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Husband having a rough time
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He hasn't been sued yet, the company just got a lien letter from an attorney, which is usually done to try to settle before suing.
My boss thinks he should sue her for slander now to get everything on the table now so it can be forced to a head - I kind of agree with him.
I think what the plan is, is that not only are loss prevention collecting information to fire her, but for use in a counterclaim for slander if she sues.
This must be a bad week for people in my family doing the right thing. My mom told me last night that A was asked to forge a client's signature on a form and process it. She refused. Her supervisor persisted, she went over his head. Long story short, he tried to say that she was committing the forgery, he wasn't believed, and was fired. He's been leaving threatening messages on her voice mail at work so A has to get a restraining order.
My boss thinks he should sue her for slander now to get everything on the table now so it can be forced to a head - I kind of agree with him.
I think what the plan is, is that not only are loss prevention collecting information to fire her, but for use in a counterclaim for slander if she sues.
This must be a bad week for people in my family doing the right thing. My mom told me last night that A was asked to forge a client's signature on a form and process it. She refused. Her supervisor persisted, she went over his head. Long story short, he tried to say that she was committing the forgery, he wasn't believed, and was fired. He's been leaving threatening messages on her voice mail at work so A has to get a restraining order.
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Me too. However, even though winning lawsuits pays my salary, I know that taking that step, can mean more troubles than it is worth, and this should be brought to a conclusion without anyone filing suit if at all possible.
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Hubby heard second hand that this will soon be resolved in his favor. I'm praying and keeping my fingers crossed.
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Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. My wife went through something similar last January. She's in childcare and was accused by a co-worker of hitting a child. It was a "eye witness" accusation. No bruises, no other eye-witnesses, nothing. The very thought of abusing a child is something that both my wife and I are strongly disgusted with. Needless to say, she was terminated while eight months pregnant. Luckily the kids parents didn't pursue a suit..
We discussed a law suit against the company for defamation of charact and flalse accusations. Our family was pushing for it, but we decided to leave it in God's hands. The job stressed my wife out and management was very unsympathetic to her pregnancy. We viewed it as God's way of ensuring our baby would be healthy, and she turned out to be. A few months later, my wife got a job at another child care center. (one that the director of her former employer despises) She was upfront with accusations and they believed her. She was given her own class and was offered an assistant director's position about six months later. The new center is very well organized and the management is very good to their people.
We got through it and it turned out for the better. We didn't have to go to battle and my wife ended up with at a great center. As for her former employer... last we heard from a friend that still works there, enrollment's down, morale is poor, turn over's high and the center's time is limited.
May seems like my words may be going no where, but everything worked out well for us thanks to our faith in the Lord.
Thankfully your husband has a lot of support for behind, I pray everything will turn out well.
God bless - K'pelli
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. My wife went through something similar last January. She's in childcare and was accused by a co-worker of hitting a child. It was a "eye witness" accusation. No bruises, no other eye-witnesses, nothing. The very thought of abusing a child is something that both my wife and I are strongly disgusted with. Needless to say, she was terminated while eight months pregnant. Luckily the kids parents didn't pursue a suit..
We discussed a law suit against the company for defamation of charact and flalse accusations. Our family was pushing for it, but we decided to leave it in God's hands. The job stressed my wife out and management was very unsympathetic to her pregnancy. We viewed it as God's way of ensuring our baby would be healthy, and she turned out to be. A few months later, my wife got a job at another child care center. (one that the director of her former employer despises) She was upfront with accusations and they believed her. She was given her own class and was offered an assistant director's position about six months later. The new center is very well organized and the management is very good to their people.
We got through it and it turned out for the better. We didn't have to go to battle and my wife ended up with at a great center. As for her former employer... last we heard from a friend that still works there, enrollment's down, morale is poor, turn over's high and the center's time is limited.
May seems like my words may be going no where, but everything worked out well for us thanks to our faith in the Lord.
Thankfully your husband has a lot of support for behind, I pray everything will turn out well.
God bless - K'pelli
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