- Jul 30, 2016
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- Faith
- Non-Denom
- Marital Status
- Married
- Politics
- US-Republican
My husband unexpectedly passed on June 7, 2020.
We were married for nearly 35 years and 33 of those years were riddled with verbal and emotional abuse. I prayed since 1991 when I became born again that the Lord would heal my husband and our marriage. Just a month before my husband passed and just before his 77th birthday, my husband admitted that he was abusive and vowed to change no matter what. He purchased a slew of books and workbooks to work on and change his abusive and controlling behaviors. For the first time in our marriage he was kinder and gentler. I got to see a glimpse of the man I had prayed he'd become. He left this earth and went home to be with the Lord soon after.
So now I'm working on grief which right now is shock/denial and relief from my husband's daily abuse.
And I suffer from Complex PTSD from extreme childhood abuse and witnessing many deaths. So far my husband's death isn't triggering me. Though that could happen at any time because death is a trigger.
We were married for nearly 35 years and 33 of those years were riddled with verbal and emotional abuse. I prayed since 1991 when I became born again that the Lord would heal my husband and our marriage. Just a month before my husband passed and just before his 77th birthday, my husband admitted that he was abusive and vowed to change no matter what. He purchased a slew of books and workbooks to work on and change his abusive and controlling behaviors. For the first time in our marriage he was kinder and gentler. I got to see a glimpse of the man I had prayed he'd become. He left this earth and went home to be with the Lord soon after.
So now I'm working on grief which right now is shock/denial and relief from my husband's daily abuse.
And I suffer from Complex PTSD from extreme childhood abuse and witnessing many deaths. So far my husband's death isn't triggering me. Though that could happen at any time because death is a trigger.