I said this:
"How about considering
1 John 1:3,6 and 7? What word occurs 4 times in these 3 verses? Fellowship. This is NOT about getting or staying saved, but about fellowship, or spiritual growth.
Salvation is about relationship. Spiritual growth is about fellowship. They are different."
I have heard this excuse before but it does not hold water.
It's not an excuse. It's an explanation of reality.
Fellowship is a part of having salvation.
This is easily proven wrong. Consider a marriage. That is a relationship between a man and woman. And in God's view, it is PERMANENT. Now, marriages can be harmonious or rocky. That is about fellowship, or the lack thereof. They ARE different. A marriage may have NO fellowship.
Or consider the parent child RELATIONSHIP. That is also PERMANENT. But there can be serious rebellion on the part of the child, as we see in the parable of the prodigal son.
The Bible uses both analogies (marriage and family) to describe the RELATIONSHIP between believer and God. Which is also PERMANENT.
For he that has the Son has life and he that does not have the Son does not have life.
Nowhere in 1 John nor anywhere else in the Bible do we find any teaching that one who HAS the Son can LOSE the Son. Impossible. Those passages about abiding and remaining in the Son are about fellowship. The relationship cannot be broken.
1 John 1:7 makes it clear that our walking in the light (correct fellowship) cleanses us of all sin.
Which is about fellowship, not relationship.
1 John 1:7 does not say we just believe and we are cleansed of all sin. This makes sense because 1 John 2:4 says that he that says he knows him and does not keep his commandments is a liar and the truth is not in them.....
Which is true of many believers; the truth is not in them. Why? Because they have either been taught poorly or inaccurately, or they just don't really care what the Bible says.
4 times Paul wrote "I don't want you ignorant, brothers…". Why? They WERE ignorant. And he was teaching them (and us) the truth.
Unless we are taught the truth, we cannot know the truth.
Those who are unfamiliar with the differences between relationship and fellowship will never understand much of Scripture.