Human behaviour that you hate

[Tirgithin]

I would not say I “hate” anything. Just that I have to some degree a dislike for something or that it can irritate me.

I don’t like it if people lie for no reason at all, about minor things. Like how much something costs (instead of saying it cost 3,- they say it cost 1,-…why lie about something so trivial?).

I personally don’t like confrontational people. Everyone fights now and then, but I am not good with people who are ready to fight.

In the same sort of vein, pushy people. People who just waltz over others, without consideration of the other person.

People who are "mean" gossipers or just relay everything which has been said, without ill intentions.

Overly pessimistic/paranoid/critical people. Especially when they complain about how terrible their country is, while sitting in a nice home, with food on the table, running water, all sorts of luxuries and overall a good life.

Parents who don't raise their children properly and turn them into mini-teenagers.

Copy-cats. People who run with your hardwork, jokes, whatever and take credit.

Casual attitude towards animal wellfare. Like how people carelessly buy pets (don't go to a shelter) and end up not taking care of them properly.

 

[Blank123]

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[SnowyMacie]

I find human behavior interesting. There is a lot behavior I don't like but tolerate, but probably only hate would be ELITISM

 

[Going Merry]

Serious people irk me

 

[Saucy]

I hate it when someone just tells you to "get over it" when you're dealing with something. I can't find anything more rude than that because you more than likely don't understand that person and what kind of pain they're going through. Certain things change you and it takes time to grow and get adjusted to the changes.

Like when my dad died, I have people telling me to get over it. It happened a few years ago. When your dad gets crushed to death in a work accident, then you lose the house and everything you own and struggle to get on your feet because of it, you don't just "get over it". It has changes you forever. You learn to cope and it gets better over time...but on your time, not when someone else thinks you should be over it.

Some people just have no concept of mercy and love and understanding when someone else is in pain and struggling. And that's born purely out of selfishness.

 

[Calvinator]

I hate it when someone just tells you to "get over it" when you're dealing with something. I can't find anything more rude than that because you more than likely don't understand that person and what kind of pain they're going through. Certain things change you and it takes time to grow and get adjusted to the changes.

Like when my dad died, I have people telling me to get over it. It happened a few years ago. When your dad gets crushed to death in a work accident, then you lose the house and everything you own and struggle to get on your feet because of it, you don't just "get over it". It has changes you forever. You learn to cope and it gets better over time...but on your time, not when someone else thinks you should be over it.

Some people just have no concept of mercy and love and understanding when someone else is in pain and struggling. And that's born purely out of selfishness.

Sorry to hear about your dad, Saucy. How terrible.

Just one comment on your last line. It's not always out of selfishness, oftentimes it is just out of ignorance. People without empathy are sometimes people who have never experienced real loss.

 

[HotRhymez]

lol wow..how many hours you got? I could post in this thread all day.

-People who hold grudges
-People who wont forgive me or believe me
-People who block me for months without telling me why and just tell me to get over it
-People who troll internet message boards
-People who think all rap suck or that its all about violence/sex/drugs/etc
-People that tell me that I'm crazy and I need a counselor or whatever
-People that think all Christians are like what you see in the Westboro Baptist Church, etc
-People that think Justin Bieber is good.
-Bronies
-Furries


Maybe I just don't like people in general. I dunno.

 

[Spunkn]

I hate it when someone just tells you to "get over it" when you're dealing with something. I can't find anything more rude than that because you more than likely don't understand that person and what kind of pain they're going through. Certain things change you and it takes time to grow and get adjusted to the changes.

Like when my dad died, I have people telling me to get over it. It happened a few years ago. When your dad gets crushed to death in a work accident, then you lose the house and everything you own and struggle to get on your feet because of it, you don't just "get over it". It has changes you forever. You learn to cope and it gets better over time...but on your time, not when someone else thinks you should be over it.

Some people just have no concept of mercy and love and understanding when someone else is in pain and struggling. And that's born purely out of selfishness.

I was told that over and over, and over again during depression. Just get over it. By counselors (even a "Christian counselor), by friends, by family. Granted, my family didn't really know what was going on and didn't know how to deal with it so of course I could forgive them. But man did I get sick of hearing that.

Ticked me off. A lot.

 

[Toro]

-People that tell me that I'm crazy and I need a counselor or whatever

-Furries

- IF I had a penny......... Id be a rich man.

- Furries?

 

[HotRhymez]

- IF I had a penny......... Id be a rich man.

- Furries?

People who dress up as animals and give them human characteristics. Its exactly what you think it is. And these aren't just little kids, adults are doing this. Just like with bronies.

Sad, isn't it?

 

[Saucy]

I was told that over and over, and over again during depression. Just get over it. By counselors (even a "Christian counselor), by friends, by family. Granted, my family didn't really know what was going on and didn't know how to deal with it so of course I could forgive them. But man did I get sick of hearing that.

Ticked me off. A lot.

