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Hugh Hefner: Joy and Mourning at the Death of an Evil Man

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It’s not surprising. Nevertheless, it turns my stomach to see celebrities in the news praising Hugh Hefner and claiming that he had positive effects on society. Brothers and sisters, the world may be deceived, but among us let there be no illusions. The man was evil.

Heffner and the Porn Industry are Altogether Evil

Heffner’s sinful business consisted of paying young girls to take off their clothes for the sexual pleasure of men. This is a form of prostitution.

Some try to defend this by pointing out that the women were not forced to do this. However, alluring people to sin by offering them fame and money is the work of the devil and those he uses. It is with riches and luxuries that Babylon, the harlot in Revelation, leads the nations to destruction:

NIV Revelation 18:3 For all the nations have drunk the maddening wine of her adulteries. The kings of the earth committed adultery with her, and the merchants of the earth grew rich from her excessive luxuries."

Some claim that Heffner promoted “free speech”. The truth is that he contributed to a twisted and perverse interpretation of the right of free speech. Many have died to procure and protect our freedom of speech. Certainly we agree that it is good for the government to protect the right of people to express a wide range of opinions and views which we disagree with. But this is not the same thing as the publication and sale of photos of naked women. The Supreme Court justices which have treated pornography as free speech, and those who have encouraged them to do so, have twisted a precious freedom into a protection of evil:

NIV Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.

Some claim that Heffner promoted “sexual freedom”. Nothing could be further from the truth. He, and others like him, have led many into slavery to sin.

NIV Romans 6:16 Don't you know that when you offer yourselves to someone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one you obey-- whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness?

The porn industry which Heffner pioneered is a massive flood of many evils. Much pornography portrays violence against women. All pornography involves tempting people to sin by looking with lust (Matthew 5:28). Far from enhancing real intimacy, pornography destroys it. Pornography also works an evil influence on both men and women by promoting a standard of fleeting, outward beauty which is opposed to the true standard of beauty promoted in God’s Word:

NIV 1 Peter 3:3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.
4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.


It is now known that pornography works like an addictive drug. It releases chemicals in the brain which become associated with the pornography. Like other addictions, it is sometimes the case that porn addicts will seek harder, darker, and more extreme forms of pornography over time.

Pornography hurts the people who are in it. Pornography hurts every person who views it. Pornography hurts the family members (spouses and children) of those who view it. It is altogether evil.

So How Do I Feel about Hugh Heffner’s Death?

In a very limited way, I can related to this verse:

NIV Proverbs 11:10 When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy.

Is it wrong to be glad that there is one less rich man using his money to seduce vulnerable young ladies into decisions which will deeply wound their souls? Am I wrong if I’m happy that Heffner’s long celebration and promotion of immorality has come to an end? I hope not, because I do feel those emotions at some level. And yet, I feel them with a sense of trembling because I also remember that God’s Word says:

NIV Ezekiel 18:23 Do I take any pleasure in the death of the wicked? declares the Sovereign LORD. Rather, am I not pleased when they turn from their ways and live?

So I also mourn.

I mourn because it would have been so much better if the wicked man had turned from his ways and lived.

I mourn because Heffner’s death will likely do little if anything to end the massive evil pornographic industry which he helped to produce.

Finally, I mourn because so many of my brothers and sisters in Christ are sharing in his sins.

NIV Revelation 18:4 Then I heard another voice from heaven say: "'Come out of her, my people,' so that you will not share in her sins, so that you will not receive any of her plagues;

This was initially a post on my blog.
 

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Your post seems to be based on the premise that promoting sexual titilation is evil. I'm not saying outright that you're wrong. I'm just thinking about it and not sure.
For example, would you apply the same standard to other pleasures of life that can become sinful? Is a brewer an evil man? Or a coffee producer? Or someone who cures meat? Those products can lead to addictions and behaviour like glutony and drunkeness which there are scriptures against.
Maybe all of those things are evil, or maybe none of them are evil in and of themselves. What do you think?
 
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Your post seems to be based on the premise that promoting sexual titilation is evil. I'm not saying outright that you're wrong. I'm just thinking about it and not sure.
For example, would you apply the same standard to other pleasures of life that can become sinful? Is a brewer an evil man? Or a coffee producer? Or someone who cures meat? Those products can lead to addictions and behaviour like glutony and drunkeness which there are scriptures against.
Maybe all of those things are evil, or maybe none of them are evil in and of themselves. What do you think?

You are talking about different things. The Bible says that sexual sins are against the human body, and very evil. Immorality is destroying this world! Many Christians are trapped with this FILTH that the devil is using. It is a soul destroyer!
 
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Hugh had it all. Fame, fortune, women, a long hedonistic lifestyle most men wished they had...
There was a time, many years ago, when I would feel that way at times. But now, knowing what I know, Hefner's lifestyle absolutely disgusts me. I can't imagine trying to live it even for a moment. And even with Hefner himself, the reality wasn't what he claimed it was. He was impotent with women, and used gay porn. There also is a report that he had a copy of The Purpose Driven Life in his bedroom.

As for being happy or sad, I'm neither. It is what it is with him, and I have no way to judge. But the sin disgusts me.
 
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Certainly, there's nothing good about porn and Hefner should not need to be remembered as having any positive impact. However, I'm not sure that he needs to be cataloged with the great sinners of history. He was an opportunist and a great salesman. Any number of others could have filled his place.
 
