On a more practical matter, health insurance at work for me is free as a single with no dependants. If I were to get married with dependants, I would lose those free benefits. A colleague at work recently had to change jobs because he could not afford the rising health insurance costs for his wife and family...he already works 2 jobs and for a time he was working 3 jobs. I make the same pay, but only need the 1 job to live comfortably within my means.
I am in no hurry to make a bad decision. It would have to be a situation I absolutely couldn't refuse. And hopefully she would be covered by her own insurance.