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Well, it looks like I finally found the correct thread to post on, I hope.
I am a 40 y.o. wife of 2 yrs and mother to a beautiful 1 1/2 y.o. baby boy.
I'm not quite sure where to start, not wanting to go on for days, but basically, it seems my marriage is heading for divorce.
My husband is 35 y.o. whose life is consumed by computer game playing. If left to do as he pleases, he will easily spend 12+ hours (2-5hrs on average) straight playing with no acknowledgement of me and our son. No regard for the rest of the world, our lives, etc.
There are other problems (financial/hygiene/cleanliness/temper/toughness/general inconsideration & carelessness) as well, but this seems to be the biggest and the basis of many of our problems and conflicts.
I'm not quite sure what type of outcome I am seeking here, but I guess I've just gotten to my whits ends and feel like I have few options and places to turn. I think getting Christian perspectives on this is very important to me as well.
My husband and I have struggled with trying to mend this marriage for all 2 years now. We have sought counseling...3 to be exact, 1 was our pastor. Nothing seemed to help and bring about any real change. It has completely worn me down and more than anything, I am concerned about my son's well being. This environment he has experienced is not healthy.
I guess ultimately, I feel like my husband has already abandoned us.
Any advice/help/information, particularly from those in similar situations, is very welcomed. I would kindly appreciate any prayers, as well.
God bless you.
I am a 40 y.o. wife of 2 yrs and mother to a beautiful 1 1/2 y.o. baby boy.
I'm not quite sure where to start, not wanting to go on for days, but basically, it seems my marriage is heading for divorce.
My husband is 35 y.o. whose life is consumed by computer game playing. If left to do as he pleases, he will easily spend 12+ hours (2-5hrs on average) straight playing with no acknowledgement of me and our son. No regard for the rest of the world, our lives, etc.
There are other problems (financial/hygiene/cleanliness/temper/toughness/general inconsideration & carelessness) as well, but this seems to be the biggest and the basis of many of our problems and conflicts.
I'm not quite sure what type of outcome I am seeking here, but I guess I've just gotten to my whits ends and feel like I have few options and places to turn. I think getting Christian perspectives on this is very important to me as well.
My husband and I have struggled with trying to mend this marriage for all 2 years now. We have sought counseling...3 to be exact, 1 was our pastor. Nothing seemed to help and bring about any real change. It has completely worn me down and more than anything, I am concerned about my son's well being. This environment he has experienced is not healthy.
I guess ultimately, I feel like my husband has already abandoned us.
Any advice/help/information, particularly from those in similar situations, is very welcomed. I would kindly appreciate any prayers, as well.
God bless you.