I'm not sure where I would rank this characteristic, but it may not be as important as I once thought. I think while it is a nice characteristic for someone to have, two characteristics come to mind that are vastly way more important. They would be your partners ability to self regulate their emotions on their own, and overall maturity. Some may rank sweetness higher than these two, and to be honest it is easier to find someone who is sweet, over someone who can self regulate their own emotions independently and so forth but I think those two things are vital for any kind of mature real relationship to occur. That doesn't end in you having to constantly reassure someone of something, or help calm down, but its better if your future partner already knows how to handle their emotions and regulate them appropriately independent of you.
I also think that most adults in general just are poor at emotional self regulation. So it is hard to find someone who values this, and has it themselves. Especially in my age range.
I also think that most adults in general just are poor at emotional self regulation. So it is hard to find someone who values this, and has it themselves. Especially in my age range.