wouldn't I? Are you hard headed or just acting?zaac said:Maybe it's you who need to go back and read all of your posts if you want clarity to that question.
What the heck are you talking about guy?zaac said:Naa. You've taken a page out of another recently departed from the board person's book.
zaac said:If He did not speak it to those who were saved through Him, then no one else would know about it because they are the ones who told the stories and wrote it down.
Did you mean to say apropos?zacci said:My point is this: Digest your own words for it is to you that they are most appropos.![]()
sure.zaaci said:And as I've said, my interpretation isn't relevant. As a man of God, I am to lean on Christ for HIS understanding, not mine.![]()
Romans 5:9Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God's wrath through him! 10For if, when we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! 11Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.Christianity is about Christ. And you can't have the love of Chist without the wrath of Christ.
...and I rest unapologetically in Christ and the free gift of Salvation through Him!zaac said:As I have said to many others, I have no problem standing before Christ and giving an account for doing what He says to do. I rest unapologetically in His Word. Can you say the same?
I'm not! I'm just saying if we want others to allow us to be free to worship, then we've got to allow others to be free to do what they wish. You know that phrase "do unto others as you would have others do unto you"? If we restrict their rights as people in love, if we restrict their rights as humans, they will restrict ours.Don't deny the Bible to conform to the World.
When that time comes, should we rejoice in being able to suffer for Christ? (Or just lose rights..)Not everyone is Christian, and not everyone believes the bible. I'm just saying.
If we restrict someone else's right to marry, then they'll begin restricting our rights as Christian.
I know the context of the Scripture and used it correctly. You miss the point, not one I'm trying to make, but of THAT Scripture.
No it isn't as the woman was a sinner. The others coming for her wanted to stone her to death, stone by stone...Until Jesus spoke.
He who is without sin cast the first stone. They walked away. That is the message to you from Him. BACK OFF. Instead of stoning people with your words. If I met you face to face would truth be known that you are a hypocrite??
You speak, yet say nothing.
Where did I say "all"?
Show it.
Or was it just another one of your many premature presumptions?
Remember zaac, context is very important.![]()
How did Jesus walk? Did He walk in love? Who did He spend time with? Was it not sinners? Was Jesus mocked for spending time with, eating food with and loving those sinners?
What does God command? Law? NO no no. You miss context friend. You miss the point in having our precious Savior. If man could obey the law we would have never needed a Savior, but we couldn't and we do.
The Holy Spirit dwells in me and I have been given discernment. I'm not sure what you have except a condescending tone..
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...and what Scripture did you quote that I had a problem with?
I figured as much. You say alot without speaking a word.
No zack, I'm yawning because you are incapable of answering questions and you are doing nothing but boring me.
Quote it Zaaci. Quote one time where I said "all" Christians and lumped them into a group. Because dude, if I did that I would have been lumping myself in to wouldn't I? Are you hard headed or just acting?
What the heck are you talking about guy?
Please oh please tell me where those who believe and are saved will go to hell. Because it is made very clear Once you are saved you are always saved.
It is not by law we are saved friend.
Did you mean to say apropos?
Maybe you should digest your own words before you type.
Have you forgotten who you are?
and yet again I pose these questions to you?
What of the married man who divorces his first wife and takes another bride? It is adultery, but the man is not willing to leave his second wife.. Will he not be saved? Is he not forgiven?
I'm sure, that if we really got down to it, most people wouldn't be Christian because they wouldn't be free to worship openly.When that time comes, should we rejoice in being able to suffer for Christ? (Or just lose rights..)
Romans 5:9Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God's wrath through him! 10For if, when we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! 11Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.
blue bold = exactlyI know the point of THAT Scripture. And as I said before your context is wrong because the point you're vainly attempting to make is not made with that Scripture.
Like I said, out of context and not applicable to the situation. That Scripture speaks to taking the life of another when we are just as sinful.
That's YOUR interpretation, which is wrong.zaac said:The issue at hand is one of righteous judgment, not death, of a situation.
So again, you've taken the Scripture out of context and attempted to apply it where it does not apply.
zaac said:You speak, yet hear nothing.
I know what my posts say, it is you having trouble with context, here and the Word. Sorry, I'll pray for you.zaac said:That's right context is very important. So go back and examine your context.
