FaithPrevails
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It is possible that his absence not just from your life, but the kids' lives, as well, is what is triggering him to be so strongly on your heart and mind. It is super frustrating when a parent can't/doesn't make their relationship with their child(ren) a priority.
Maybe just focus on the kiddos and organizing your time with them. If/when he calls, it is up to them if they want to deviate what they already have planned out. KWIM? Keep them active and busy and hopefully the notable absence of their father will become less notable as they involve themselves in things.
It doesn't mean that you or they will never miss him or long for his presence/involvement. But you all can and should do your best to lead a meaningful life despite his absence.
Maybe just focus on the kiddos and organizing your time with them. If/when he calls, it is up to them if they want to deviate what they already have planned out. KWIM? Keep them active and busy and hopefully the notable absence of their father will become less notable as they involve themselves in things.
It doesn't mean that you or they will never miss him or long for his presence/involvement. But you all can and should do your best to lead a meaningful life despite his absence.
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