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How to define what is a Christian?

sezertii

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Hello all,
Is a Christian one that just reads the Bible, can quote the many things inside and recite like a taped recording or more? Is a Christian even a person who has read or knows the Bible? According to Jesus, perhaps not! I would define a Christian a person who has a certain way of life. Let's face it, most of the early Christians wouldn't have been able to read but would have known what it means to be a follower of "The Way". In the Bible we do see examples of this, The Good Samaritan, Ruth etc... etc... This then maybe means we are foolish to assume that a non-Christian is not good if not perhaps even better than the one's who hold the title Christian. Perhaps it equally means that we would be fools to assume that anyone that claims the title of being a Christian is necessarily good ("Note most of the Sicilian and Italian Mafia are Catholic by tradition").

So what is it to truly be a Christian? In my mind, my current girlfriend is who in fact strengthens my determination to be better. However she is not a Christian nor until recently knew of it or took interest in it. Before knowing her, she has engaged in many practices, she is Chinese and we live in China. She gives blood and has pity on others especially the poor (note poor here literally means to have nothing. There is no support mechanism. no work = no eat). When planning our lives, as we intend to marry as I am quite ambitious her comment was "When we have enough money can we help people?". A woman who has not read the bible, knows little of it (I by my own decision have decided long long ago that I would not impose my faith upon her directly or indirectly. I possess no crosses, trinkets or even a bible. I read the Gospel online. I personally believe a person will be convinced by my actions as a Christian not by other means). She has personally investigated Christianity and informed me of it after the fact. I do answer her questions but still I'm not at liberty to make it my big evangelical project. Jesus himself influenced us by action not by promoting his recent best seller or his recent merchandise. But it is incredible I think of my girlfriend, one who has grown up as a communist to believe "Religion is the opium of the people", to have not read the bible and know little of it. Yet would be that much more Christian than me.

My conclusion is that being a Christian is the nature of a persons soul. Belonging to a church, knowing the book, quoting the psalms, wearing the trinkets do not define a Christian at all. In my mind, my girlfriend who long before China opened up was doing the best she can, not being from a wealthy family still willing to commit herself to aiding the next person, is the true Christian. In this personally, I am much less of a Christian than her since I had never thought about it. We need to keep in mind, God is all around us. Even the non believer can teach us what it is to be holy and what it is to be moral. We need to remember that books do not write people, but people write books. How many of us have been lost in the bible and ignored true action? How many of us recite prescribed prayer yet neglect to offer the true prayer?
 

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I agree with you ,sezertii. Jesus Himself said "Not everyone who says to me Lord,Lord shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven....."See Matthew 7: 21 - 27

However salvation or being a Christian is accepting Jesus as personal saviour, believing that Jesus Christ died to save us from our sins. We are not saved by the works we do but by grace through faith in Christ Jesus i.e , accepting Christ as our saviour ,trusting and obeying Him and submitting to His will. He then gives us this internal conversion to be able to do good works.

You and your girlfriend are in my prayers.

elsieg :groupray:
 
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Well said, :amen:

I do believe the word "Christian" has been over used and over associated with both people and organizations that do not do the word justice. I myself prefer the word "believer" for 2 reasons.

The obvious reason is your not tied to an individuals view of what a "Christian" is and the other is it prompts a person to ask what you are a believer of, opening the door for discusion.

Hope this helps!

Rev_Bill
 
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The word "Christian" means to be Christ-like. One who acts like Christ in their demeanor and behavior. No, it doesn't mean BEING Christ, but acting like Him to the best of their ability. The bible says that you will know them by their fruit. The fruit of the Spirit is kindness, joy, love, peace and many others. I do not believe a person can walk around cursing up a storm and call themselves a Christian. They may be a "believer" but a Christian?

My pastor preached a sermon once that said a person cannot call himself a Christian, but only others around him. Basically speaking, it means that the people who witness the way the person lives can smile and say, "now that person loves Christ!" They walk around with peace, show love and kindess to other people. When others hurt them, they turn the other cheek and often give the shirts on their backs to make sure someone else is comfortable. Read the bible...see the way Christ was and try to follow Him the best you can. His disciples were Christ-like. They made mistakes, of course, but followed to the best of their ability.
 
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I disagree with two things here. I don't think people get faith by seeing the live of Christians, and I don't believe there is salvation by doing good deeds.

Rom 10,17 So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.

If no one ever told me about Jesus, then I would never have found the faith.

I too got a non-Christian girlfriend that is a good girl, she is a much better person then me, but I really want to tell her about Jesus, cause I think she would like Christianity if she understood it, so I am hoping I will find a good time to talk about this one day, and in the meantime I am asking if she wants to come to church every Sunday. She never get mad at me for asking, and I am hoping she will say yes.

If it were about how good people we are, then I would have no hope of heaven. I only hope that there is enough mercy even for me, and I am sure that no matter what people do in life, all of us are going to need mercy before our days are done here on earth.
 
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The principle of doing good, comes from God.

But because we cannot be saved by our works, unless Christ has been accepted as our personal saviour, then we cannot be considered to be saved.

It is only by the blood of Christ that we are a Christian - a follower of Christ, not because we act in Christian ways, or we would have no need for a saviour
 
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