Have you read the Bible?zaac said:And this is where you keep screwing up. Some kind of way in your rush to be apologetic, you've missed that Jesus Christ IS the Law. You've missed that you can't separate His Love from the very Word that HE is.
see above Scriptures and all others I have listed for your benefit in this thread...zaac said:And taking the FULL COUNSEL of the Word, you can't walk with Christ without obedience to the Law that is Him.
Love is commanded.zaac said:God commands obedience so it is YOU who have completely missed the context of what it is to come to Christ and what the ongoing result should be.
zaac said:Now that's the height of hypocrisy.
Well that's good to hear coming from YOU.zaac said:That was not in reference to a Scripture that YOU took issue with.
Hm. What do you call all the Scriptures I quoted on being saved?zaac said:Ain't no need for me to speak where God has spoken. You ought to try that sometime and let the Word set men free.
Then there are not many you can help are there?zaac said:There's no need for me to answer what God has answered. If "what does God say" does not meet your needs, I can't help ya.
Excuse me zaac.zaac said:Theres no "i" at the end of my name.
zaac said:Again, I know what I'm talking about and again you don't.
Because zaac He did not speak to the saved of going to hell for "sin". WHY? The saved are already cleansed, white as snow...zaac said:Here is what was said :
Originally Posted by zaac
Why should hell not come up? Jesus spoke of hell more than anyone else in the Bible.
And your reply:
Not to those that were saved through HIM.
So why are you asking whether or not those who are saved will go to hell when that's not from what your statement orignated?
my, my, zaac, no need to get offended because of your typo/spelling mistake and myself inquiring your meaningzaac said:Naah. I meant to SPELL "apropos".
Naah. I just need to start running spellcheck.
Well if you think so. . .zaac said:I know very well who I am and do not have to apologize for what God says.
So you have no such discernment into His word that you would share with anyone??zaac said:And yet again I say to you, what does God say?
Romans 5:9Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God's wrath through him! 10For if, when we were God's enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! 11Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.
...and I rest unapologetically in Christ and the free gift of Salvation through Him!
praise God!!
Did the wrath of Christ disappear because we are saved? His wrath still goes hand in hand with His love. It's just not directed at the one who is saved. You can't have His love without His wrath.
blue bold = exactly
They wanted to condemn her to death.
What is hell? Is it not the final death?
I do not believe that anyone should be judging people's Salvation based on what "sin" you believe they have committed.
That's the stones...get it yet?
That's YOUR interpretation, which is wrong.
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I hear correctly. You hear only what you want. . .
I know what my posts say, it is you having trouble with context, here and the Word. Sorry, I'll pray for you.
Have you read the Bible?
see above Scriptures and all others I have listed for your benefit in this thread...
Love is commanded.
Then there are not many you can help are there?
Who could you minister to if you have no discernment?
Because zaac He did not speak to the saved of going to hell for "sin". WHY? The saved are already cleansed, white as snow...
But to those about the people who had not yet recieved Salvation about those they would minister to and bring the good news.
my, my, zaac, no need to get offended because of your typo/spelling mistake and myself inquiring your meaning
Well if you think so. . .
I didn't ask you to apologize for what God says, nor for what you say. Which isn't the same thing.
So you have no such discernment into His word that you would share with anyone??
Your choice.
Read the Scripture Zaac, just read it. :o
There is no wrath for those who are saved through Christ.
wow.And you're still wrong. I spoke to righteously judging a situation, not stoning someone to death for sin. You're still on the wrong page.
I recieve what is from the Holy Spirit and only accept the truth.zaac said:I hear that which is aligned with God's Word.
lolzaac said:Then deal with what you think you said.
Many, many times yes, not just read, studied.zaac said:Have you?
Yes, it is. But I was speaking of the Scripture I posted in this thread as an example of what you implied I had not done. . ."you ought to try sometime"..remember??zaac said:All Scripture is to my benefit.
Do you really not understand or are you playing some sort of game? Cause really, I'm not interested in silly games. . .zaac said:And this changes obedience from being commanded how?![]()
...and if that dying man asked you what Scripture meant???zaac said:I let Jesus Christ hande His business. There ain't nothing that I can do for a dying man but let Christ use me to deliver His truth that sets men free.
