Husband????

[Melbelle]

please pray for my husband he isn't what you would tital a christian he makes it hard on me to live my christian life he don't come to church with me much and we both smoke so pray for that he is just so much into sin right now Porno and all that and I hate it we fight over that stuff all the time I don't know if he is saved or not he says he is and thats all i can lean on please help...

 

[Blade]

I sure will. In love I say this but you need to stop smoking. It might look to him as why change if your still doing some of the same things. Have faith Jesus is there and knows your need and WILL help, really. Your husband will see the GREAT I AM in you.
Praying..

 

[Gentle-Heart]

Hi Sethsmummy

Oh sweetheart I can feel the pain in the heart because of his involvement with Porn stuff. I know how much that hurts as my husband was into that stuff to. And of course you're going to be upset.

You're his wife and you're the one he is supposed to be finding his joy and intimacy with. Not some pictures in a glossy magazine.

But before getting into another fight with him, which will only cause more pain, as he will only give it up when he feels good and ready. You focus on how wonderful and beautiful you are because of Jesus.
You don't need such trash to pull you down and destroy your self-esteem. The enemy loves to do that.

Instead of getting all upset and looking at your circumstances, get thanking God for your Marriage, for your Husband. This will seem strange to your natural mind but we don't fight with flesh and blood. Our enemy is spiritual, the devil and his demons.

Praise soon gets the enemy running!

You my love get into the Word of God every day. Set aside a special time for just you and Jesus. You need to know and be convinced of how wonderful you are in Christ, and that you can do all things through Him. As you get the Word of God into your heart you will get stronger and the desire to sin, to smoke will go. By the power of the Holy Spirit working in your heart you will change and your husband will see that.

The truth will set you free. His Word is truth. Get that deep into heart and as you do that, begin to live by it. The Holy Spirit will help you. Speak the Word of God and claim His promises for your self and your husband.

Ignore the circumstance, keep on beleiving and praying for God to move in this situation and turn things around. God's Word will not return to you void but will accomplish that for which it was sent.

Persevere with this and your prayers. God will not let you down.

Argue no more with your husband - let peace reign in your heart. Every day pray for him to be delivered of this addiction. He needs help here to give it up and to find His needs and fulfillment in Jesus.The enemy uses such things to keep people in bondage and blinds them to the fact that it is wrong. So they justify there need to keep doing it.

I pray and stand against all spirits of lust that are operating in his life and for a full and complete being set free of it. For the blood of Jesus to protect you both and that by the power of the Holy Spirit you both are set free to love and serve the Lord. That God will create in you both a pure heart and renew the love and peace in your Marriage.That you will stand strong and feel encouraged.

God hasn't abandoned either of you. Keep going to Church even if your husband will not go. Leave him to God. It may not be easy all of the time but you already have the Victory because of Jesus.

Much peace be yours and my prayers for you both,
Gentle-Heart

 

[bamagirl]

Hi sethsmommy, I am kind of in the same situation as you...My husband has never been to church with me and he did cause me to quit here a few years ago..but now I am going strong and leave him and his salvation is God's hands...I will ask him every time we go to church if he wants to go and he always tells me no but one day, I know he is gonna say yes wait for me he doesn't do porn but he does other things that bother me but I know that it is Satan trying to get to me through him so I just pray and rebuke Satan and we both smoke too but I am working on that with me..it is just so hard to quit...I will keep you and your husband in my prayers...please pray for me too?

 

[Cat59]

for you and your husband

 

[Selznak]

Great advice Gentle-Heart! I'll keep praying for you sethsmommy. Keep your your heart and mind focused on Jesus!

 

[allieisme]

I truly believe that if one is saved while the other is not in marriage, God planted you 2 there for a reason, and just like stated above, keep asking and then that one day when yes finally comes, it will be a nice shock! Keep at it, and keep asking. With the smoking thing, yes you really do need to stop, with the both of you smoking around your new baby, could be damaging, as far as you 2 smoking, he might quit if you quit, I have a scripture in the Bible that I looked to more times than not during the day when I was quitting..
When I find it, I will edit this and put it in here for you.

 

[Angelface007]

May God Be with you , durning this time of hardships in your life! May he fulfill your every need, that your husband is not able to fulfill. My heart extremy goes out to you, and I personally know first hand that this just breaks you into! It makes you feel really bad about your self, like your not good enough!! Doesn't it?? My husband is bad about watching movies that have women pratically necked in them and some times he watches movies that they are necked! It really hurts me too, and makes me feel I am not good enough for him, that he has to watch this stuff.. But I am growing more and more to God, and I am learning that when he watches this stuff , I just got to find something else to do! And when he comes loving up to me after wards, I tell him to go on! Maybe I am in the wrong, I'm not sure! But I know it makes me feel uncomfortable when he does that, cause I am me, and only me! I am special to God, even if I am not special to him! His actions show me that to him I am not special enough, for him to only pay attention to my body.....as he goes lurking and making these comments about these women!!! It truely hurts!!! I Really do know!!! God is making me stronger everyday! Somedays are harder than others! I have been know to as well to fuss with him.... And if yours is like mine, at least mine does change the station!! I hate to fuss, I hate it with a passion.. But only God knows that it gets his attention, and he knows I am not playing! He's getting better with this day by day! Sometimes he switches through the pages and when things like that comes on he'll change them....... I pray , oh Lord do I pray for him to change his ways....
I believe God is watching over me and that he will change everything for the better! Keep your heart on the right track to God, and Pray every day! He will change! It want happened over night but you have to have faith and believe he will change your husband!! What we are going through now, is a test from our Lord!! God never puts more on us than we can handle!! I have always believed that God is getting me prepared, through my sitution to help someone that is going through the same thing, and I suppose as we see today, the saying is true!!! This will all pass away in time just like everything else. You will see....Oh you will see... God is with you , and he knows everything! My prayers are with you, and your husband! And I pray that God will shower his love down on your husband to love you by his actions everyday, in the love that God has for him to love you as his wife!! If you ever need to talk I am here for you! God Bless you, ~Angelface~

 

[devoted daughter]

AMEN, GENTLE HEART!!!
You and your husband are in my prayers