I am not sure where to put this...

[Kitana]

everyone who has posted on this thread agrees that you need to get out of this situation and yet you support and defend this guy. We are all older telling you the same exact thing. Doesn't this prove that you need to get out if 100% of the posters agree?

He has really worked on your mind, you are so brainwashed and don't even notice it. How can we help you if all you do is defend this guy? Open your eyes and see the truth behind his intentions!

Don't become another statistic, do something about it!

 

[clemi55]

I'm so sorry, please don't be mad at me. I feel so dead and emotionless when he's not there, but now whenever I have to do things or he touches me I feel like screaming. It's like a lose-lose situation. I'm numb without him and in agony with him. I can't do it anymore, really, it's so hard to keep a secret like this from everyone. Every time a man looks in my eyes I feel like he wants to kill me, and I'm scared all the time and I don't know why. But I can't tell him that I won't do it anymore, he'll get mad, something bad will happen, and if I can't even have him care about me how can anyone else?

 

[Raistlinorr]

I'm sorry, this is so hard. He protects me, you see. He says boys my age want to hurt me and that is all they will do, and he says when I'm with him instead he stops me from being a harlot and that I will be one if I don't have him, because he says I'm weak and that I'll give in. I don't want to be a harlot like he says. He's the only one who cares to protect me.

What he says is not important from what you've told us(in as far as life and who you are).

You see he does not know who you are only you and God do. He can not tell you what you are as he does not know. He can not see you for who you treuly are only God can.

As for boys your age wanting to hurt you he is doing the same thing not protecting you. I'm not going to call you a harlot as he is or say that other boys will make you as such. I can tell you he is making you his slave and from the sound of it taking you to a sexual area. He is a pediphile flat out. I'll warn you again to leave him and run and to let some on eknow about him as he has admited to hurting another girl in the past. Run before you become that girl. Get him off the street before he does this to another girl. You are not the only one he is working on ATM I'ld say he is working a few others even as we speak he needs to be locked up in the least and removed from areas where he can hurt other girls and yourself.

No one can make you a harlot and the Lord can forgive you of anything. This man wants to own you and hurt you. You are in alot of danger with him and not as much with boys your age. He is lieing and he is the one hurting you. Other boys your age may want sex but you tell them no if they do not understand that you give them a knee to the groin and they will. There are plenty of nice boys out there your age who will not hurt you unlike what this man says. He is lieing to you and hurting you follow your feelings of fear and warnings and run while you can. Put this man where he belongs and the way he is and has been treating girls your age will catch up to him. If some guy tried this with my daughter I would want to know and I would have to repent for things I would like to do to him. I'm sure your parents feel the same your their daughter and they love you they do not want to see you hurt in any way. The police have to investigate any report of this sort of thing and most will gladly do what they can to find evidence against this type of person. This man is one of the lower forms of mankind I try not to look down apoun them as much as I can but I have a large dislike for this type of person.

This man does not love you (sry but it's true).

This man wants to own and hurt you making you his slave.

This man is a danger to you and you should run now and inform someone of what has happened.

This man has hurt others and is still hurting even more than you as we speak.


I'm tempted to get involved in this situation myself and inform the attorties about this as I realy fear for your safty and the safty of others. This man is a hugh danger to you from what I've read and I feel this realy needs to be looked into and this man removed from public.

You know this is wrong and you know you should be afraid or else you would not have came here. Please do the right thing and get the police and your parents involved for your safty and the safty of other girls your age. You are not the only one tis man has hurt is hurting or is going to hurt.

Your parents will not be ashemed and they will believe you the police will believe you. You said there is video proof and a quick search of his house and computer wil lbring about even more proof of this mans evil stop him now while you still can.

God Bless
Raist

 

[Kitana]

I'm not mad, you just seem to be ignoring what we are saying, you got me extremely scared for you. People that love you care about you. I don't even know you and I care about you.

