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How Would You React If a Close Sibling Was Gay?

Murdock

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I would treat him the same way I treat any unbliever: pass along the gospel to him and pray for him.
 
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LoveAlways

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I'd sign him up for Exodus International and book his plane ticket.

Seriously. I've been wanting to write a mystery series with a protagonist who has been through one of those programs and struggles with self-hate, yet knowing who he really is inside, all while smartly solving crimes. I could really use a man on the inside.

But back to the real world.... I love my brother, but as far as I can tell he has two emotions: hungry and not hungry. It would come as a big shock, not only that he is gay, but that he bothered to tell us.
 
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I LOVE this post!!!!!
 
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I hope you will write that book!
 
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Jessica Lauren

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Hhahahahaha. Nice.
 
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But back to the real world.... I love my brother, but as far as I can tell he has two emotions: hungry and not hungry. It would come as a big shock, not only that he is gay, but that he bothered to tell us.

My personal experience dealing with that particular genus, is that they do have two emotions, hungry and hungrier, with an occasional episode of, "I'm starved don't we have anything to eat in this house?"
 
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Aber wir lieben deutsch!

Maar nederlands is heel erg beter
LOL, love the German and Dutch in this thread!

I can't really answer as my only sibling is heterosexual, but one of my husband's sisters is gay. I have never known her without knowing of her homosexuality so it never was a surprise or shock to me, and of course she is not as close to me as a blood sister, but still she's pretty close and I love her very much and I accept her for who she is. She's not a christian, and of course I wish she were - I suspect that her church's view on homosexuality has had a lot to do with her leaving the church.

As far as I know, she's single and chaste - but I'm not her chaperonne, and she doesn't need to tell me everything.
 
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