I am crying my heart out now! Because I sent this thread also to "Ask a Chaplain" and nobody answered me. Maybe they think I am really beyond prayers?
You maybe be right, but by ignoring the torment of my soul, you are wrong in any case.
I am sorry. I know I will be misunderstood, for sure.
I am very sorry for your suffering KSF. Your words are very eloquent and speak your longing to do the right thing, and I think you do not need to fear. Remember that Our Lord himself was a Jew, and so was the apostle Paul and all the disciples. The early followers of the Way did not think of themselves as Christian in contradistinction to being Jewish; they could be both very happily.
Clearly if a person is born as a Jew, brought up as a Jew and part of the very rich Jewish heritage, then it will not be easy for them to embrace Christianity without retaining who they are in the process. There is no need to give up anything that is central to Jewish identity in order to follow the Lord; the Messianic faith is a very honourable one.
On the other hand, those of us not fortunate enough to have this same close connection with the faith into which the Lord was born, and in which he lived and died; we have to live a different kind of faith. One which has its own beauty and its own richness, but one which has also, imo, lost something important that was part of the Lord's own life.
I think if you consider your own journey so far as just that; a journey of faith, a pilgrimage, it might be easier for you. You have never walked away from God, because whatever direction you turn, you are facing towards him. In embracing Judaism you have embraced something very precious, and very important, both about Judaism itself, and even about Christianity. I do not think you need to feel guilty about this journey, which you have made in good faith, and in good conscience.
The point was made to talk to your Rabbi, and I think that is good advice. I think he will help you find your way. At present you feel yourself to be lost, and that is not a good feeling, but I would encourage you to remember Psalm 139.
Whither shall I go from thy Spirit?
Or whither shall I flee from your presence?
If I ascend to heaven, thou art there!
If I make my bed in Sheol, thou art there!
If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,
even there thy right hand shall lead me,
and thy right hand shall hold me.
God be with you, and don't worry. You have not left him behind, and neither has he let you go.