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how should we be for the unsaved..??

Big Jase

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hello...

i have my own theories on how i should be around unsaved people and how i should be for someone unsaved.... as christians our job is to make desiples....
my theory is affective.....but i want to put a question out to all the other christains on this site..... how would they go about getting a person saved...?

God Bless

Big Jase
 

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I think we should be the kinds of people they admire and respect; we should be more honest, more compassionate, and, perhaps most surprisingly to many people, more humble. We should do these things, not to our own glory, but to God's. If I appear patient, it is better that I admit to my failings, and give God credit for helping me, than that I turn it into an excuse to claim I'm better than other people; obviously, I'm not.

"Preach always. Use words when necessary."

As a side note, I have no idea how to tell whether or not someone is unsaved, so just to be on the safe side, I try to be like this for all people.
 
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We should be friendly, kindly helpful folk, with no fancy airs about ourselves, willing to believe the best and love others in truth and deeds.People should know us by our deeds and how well we live our lives, instead of just by our lip service to God. Of course that is difficult to display here at this forum where words are the necessary form of communication. Yes, some people preach that aren't called to it by gift, but there is no substitute for the power of the Holy Spirit in God's Word which is alive and makes alive, not returning to God void until it accomplishes His will. Jesus commands us to preach the Word, and Timothy, to preach it in season and out. Also, if we mistreat others, we have effectively mistreated Jesus.

Matthew 5:16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.

2 Timothy 3:16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
17 That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.

Ephesions 2:10 For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.

Titus 2:13 Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ;
14 Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.

Titus 3:8 This is a faithful saying, and these things I will that thou affirm constantly, that they which have believed in God might be careful to maintain good works. These things are good and profitable unto men.

Hebrews 10:24 And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:
25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.

Hebrews 13:16 Don't forget to do kindness and good, to be generous and distribute to the needy, for such sacrifices are well pleasing to God. (LIV)

Luke 14:13 But when thou makest a feast, bid the poor, the maimed, the lame, the blind:
14 and thou shalt be blessed; because they have not wherewith to recompense thee: for thou shalt be recompensed in the resurrection of the just.
15 ¶ And when one of them that sat at meat with him heard these things, he said unto him, Blessed is he that shall eat bread in the kingdom of God.

Isaiah 58 (selected) Declare to my people their rebellion and to the house of Jacob their sins. For day after day they seek me out; the SEEM eager to Know my ways, AS IF they were a nation that does what is right and has not FORSAKEN THE COMMANDS OF ITS GOD. You cannot fast as you do today and expect your voice to be heard on high. Is not THIS the kind of fasting I have chosen: TO LOOSE THE CHAINS OF INJUSTICE AND UNTIE THE CORDS OF THE YOKE, TO SET THE OPPRESSED FREE AND BREAK EVERY YOKE, IS IT NOT TO SHARE YOUR FOOD WITH THE HUNGRY AND TO PROVIDE THE POOR WANDERER WITH SHELTER WHEN YOU SEE THE NAKED, TO CLOTHE HIM, AND NOT TO TURN AWAY FROM YOUR OWN FLESH... If you do away with the yoke of oppression, with the pointing finger and malicious talk, and if you spend yourselves in behalf of the HUNGRY and satisfy the NEEDS OF THE OPPRESSED, then you will find your light will rise in the darkness ............

Isaiah 55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.

2 Timothy 4:2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.

Luke 9:60 Jesus said unto him, Let the dead bury their dead: but go thou and preach the kingdom of God.

Romans 1:16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek.

Matthew 25:37 Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink?
38 When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee?
39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee?
40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.
 
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Big Jase said:
hello...

i have my own theories on how i should be around unsaved people and how i should be for someone unsaved.... as christians our job is to make desiples....
my theory is affective.....but i want to put a question out to all the other christains on this site..... how would they go about getting a person saved...?

God Bless

Big Jase

Actually Jase, we can't save anyone - that's the Holy Spirit's "job" Ours is to be a faithful witness where ever we are. That means we don't have to argue or get frustrated when it seems as if we are getting no where in our witnessing for the Lord ;) As long as we are being lead by the Spirit, His Word goes forth and brings fruit from those who are destined for salvation, who are seeking for truth.