Its not like you have a whole lot of time here. That is why I keep pushing you to call the cops and get a restraining order. Don't tell him you are doing it or tell him i don't wanna see you anymore cause that will give him time to retaliate. Let him find out with the restraining order papers, that way you are protected. Cops will even run by your house hourly if need be to make sure you are ok.

I don't want to see you become another statistic so PLEASE do this

 

[Raistlinorr]

Please take a look at this link and read what it says about how ppl like this man work.

http://crime.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?zi=1/XJ&sdn=crime&zu=http%3A%2F%2Fmeganslaw.ca.gov%2F

Also here is another link that can surely help you to report this if you do not go to your local police for help.

http://crime.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?zi=1/XJ&sdn=crime&zu=http%3A%2F%2Fmeganslaw.ca.gov%2F

God Bless
Raist

 

[josiahoftenn]

I'm going to get harsh now.It will not change NEVER if you continue like this you will wind up committing suicide I am almost certain!You need to get away from the devil of a man!NO!Devil is to nice of a word, there are no words to describe a THING like him.You think you love him you think you feel save with him WRONG you fear him!So you are brainwashed to think it is all the truth!A stranger on the street who doesn't even know you love's you more then this THING can, does and ever will.Get AWAY from him turn him into the police I'm sure he has other girls just like you do it for any other girls that IT will get.I'm not angry at you I'm trying to get you realise this THING is not a MANand that IT has you brainwashed.Please get help.

 

[chrislife]

Any man who uses fear and demands total control in a relationship is mentally ill. Any man who makes moves on a 15 year old is either retarded or a predator. He doesn't sound retarded. He pushed every one of the buttons that he knew every fifteen year old lonely girl would fall for. I have known predators, and they pushed *exactly* the same buttons.

Furthermore, I'd lay huge sums of money on it he's selling these videotapes. If you tell the police, they will most certainly believe you when they find his collection of child porn. You will realize that he's harming a lot of girls, not just you... and many of them younger than you. Men like this never just have just one underage relationship; they are addicts or they are in business.

Don't just tell the police for your own sake, but also for the sake of the eleven and nine year olds he is almost certainly abusing. You may be saving their lives.

---Christina

 

[Nathan55]

You need to tell someone, the authorities, your parents, someone who can help.

 

[Boss_BlueAngels]

Just sit back and LISTEN TO WHAT YOU'RE SAYING! This guy is a freaking crazy pediphile!

C'mon, do you honestly believe you cannot do anything without this guy? I mean, you obviously made it 15 years without him. You CERTAINLY can make it the rest of your life without him. And you are not some powerless rag doll sitting in the corner to let anyone do whatever they want with you. You NEED to stand up for yourself. If you don't do it now your entire life will be C-R-A-P. If you keep rationalizing everything like this, all you're going to do the rest of your life is skip around from creepy guy to creepy guy, and it will lead to (heaven forbid) your children doing the EXACT SAME THING! SAVE FUTURE GENERATIONS!

So here is an ultimatum:

GET USED TO IT OR GET OUT OF IT!

I pray you make the right decision. I know it isn't easy, but the RIGHT CHOICE is NEVER the easy choice.

God bless.

 

[Boss_BlueAngels]

P.S. This is my last piece of advice on this topic.

 

[VickiY]

I'm terrified at what you are saying. This man is manipulating you, making you doubt yourself, and the love of others, and he is exploiting you, and THIS IS AGAINST THE LAW...ESPECIALLY THE VIDEOTAPES! He can be arrested. RUN to the nearest police station!

 

[Daughter of His]

Hi Clemi,

In my opinion, there is nothing more important for you to do right now than call the police and tell your parents. They will take care of everything for you. All you have to do is tell the police and they will already know how to deal with him. He is NOT NICE. His intentions are evil. I wish you were online now, you need to stop whatever you are doing, call the police and while they are on the way to your home talk with your parents.