Yes, discerment is from Him, that is why I don't understand why you will not even answer the simplest of questions concerning God's word and/or talk in circles...zaac said:And me letting God's Word speak and deliver His truth has nothing to do with my discernment that is from Him.
Maybe not, but it is not for me to judge their Salvation, but only share the good news with them.zaac said:Were his disciples saved when He spoke to them about the rich man and Lazarus?
I do understand what you're saying though. But also understand that if folks are rejecting the very Word of God and unrepentantly living as the world instead of in the way of Jesus whom they say they follow, then they may not be what they say they are.
Yes, we should correct each other, but also help to carry each others burdens...I don't think it should be "fear factor" though.zaac said:And another reason for preaching of hell to such people is because they need to be corrected and rebuked about their actions that will be a stumbling block that could possibly direct another to hell.
okie doke.zaac said:There was no offense. I'll just start running a spellcheck.![]()
As I have said Multiple times I would like to know your interpretation of Scripture for certain circumstances. But that time has passed and I don't your interpretation anymore. I haven't expressed angst, bored maybe, but not angst. Hopefully it just gave you something to think about and study since you would give no answer to my questions.zaac said:So why do you keep expressing your angst for me asking what does God say when you wanna know what I think?
Apparently the questions I asked brought you to the conclusion that discernment wasn't needed...okay.zaac said:I give discernment when discernment is needed.
Nope. I wanted you to back up what you said with Scripture just as I have.zaac said:But if you want to hear what I think first instead of what God says, I can't help ya.
As I said there is no wrath for those who are saved. As it states in the Scripture provided.Take your own advice. There not being any wrath for the saved does not separate the love and wrath of Christ. They still go hand in hand.
Do what?!zaac said:If you throw out the wrath, even though it's not directed at you, then you've thrown out Christ as who He says He is and fashioned a false god.
WHAT??!zaac said:There is no love of Christ without the wrath of Christ. The two are inseparable.
wow.
Okay, so you are speaking of "righteously judging a situation"
Im talking about people stating others are "condemned to hell for their sins" and that to those who are saved.
Hell is the final death.
We were condemned for love. That's what I knew in that dream. We were condemned because we were different. We had to hide who we were or people would want to hurt us....
The underlying message to me was homosexuals are people and no matter what your beliefs are you have to remember that their feelings, emotions, are real.
I don't know maybe people will say God is turning me over to a reprobate mind....'cause that's what I first thought.
But what is worse loving someone of the same sex or killing and hurting people because of that love?
I have been feeling since I had that dream as I did when I was younger. Like lifeviews are forming, new understanding is coming, discernment....
I believe once saved always saved if that helps you to understand my position any better...
I recieve what is from the Holy Spirit and only accept the truth.
Sin can/will damage someone's testimony who is saved, but I do not believe their own Salvation is in Jeopardy.
lol
whatever zaac.
Many, many times yes, not just read, studied.
Yes, it is. But I was speaking of the Scripture I posted in this thread as an example of what you implied I had not done. . ."you ought to try sometime"..remember??
.Do you really not understand or are you playing some sort of game? Cause really, I'm not interested in silly games. .
...and if that dying man asked you what Scripture meant???
Yes, discerment is from Him, that is why I don't understand why you will not even answer the simplest of questions concerning God's word and/or talk in circles...
Maybe not, but it is not for me to judge their Salvation, but only share the good news with them.
I rebuke sin, but not to the point of making someone feel condemned especially those that are saved.
I still have sin in my life that I can't rid myself of. My Salvation has nothing to do with that of the law, it is of Christ. He is the "narrow gate" The only way. Personally when convicted by the Holy Spirit I do repent, because I love God and I do not like to grieve Him. But I do not think my Salvation hinges on that...
Yes, we should correct each other, but also help to carry each others burdens...I don't think it should be "fear factor" though.
Nope. I wanted you to back up what you said with Scripture just as I have.
As I said there is no wrath for those who are saved. As it states in the Scripture provided.
If you disagree than your interpretation is lacking truth...
So it is YOU who are lacking understanding.
Do what?!
We are talking about those who are saved.
I haven't "fashioned a false god" I have quoted Scripture. Yet you judge falsely.
WHAT??!
PROVIDE SCRIPTURE FOR THIS CLAIM.