How to react if a girl flirts with you?

[TanteBelle]

Oh you'll know.

Trust me, you'll know.

Really? See, in my household, blokes don't wear nice smelling sprays. They always smelled like dirt or greese or whatever. So to me, all those pretty smelling blokes would choke me anyway! LOL!

 

[trentlogain2]

/bump

 

[wannaberocker]

Stop, Drop and Roll.

 

[MehGuy]

Tell an adult or a trusted authority figure.

Yeah, even if this trusted authority figure is a kid..

 

[GQ Chris]

Thread necromancy. 2010, wow.

 

[SnowyMacie]

I generally will flirt back.

 

[sk8brdkd]

i'm a Huge flirt and I know it. I'm trying to back down from that a bit but, I actually have a difficult time telling when a guy is flirting w/ me and/or he likes me and i tend to confuse some guys too when flirting w/ them bc they don't know what to think even though i think my actions are pretty obvious...

 

[Paulie079]

Single threads are single

 

[David Waffen]

Thank yall for your advice/replies...

One of my other significant problems is that I'm very nervous around girls, it's hard and almost impossible for me to get to talk to them unless I know them really well. Is there a way to overcome that?

alcohol?

 

[redblue22]

I tilt my head with a smile, look her in the eyes, lower voice, "Are you trying to flirt with me?" Keep smiling.

 

[Niels]

I might flirt back if she seems interesting enough. Otherwise, I just try to be pleasant.

 

[bluegreysky]

well, I AM a girl, so I be like... "uhm............ ew"

 

[redblue22]

or a little slap and tickle.

.

 

[trentlogain2]

Tell her my heart already belongs to another man. Then when she looks at me like I'm weird or something, tell her.."yeah girl..I'm in love with Jesus alone. THanks neway

 

[Nom De Guerre]

Ignore them if they're not my type, and ask them what their weekend plans are if they are...see what kind of person they are when they're not in-front of me, if it's interesting talk to them about their interests, if they pass through those queries, then ask them if they want to hang out some afternoon/evening.

Crack a few jokes, smile with my eyes, and bam... got a date later-on.

I don't know what to tell you...women are easy, they all generally want to be appreciated, it's usually their fantasy that'll help decide whether or not you can create their dream world. This is where I think most people are idiots, so I'll leave out the next few things I want to say. And there you have it, basically all you have to do is show a few subtle glances and get them talking about themselves.

 

[ImperatorWall]

It took decades of training, but I am immune to their flirtatious wiles.

 

[redblue22]

Flirt back. maybe ask them to pull up a chair and talk about who she is.

 

[leothelioness]

I don't flirt.

 

[Deidre32]

Define flirting. I don't consider myself flirtatious...but rather friendly with people I don't know. I look at flirtatiousness as someone exhibiting interest.

When men flirt with me, I can tell what it is, but when I read things about women flirting with guys...since, I'm not very flirty, I wonder what that ''looks'' like?

My thought though to all of this is, if a guy flirts with me not knowing me at all ...I assume he does this with others. And he probably does. Like he's fishing. lol If he keeps casting out the bait, someone will bite. To me, that's a turn off...but to each's own.

 

[Owlette]

^That's a great question... I was kind of wondering how people defined flirting too