 

[clemi55]

I know I need to tell. It's becoming harder and harder not to just break down and spill open. I am so scared, but I know I have to tell someone. I just don't know who or how. My parents would never forgive me for lying to them. I feel so trapped. I can't just go into a police station, they would think I was crazy. He knows everything, all my secrets, all my flaws, everything. If he told my parents, or anyone, oh no. What can I say? How can I just say to my mother and father that I did those things with a 33-year-old...I just couldn't. They would never forgive me. I'm supposed to be the perfect, dutiful daughter. And I've failed. With what he knows, if he told he could turn them against me, make them hate me, like the other girl. And still, though I know it's wrong, I can't bear the thought that I'm betraying him. I'm so sorry.

 

[josiahoftenn]

What you do is call a police station and ask to speak with a detective and tell him EVERYTHING.I have a feeling your parents are alot like my moms, you have to tell them aswell.I can GUARANTEE that you are NOT the only young girl he is video taping, I'm ALMOST CERTAIN he is selling videos and pictures on the internet, probally of girls ages 9+.The WORST THING YOU CAN DO IS NOT TELL!
When he finds out WHEN AND IF you tell the police he's going to manipulate you.I'm going to give you a week to tell the police and if you don't I'm leaving I just pray they don't find you in a dumpster.

 

[clemi55]

OKK. Tomorrow I think I can do it. But, oh no. He wanted to take me to lunch. What can I say? Oh no. I don't think I can lie to him without him being suspicious. I'm so scared I can't go through with this. I can. I'll have to just manage to lie for an hour. Oh I'm so afraid. Please, Lord, help me be brave.

 

[josiahoftenn]

OKK. Tomorrow I think I can do it. But, oh no. He wanted to take me to lunch. What can I say? Oh no. I don't think I can lie to him without him being suspicious. I'm so scared I can't go through with this. I can. I'll have to just manage to lie for an hour. Oh I'm so afraid. Please, Lord, help me be brave.

That's actually perfect if you're trully ready to turn him in.Call the police early and tell them all about it and tell them you are meeting him for lunch.If I remember correctly they will arrest him and then investigate his apartment they will take his computer etc.... but I may be wrong about this.

 

[ArohaB]

Call The Police!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Raistlinorr]

OKK. Tomorrow I think I can do it. But, oh no. He wanted to take me to lunch. What can I say? Oh no. I don't think I can lie to him without him being suspicious. I'm so scared I can't go through with this. I can. I'll have to just manage to lie for an hour. Oh I'm so afraid. Please, Lord, help me be brave.

Actually I hope you read this before you are to meet him tell the police and your parents first they can use your meeting him today to catch him. Just tell them your plans for today and the police can grab him there then they call a judge and get a search warrent for his house where they will find the proof of what he is doing.

I hope you are going to do the right thing and tell them. Your parents will be glad to help you they don't want you hurt. As for them being upset about you lieing to them they will understand that you were manipulated. They will be more worried about this guy and what he is doing. The police will not think you are crazy they will on the other hand help you get this guy and stop him from further hurting you or some one else. Just tell your parents and call the police and tell them every thing.

This guy thinks he has all your secrets and would use them against you. But who is going to believe a pediphile any way. Your secrets are safe as he will not get to talk to your parents and tell them any thing except in court where he will only get to talk about his actions which are wrong. He is controling you and hurting you and others your not the only one he is doing this to.

Tell them all today before you are to meet him and they should be able to catch him today and help you on a road to recovery.

God Bless
Raist

 

[Kitana]

The police will certainly NOT think you are crazy. If it would help you tell me the city you live in and I will make the call for you. Of course you will have to give me your address and name so they can get ahold of you but I will make the call for you since you are scared.

Does he know where you live? if not then I would say don't meet him for lunch. But if he does....then don't mention that you are going to do anything like i said let him find out when the restraining order is served to him. Or what the police may do is have you set up a meeting with him and they bust him then.

Please inform us when you do call the police and let us know what all they are gonna do.

 

[Daughter of His]