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Rising_Suns

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hey brothers and sisters,
At the advice of my older and wiser elders and upon much prayer, I have decided to leave the forums. The fellowship I have found here is wonderfull and the knowledge I have gained here is imeasurable, but now I must leave and begin to really focus on putting my faith into action. God made it clear to me that putting in the time I was on the boards--though it is a good cause--was distracting me from actually walking the path I need to walk. He made clear that my focus needs to be on prayer and following through on tasks to the perfection and glory of God. As such, I will be taking a leave from my online activities and seeking to center my life around prayer and school. I plan on saying the rosary upon waking each morning and I have already just begun a life of interior prayer. I have been saying the Jesus prayer a few hundred times a day now and I have already increased my time in prayer drastically, but I have much further to go. This upcoming semester is going to be extremely time consuming (as I will be graduating in summer), and when I am not studying I will either be praying or reading from my various spiritual books on interior prayer and sainthood (Imitation of Christ, Bible, Philokalia, etc).

Please pray for me if you have a chance, as God's grace is what will be carrying me through the end of my academic career. I thank the Lord very much for helping me to see what I need to do now, instead of being distracted by my future plans. As some of you know, I will be leaving society and living in a monestary so I can totally and completely dedicate my life to God. But recently, I was letting this vision consume me and distract me from what I need to do today; which is complete school and get a job for a few years to help my family out. I have realized, that what may be a noble cause, can actually be used against us to take us away from what we really should be doing. It's the timing in our lives that is so critical, and discerning when things are to happen. I am just so thankfull that God is taking an unworthy man like me, and leading me to a life of dedicated devotion in the love and suffering of Christ.

Anyway, I just wanted to share this with you and thank you all for your wonderfull friendship and support. I have gained so much knowledge here, which is both a great blessing and a heavey burden, as I am even more accountable now and will face a harsher judgement. Anyway, thank you all and may the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you always.
 
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I was convicted as i read your post. I feel that the God has been calling me to spend more time in devotion and education of Catholicism and prayer. I have substantially rediuced the times that i spend here, but feel that I have to minimise my time here, further.

I do sincerely understand what you feel that you are being guided/called to do, and i pray that God's blessing follows you wherever your journey takes you. Your posts have often been insightful and educatory and i have found them enlightening and beneficial...you will, however, be a sad loss to OBOB. God Bless and keep you always.
 
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Well...:sigh: ...

I hate to see ya go bro...seriously.

But as I've always said, I encourage everyone to listen to God's calling. Listen to what He's saying in your heart. Listen how His Spirit tugs at your inner being.

And then watch yourself grow in His love...

It's hard to see a person, who, such as in my case, has witnessed and contributed to my salvation decide to leave a medium that he's contributed to and that has made such an impact in my life.

Yet while I hate to see you go, I have to, as a Christian brother, fully support you. Because if you know God is calling you to do something, and you don't do it based on others, you will be sinning for not listening to Him.

Sometimes we get so wrapped up in our own perceptions -- we worry about ourselves too much. "Look what He did for me!", is what we often say to ourselves.

We should always say, "What can I do for you, God?" I think, in your walk with Him, you've grown and after listening to his calling, you're more and more asking Him, "What can I do for you?"

By the time you get to the monastery, I will be in study towards becoming a Deacon. Please pray for me that this is the specific ministry vocation that he wants me to follow. I am still testing the Spirits in my life...

Peace be with you brother. You can always find me at the email address in my profile.
 
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