Hello, I'm currently in a weird and confusing situation...And I would like to have people's opinions. Particularly men's opinions.
Here it goes, I recently met a wonderful man (about 1 month ago) and we've been hanging out a lot. I'm 19 and he's 23. We have a lot of common things, a big one is that we both want to be missionaries. It's been great getting to know him and my feelings for him grew. I have been praying a lot and looking for guidance from the Lord. To remove these feelings if they are not supposed to be there. Tonight we hung out and we kissed and I think it kind of confused him a little. He is not sure of what he feels, he's been hurt before really bad and he knows I've been deeply hurt to so he's very scared of getting hurt. He says he is not sure of what he feels, but no matter what happens he doesn't want to loose my friendship. I don't know what to make of it though. We are both mature christians. He says that he's been praying for the special someone for a long time and that I posses a lot of the qualities that he has asked for. yet he is still confused. I told him to take the time he needed and we needed to keep praying and letting God lead us. I was left feeling confused though. He was very honest with me I just kinda don't know what to do. We just seem to fit together you know? We love missions and we have the same goals. And a million other details and things that we share. Any suggestions? Anyone?
Here it goes, I recently met a wonderful man (about 1 month ago) and we've been hanging out a lot. I'm 19 and he's 23. We have a lot of common things, a big one is that we both want to be missionaries. It's been great getting to know him and my feelings for him grew. I have been praying a lot and looking for guidance from the Lord. To remove these feelings if they are not supposed to be there. Tonight we hung out and we kissed and I think it kind of confused him a little. He is not sure of what he feels, he's been hurt before really bad and he knows I've been deeply hurt to so he's very scared of getting hurt. He says he is not sure of what he feels, but no matter what happens he doesn't want to loose my friendship. I don't know what to make of it though. We are both mature christians. He says that he's been praying for the special someone for a long time and that I posses a lot of the qualities that he has asked for. yet he is still confused. I told him to take the time he needed and we needed to keep praying and letting God lead us. I was left feeling confused though. He was very honest with me I just kinda don't know what to do. We just seem to fit together you know? We love missions and we have the same goals. And a million other details and things that we share. Any suggestions? Anyone?