Each day before leaving for work, i pray that God uses me in whatever way He sees fit and that i'm receptive to His working in the lives of those around me - that i will speak when it's His will (and be quiet when it's not ;) )


2 Corinthians 2: 14 -16(a) -

"But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ, and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of Him. For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved AND those who are perishing. To the one we are the smell of DEATH; to the other, the fragrance of LIFE..." Apostle Paul


Ray :wave:
 
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seebs said:
I think we should be the kinds of people they admire and respect; we should be more honest, more compassionate, and, perhaps most surprisingly to many people, more humble. We should do these things, not to our own glory, but to God's. If I appear patient, it is better that I admit to my failings, and give God credit for helping me, than that I turn it into an excuse to claim I'm better than other people; obviously, I'm not.

"Preach always. Use words when necessary."

As a side note, I have no idea how to tell whether or not someone is unsaved, so just to be on the safe side, I try to be like this for all people.
That's a great post.

I think we should also understand why we believe what we do. Study to show yourself approved. And be ready to give a defense. Granted it's not everyone's cup of tea, but it appears the majority of Christians don't know anything about the history of the Bible or Church. Doesn't make you more saved, but it does help when trying to talk to non-believers.

Also it has been said that after six years, a new Christian will not have any non-christian friend. It's hard to reach people you don't know.
 
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Big Jase said:
hello...

i have my own theories on how i should be around unsaved people and how i should be for someone unsaved.... as christians our job is to make desiples....
my theory is affective.....but i want to put a question out to all the other christains on this site..... how would they go about getting a person saved...?

God Bless

Big Jase
Hi there!

:wave:

I hope that you are the same person with the same religious standing around the "unsaved" as you are around the "saved". Our job, as Christians, is to do the will of God and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit....

But there is also Ecc chapter 3....


1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
2 A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
4 A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
6 A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
7 A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
8 A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.

Of particular importance.... there is a time to speak and there is a time to be silent.

~serapha~
 
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Big Jase said:
hello...

i have my own theories on how i should be around unsaved people and how i should be for someone unsaved.... as christians our job is to make desiples....
my theory is affective.....but i want to put a question out to all the other christains on this site..... how would they go about getting a person saved...?

God Bless

Big Jase
As a counseling student and Christian, I think I can help.

If there open and have questions, good, you can share. But you must let them share too. Don't belittle or invalidate what they believe, but find common ground like Paul did in Acts 17.

Somes words are not enough, so i quote Avalon (Christian band) "I will be a witness when words are not enough" song is "Testify to Love"
 
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I am a non-christian. Your holy spirit has never visited me. I see you as a ' you shall know them by their fruit-o-the-looms' (They have christian t-shirts on) in other words, I only know christians when they tell me they are 'christians'.

THe muslim, catholic, hebrew demon god, zoroastrian gods have never visited me either. What am I to do? How long do I wait? SHOULD I wait? For how long? Which one?? I've been waiting on the 'christian' god for over thirty years!!
 
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Big Jase,

I could never think of myself as "saving somebody". God saves people. He is the judge. I am just someone in the court room telling those who are about to go before the Judge that they should do what I did, plead for mercy based on the blood of Jesus. And then afterwards they should go and sin no more.

God sends me to people, who always seem to me, to have been waiting to hear what I have to tell them about Jesus and the Bible.

Thus I do not consider my frequent encounters with people who begin to repent against thinking God is not real or from their anger at God as something that I have done. God does it, long before I get there.
 
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nonny said:
I am a non-christian. Your holy spirit has never visited me. I see you as a ' you shall know them by their fruit-o-the-looms' (They have christian t-shirts on) in other words, I only know christians when they tell me they are 'christians'.

THe muslim, catholic, hebrew demon god, zoroastrian gods have never visited me either. What am I to do? How long do I wait? SHOULD I wait? For how long? Which one?? I've been waiting on the 'christian' god for over thirty years!!
I am going to start praying that The Holy Spirit does reveal Himself to you.

So get ready.
 
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