stargrl232
The Caring Angel
- Aug 20, 2018
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My husband just said that Monday he will be speaking to a lawyer to divorce me. He says I am stupid. When I asked him about the promises he made to me, till death do us part, he said I am dead to him. He said he'll be happy when I am gone.
He doesn't like it when I defend myself, he only remembers what I might have said in response to his comments, nothing about the hurtful things he said. I am very distracted and clumsy.
He sounds like he hates me. I said we could go for counseling but he said he wouldn't go see someone who knows less of the Bible than he does.
He even threw a paper towel roll that was almost full in my face.
Please pray for healing of our marriage.
If we divorce, I will need serious counselling because I think I am starting to believe I am stupid.
Sorry to hear that your husband wants to divorce u and treating u that way.
(Comfort hugs)God loves u just the way u are just not believe u are stupid love yourself.He saying u are stupid is sbusive behavior.
And if he not go counseling and also he wants to do that of divorce let him.
But ask God and also if it is abusive or cheating it is ok to divorce.But other than that to stay together.
And looks like you tried saying to go counseling good first step but he not want to.
And if he loves you he would go for u
and also he should not throw the paper towel at you.Not right if u stay any longer he might hurt you.
Physically.
Stay away from mentally and physically men.
That is how some get’s injured or killed.
Stay safe.Christian Counseling should be good cause they know the Bible.
He should not assume they not know.
He is not the only one in the world that knows the Bible.
And if he knows the Bible he would not be treating u this way.
The Bible wants men to love their wives like they love the church.
To have patience.
And love.
Christian marriages can fall apart.
Satan is doing that.
And he loves to destroy.
When one is weak and listens to Satan than they will not follow the Bible.
God will never forsake u.
And pray to God everyday stay strong in our Lord no matter what.And knows that God loves u unconditionally.
Read the Bible everyday.
I am praying for u!
I understand how u feel.
If u need counseling seek Christian ones cause world advice will be different from the Bible.
U want to follow what God and the Bible wants.
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