TRIGGER WARNING (tw drugs an abuse) I don't know where to turn. I have been praying to God but I feel so stuck and hopeless.
I am stuck living with my abusive mom, with my sister. She has put us both through so much trauma and I can't handle living with her anymore. There are hardly any apartments for rent because of the new eviction law. I don't know what to do. So many bad things are happening at once... I feel so lost. My car broke and I have to find a new church. I have major health issues, so I physically can't get a second job or anything, and my sister is ill too. I have no support system and I am pretty sure I have PTSD from everything I have been through. When I was a teenager for years my mom was addicted to heroin, crack, meth, and would do any drug. This lead me to run into the arms of abusive men, who psychologically and sexually abused me. I pray the Lord will heal me. I don't know what to do.
I know I must forgive and be grateful, but if you can't relate to my experiences then you won't be able to understand how hurtful it is to be told I must be forgiving and grateful. I know that! And its eating me up because I know the only way I can heal and forgive is to leave her house and I cant right now. Since I can't do those things I feel massive guilt, which I am prone to feeling due to the abuse I have endured. I literally feel like Job, wishing I passed from my mothers womb as an untimely birth. I call for the Lord to help and I can't hear or see what he's doing. I feel confused, I know his ways arent my ways. I am falling apart.
I am stuck living with my abusive mom, with my sister. She has put us both through so much trauma and I can't handle living with her anymore. There are hardly any apartments for rent because of the new eviction law. I don't know what to do. So many bad things are happening at once... I feel so lost. My car broke and I have to find a new church. I have major health issues, so I physically can't get a second job or anything, and my sister is ill too. I have no support system and I am pretty sure I have PTSD from everything I have been through. When I was a teenager for years my mom was addicted to heroin, crack, meth, and would do any drug. This lead me to run into the arms of abusive men, who psychologically and sexually abused me. I pray the Lord will heal me. I don't know what to do.
I know I must forgive and be grateful, but if you can't relate to my experiences then you won't be able to understand how hurtful it is to be told I must be forgiving and grateful. I know that! And its eating me up because I know the only way I can heal and forgive is to leave her house and I cant right now. Since I can't do those things I feel massive guilt, which I am prone to feeling due to the abuse I have endured. I literally feel like Job, wishing I passed from my mothers womb as an untimely birth. I call for the Lord to help and I can't hear or see what he's doing. I feel confused, I know his ways arent my ways. I am falling apart.