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Surrender2Win

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I've been smoke free for a year and a half now, and I can only give all the praise and glory to God...if it hadn't been for Him, I'd still be puffing away!

I started smoking when I was 11 years old, almost 12. I only quit when I was pregnant with both children and once in high school for about 10 months, other then that I smoked on a consistent basis.

I hated the way I felt, the way I smelled, the money I spent, the way it controlled my life...that fact that my children watched me do this nasty habit. I didn't want them to think it was OK to smoke, and so I really wanted to quit. I was always afraid to go on the patch, I don't know why and so for me it wasn't even an option. The medications they give out to help aide in quitting smoking, I couldn't take because of my eating disorder and the higher seizure risk that involved. So my only option seemed that I just had to quit. Well I tried that, and for a whole week I quit...by the end of the week I was so nasty I couldn't stand to even be around myself. So, I picked up again. Then I prayed to God and told Him that I just didn't know how I was going to do this...that I needed help. I told Him that I didn't feel I had any other options because I just couldn't get myself to put that patch on my body. And Please, Please help me quit. Well, about a month later...on Christmas eve, I ended up getting sick. Well, not exactly sick...the only symptom I had was that my chest hurt extremely, only when I smoked or when I was around smoke. I didn't cough, I didn't have a runny nose or anything like that...It just hurt really bad to smoke. So I tried my last cigarette in the middle of the night on Christmas eve/Christmas day...and I thought, hmmm...maybe this is God's way of answering my prayer...right now, I can't smoke...it hurts too bad. So I decided that I would try to quit, and gave the praise to God right away. Somebody told me about how eating Twizzlers helped them, because of the hand to mouth motion. So I went out and bought a bag of Twizzlers...everyday for the next 3 weeks, I went and bought a huge bag of Twizzlers and every time I wanted a cigarette, I ate one of those instead. I haven't had a Cigarette since Christmas 2003, and haven't had a Twizzler since January 2004, lol...

I hope that anyone seeking to quit smoking remembers that prayer is powerful, ask for His help and he will be faithful. Also, it helps to replace the old habit with something new...like for me it was twizzlers, maybe for you it will be gum, or jolly ranchers, or praying scripture or reading or going for a walk...it is much harder to quit a habit if you don't fill in that hole with something to help you through...
 
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That's so great!! I also started smoking when I was 12.

I just got a new apartment and I said that I would quit when I got it because the rent is higher, there is no balcony and well I want to smell nice and I don't want this nasty cough.

When I feel discouraged I will come look at your thread.
 
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Good Luck to you! I'll pray for you and keep up with how your doing. After I quit too, I looked up online for smoke free meters, that also helped me when I felt discouraged.

here is a link to a few links if your interested. Once you find the one that you like, you can wear it in your sig tag and then others that don't read in this forum can help encourage you as well! :)

http://whyquit.com/whyquit/LinksDMeters.html
 
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Hope_0004 said:
But how do you really decide you want to quit? I don't really want to! But I know I need to.

I think that answer is different for everyone. I do believe that you have a better chance in staying stopped once you've come to a place where you really decide you want to quit. If you quit becaues everyone else wants you to quit, chances are you'll go back to it, but not always...and honestly, I think it takes most people a few times of quitting before they really quit...but not always. Like I said, it's different for everyone. For me I just had enough of it, I didn't like how I felt, I didn't like spending so much money, and I really don't want my kids to get the idea that it's OK to smoke. It wasn't something that I decided overnight...quitting was something that I had been thinking about for awhile. It was a process of thinking about it, praying about it, and the fact that I got too sick to smoke motivated me to work on quitting.

Maybe praying for the desire to want to quit would a good place for you to start.
 
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