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Your post seems to be based on the premise that promoting sexual titilation is evil.

Yes, I absolutely believe that promoting sexual titilation, outside of marriage, is evil.

For example, would you apply the same standard to other pleasures of life that can become sinful? Is a brewer an evil man? Or a coffee producer? Or someone who cures meat? Those products can lead to addictions and behaviour like glutony and drunkeness which there are scriptures against.
Maybe all of those things are evil, or maybe none of them are evil in and of themselves. What do you think?

You ask some good questions.

There are important differences between someone who produces food, which can be abused, and someone who produces pornography.

The production of food does not in and of itself involve sin. The production of pornography does. Typically a woman (and perhaps men, as well) are paid to take off their clothes and pose and or "perform" for the sexual pleasure of others. Being paid to bring sexual pleasure to others is the essence of prostitution. It is degrading and wrong.

Food can be eaten without being abused. Not all use of food is abuse. But all use of pornography is sinful.
 
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It’s not surprising. Nevertheless, it turns my stomach to see celebrities in the news praising Hugh Hefner and claiming that he had positive effects on society. Brothers and sisters, the world may be deceived, but among us let there be no illusions. The man was evil.

Heffner and the Porn Industry are Altogether Evil

Heffner’s sinful business consisted of paying young girls to take off their clothes for the sexual pleasure of men. This is a form of prostitution.

Some try to defend this by pointing out that the women were not forced to do this. However, alluring people to sin by offering them fame and money is the work of the devil and those he uses. It is with riches and luxuries that Babylon, the harlot in Revelation, leads the nations to destruction:

NIV Revelation 18:3 For all the nations have drunk the maddening wine of her adulteries. The kings of the earth committed adultery with her, and the merchants of the earth grew rich from her excessive luxuries."

Some claim that Heffner promoted “free speech”. The truth is that he contributed to a twisted and perverse interpretation of the right of free speech. Many have died to procure and protect our freedom of speech. Certainly we agree that it is good for the government to protect the right of people to express a wide range of opinions and views which we disagree with. But this is not the same thing as the publication and sale of photos of naked women. The Supreme Court justices which have treated pornography as free speech, and those who have encouraged them to do so, have twisted a precious freedom into a protection of evil:

NIV Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.

Some claim that Heffner promoted “sexual freedom”. Nothing could be further from the truth. He, and others like him, have led many into slavery to sin.

NIV Romans 6:16 Don't you know that when you offer yourselves to someone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one you obey-- whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness?

The porn industry which Heffner pioneered is a massive flood of many evils. Much pornography portrays violence against women. All pornography involves tempting people to sin by looking with lust (Matthew 5:28). Far from enhancing real intimacy, pornography destroys it. Pornography also works an evil influence on both men and women by promoting a standard of fleeting, outward beauty which is opposed to the true standard of beauty promoted in God’s Word:

NIV 1 Peter 3:3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.
4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.


It is now known that pornography works like an addictive drug. It releases chemicals in the brain which become associated with the pornography. Like other addictions, it is sometimes the case that porn addicts will seek harder, darker, and more extreme forms of pornography over time.

Pornography hurts the people who are in it. Pornography hurts every person who views it. Pornography hurts the family members (spouses and children) of those who view it. It is altogether evil.

So How Do I Feel about Hugh Heffner’s Death?

In a very limited way, I can related to this verse:

NIV Proverbs 11:10 When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy.

Is it wrong to be glad that there is one less rich man using his money to seduce vulnerable young ladies into decisions which will deeply wound their souls? Am I wrong if I’m happy that Heffner’s long celebration and promotion of immorality has come to an end? I hope not, because I do feel those emotions at some level. And yet, I feel them with a sense of trembling because I also remember that God’s Word says:

NIV Ezekiel 18:23 Do I take any pleasure in the death of the wicked? declares the Sovereign LORD. Rather, am I not pleased when they turn from their ways and live?

So I also mourn.

I mourn because it would have been so much better if the wicked man had turned from his ways and lived.

I mourn because Heffner’s death will likely do little if anything to end the massive evil pornographic industry which he helped to produce.

Finally, I mourn because so many of my brothers and sisters in Christ are sharing in his sins.

NIV Revelation 18:4 Then I heard another voice from heaven say: "'Come out of her, my people,' so that you will not share in her sins, so that you will not receive any of her plagues;

This was initially a post on my blog.
Yet God had no pleasure in his death ...
 
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Yet God had no pleasure in his death ...

I entirely agree that God had no pleasure in his death. God would rather have seen him turn from his sins and find forgiveness in Christ Jesus. There's no evidence that I'm aware of that this happened, but only God knows for sure.
 
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I entirely agree that God had no pleasure in his death. God would rather have seen him turn from his sins and find forgiveness in Christ Jesus. There's no evidence that I'm aware of that this happened, but only God knows for sure.

The rightousness that is by faith speaks a certain way ...
 
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The rightousness that is by faith speaks a certain way ...

I honestly do not understand what point you are trying to make or idea you are trying to convey here.
 
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I honestly do not understand what point you are trying to make or idea you are trying to convey here.

Balance ... if I were one of the twelve that searched out the land, I would have been one of the ten.
 
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Well only God an truly judge Hefner, as who knows the state of his heart before he died. However what he did was truly evil, yet if he did not, someone else would take his place. Those that take Hefner place, it be best to pray for them, so they an turn to the Lord and repent then turn from their ways.
 
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