It's very frustrating. All you need is a hug or someone to sit there and at least try to listen, but they don't. They'd rather judge you. I've changed and grown a lot, even in the last few months. But all the things I've done that people didn't like about me...were born from that pain. Most people (especially Americans) have no clue what it's like to lose literally everything...the person closest to you (like a father who was still very young), all their possessions, stripped down literally to nothing and when I needed help and trying to climb out of the pit, falling apart in my own grief I get, "just get over it." I get mocked and ridiculed just for asking for help.

But that's the past and I'm focused on my future. I think I'm finally reaching that stage of acceptance and learning how to deal with that kind of grief. Like, when it happens, what do you do with it? How do you handle it? I'm sure a hundred of you can tell me how to handle it, but when you're there in that moment, struck by so much pain, grief, agony, fear...what do you do?? And on top of just that in the past few years, literally a lifetime of abuse and being raped. My life has been a tragedy. I can count the number of good years I've had on one hand and they were when my dad finally got out of jail, got his life straight and we moved to Michigan and then he was killed. It's hard.

This isn't to whine "woe is me, my life is hard", but I'm just saying there is MUCH more to a person than you can ever imagine. And that desire to put everyone into a box is frustrating. Rather than deal with the pain someone else is going through, we just say "get over it" or "God will help you through it". But what if God put YOU into MY life to help me through???

We are the church body. We are God's hands and feet and we need to help and love each other. It doesn't matter how busy you are or what is going on in your life, absolutely NOTHING is more important than showing love, kindness and empathy to another person who is struggling, except for leading that person to Christ. It's why we exist. The early church had it right when they were one giant family and no one had any lack. I wish we were more united and stopped hating each other over petty, stupid differences that don't matter and actually live the life Christ called us to live.

 

[Spunkn]

It's an unfortunate part of life. People make assumptions about other people's situations, their lives, how they view things, how they deal with things etc.

Everyone is different, rarely do we ever know the full story about someone until we get to know them extremely well.

We have to be careful not to have an opinion or give advice to people when we may not fully understand the situation (or at least not without giving it a little thought beforehand). Our own ways of dealing with something, may come across as insulting to someone else, or just flat out not work. Not everyone is out to make us feel bad for struggling. Some people just do it because they don't know what else to say. But some people do jump to the wrong conclusion, that you're somehow being weak for struggling with something for so long. That it shouldn't bother you.

That's when it drives me nuts.

It's not fun, when that's all you hear from people. So I'm sorry you've had to put up with that as well. I know how tormenting it is. But there's always one Counselor who's never wrong and that's God. He's always right

 

[Calvinator]

People who dress up as animals and give them human characteristics. Its exactly what you think it is. And these aren't just little kids, adults are doing this. Just like with bronies.

Sad, isn't it?

I'm not sure what I'm supposed to think about the people employed by Theme Parks like Disneyland to put on animal suits and wave and give out hugs?

What does it mean??

 

[MehGuy]

I'm not sure what I'm supposed to think about the people employed by Theme Parks like Disneyland to put on animal suits and wave and give out hugs?

What does it mean??

Furries are people who enjoy dressing up as anthropomorphic animals. For many of them there is a sexual element to it, but it's not required.

It's not my thing, but if one calls themselves a liberal, they better be accepting and supportive of the scene. Besides, we all have our own little interests that might raise an eyebrow in mainstream society, it's best that we learn to be accepting of each other.

This brings up what I hate about other people. I hate those who are inconsistent with their beliefs.

Which is the reason I find it hard not to vomit when having a discussion with most "liberals".

 

[2bituser]

Self-pity.

 

[Calvinator]

Furries are people who enjoy dressing up as anthropomorphic animals. For many of them there is a sexual element to it, but it's not required.

It's not my thing, but if one calls themselves a liberal, they better be accepting and supportive of the scene. Besides, we all have our own little interests that might raise an eyebrow in mainstream society, it's best that we learn to be accepting of each other.

This brings up what I hate about other people. I hate those who are inconsistent with their beliefs.

Which is the reason I find it hard not to vomit when having a discussion with most "liberals".

Interesting. I've never heard of such a thing. Guess I learned something new today. Peoples can be strange.

 

[MehGuy]

Interesting. I've never heard of such a thing. Guess I learned something new today. Peoples can be strange.

Yeah, I haven't heard of them until a couple of years ago. Sadly I was kind of mean to the few that I came in contact with. Since then, I've changed.

The furry lifestyle is a mystery to me. Usually when it comes to scenes/lifestyle, I can understand it somewhat, even if I'm not really into it. Furries is one of the few scenes I flat out don't understand.

 

[Two Scoops]

I hate it when people post pics of themselves on FB to get attention or to feed their ego.

 

[Toro]

People who dress up as animals and give them human characteristics. Its exactly what you think it is. And these aren't just little kids, adults are doing this. Just like with bronies.

Sad, isn't it?

Thanks for the heads up, I will make sure these people stay away from my bunny slippers.

The horror of what they might do to them.

 

[Messy]

knowing everything better and not listening, I hate it!!
(Just lost a useless debate with atheists)
And being so stupid to know everything better and not listen to the Lord, who already told me I shouldn't do it.
Hahaha, what I hate in people, I do myself.