My friend has pushed me out of his life for a stupid reason, it really hurts, I can't stop crying I want to yell at him and hurt him for hurting me. I don't know what to do he was one of my very few friends, why?I don't want to name the reason, this all hurts so much, i can't stop crying.
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Kisa,Kisa said:
I am sorry this happened. Sometimes we never know all of the thoughts a friend has going on. Issues, baggage, stress, etc. all play a role in how our relationships develop. Pray for your friend...give him some space...then about a week or so, drop him an email, ecard or snail mail a note to him.
God bless,
Jerry
Psalm 51...the last part!
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Kisa said:
Hi Kisa
I understand how you feel. It always hurt when people push us away. What you need to learn and get this into your heart and into your spirit is that man's rejection is God's protection.
Do not lash out being spiteful. Vengeance belongs to the Lord. Allow God to use this situation to draw you closer to Him. Don't allow the enemy to mess with your mind by having you think your not worthy to have friends that you are the problem. All of that is a lie to get you to walk away from God not believing that He wants you. God loves you so much, allow Him to minister to you during this time and you will see that hurt people, hurt people because that's all they know. Forgive your friend and lift them up in prayer, loving them like Christ loves the church.
God Bless and pray
that God's supernatural peace comes upon you NOW, in Jesus name!
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Don't hesitate to let God comfort you. Turn the pain into something positive by letting it lead you closer to God, the friend who never lets us down.
I guess that's pretty much an unavoidable part of life. Losing friends I mean. The only advice I can give is: If he did something wrong, forgive him. If he doesn't want to be friends, forgive him anyway and move on. If he wants to be friends, that's great. If you did something wrong, ask for forgiveness.
But don't leave any hate or anger hanging around. Forgiving someone doesn't mean approving or endorcing their behaviour, it simply means putting the matter to rest and stopping it from affecting you, and leaving the door open for reconciliation in the future.
I guess that's pretty much an unavoidable part of life. Losing friends I mean. The only advice I can give is: If he did something wrong, forgive him. If he doesn't want to be friends, forgive him anyway and move on. If he wants to be friends, that's great. If you did something wrong, ask for forgiveness.
But don't leave any hate or anger hanging around. Forgiving someone doesn't mean approving or endorcing their behaviour, it simply means putting the matter to rest and stopping it from affecting you, and leaving the door open for reconciliation in the future.
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I am so sorry.People leave our lives for strange reasons,sometimes stupid and he will regret it,you will see. I'll be your friend.
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Kisa, I agree with the above advice and I'm praying for you. If you ever want to talk, I'm only a PM away 
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Hey, Krisa. As with Steffi, I agree with the advice already given. I will keep you in my prayers!
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This is a blessing in disguise because you found out that he wasn't your true friend. Remember when one door cloeses God has something a trillion times better for you. He is faithful like that
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