How to react if a girl flirts with you?

[MarkSB]

I pretty much always assume a girl is just being nice unless I'm absolutely sure that she is flirting, and there's only one or two times in recent (or somewhat recent ) memory where I was absolutely sure.

Waitresses I always assume that they are just being nice. I was eating lunch one day by myself and the waitress actually sat down and talked to me while I ate (it was dead and she didn't have any other tables). It was kind of nice, and it made me feel 'special' I guess.

It didn't feel like she was flirting though, and asking for her number would have been just stupid IMO and could have ruined an otherwise good lunch. Some friendly encounters are best left at friendly encounters IMO. Maybe that's part of the reason why I'm still single, but I tend to think not.

 

[Owlette]

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[Owlette]

Oh, me too. I smother very easily if someone wants any amount of time from me. Which is why I'm still single and probably should stay that way.

There are guys out there who are the same way. You never know.

 

[Saucy]

I just straight-up ask women to marry me. That never turns out well for some reason...



lol jk

 

[Owlette]

^Lol

 

[Owlette]

Ugh, yes. I get smothered extremely easily. Him flirting right off the bat would be way too much for me.

I want to add some more to this but I'm on my phone, soo...alas.

We are like twins, I swear

 

[Nanopants]

Yeah sometimes I'm just being friendly and have zero intention of flirting. I hope people don't misinterpret that. If I like a guy, I'd be more likely to be really shy towards him

Well, to catch a doe using your headlights could work...

 

[Owlette]

^Ooo, is that an analogy? Depends on what the headlights represent!

 

[Nanopants]

Heh...

My headlights typically resemble something like:

O_O


So far they haven't worked very well.

 

[Owlette]

My headlights typically resemble something like:

O_O

Lol

 

[redblue22]

here comes that girl. Whether she is being flirty or friendly, both are acceptable. I don't need certainty. I don't need a bunch of rules and definitions to overthink anything. Am I friendly to other girls? Darn straight I am. I'm not worried about what our time together is called.

take this special woman in my life. mom, I think you're beautiful, and I'm happy you are back to health.




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