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How harshly is the age gap judged?

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Yeah have fun with your back peddling..
 
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Why are you being so short with me??

Because you made a less than flattering claim about the conduct of certain members in this thread. When I ask you to back it up you just back peddle. Now when I further question you, you just make a joke about my height or at least the insecurity I have with it.
 
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I have to say the quality of discussions have really gone down hill here lately..

You ask someone to back up their claims against you, then they become all angry and just insult you.

Just remember that you're acting this way because you were called out to explain yourself and you have nothing to say therefore you just go for cheap insults.

If you want to go down that road fine, lol.
 
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I fell asleep last night around my last message. It would seem that I missed something...
 
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I fell asleep last night around my last message. It would seem that I missed something...

Pretty much read the last page. It's an attack on us, when I asked to back up such claims I just get insulted for my height.
 
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Pretty much read the last page. It's an attack on us, when I asked to back up such claims I just get insulted for my height.

are you talking about:
Why are you being so short with me??
 
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are you talking about:

Yeah. What else would it be? Lol.

It's not a deep insult, although it's frustrating that's the response I get when I question someone's already negative assessment of my posts in this thread and they cannot back up their claims and decided to go for a cheap insult instead.
 
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are you sure he didn't mean that as in, why are you being so snippy or curt? because that is an expression that means snippy or curt.
 
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you sure he didn't mean that as in, why are you being so snippy or curt? because that is an expression that means snippy or curt.

You're semi-new here aren't you? So maybe you don't see it, but it's a clear jab at my height or at least my insecurity about it.
 
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You're semi-new here aren't you? So maybe you don't see it, but it's a clear jab at my height or at least my insecurity about it.
Well that's why I asked. Because the last page was a little short on context
I'm just kidding. I had to make the joke... It wasn't mean-spirited or anything.
 
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Well that's why I asked. Because the last page was a little short on context

You don't see what is happening on post 254? He's comparing us to psychiatric patients and those who commit circular reasoning. Which makes me laugh..

Then when I tell him to back it up, he can't so he goes after my height.

And then I make a commit of how down hill discussions have gotten here.
 
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You don't see what is happening on post 254? He's comparing us to psychiatric patients and those who commit circular reasoning. Which makes me laugh..
that's ok. He just proved our point. She only deals with the psychiatric populations who commit circular reasoning... And their stressed out family members...

I say let her go on believing she is good at reading most of the population.
 
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that's ok. He just proved our point. She only deals with the psychiatric populations who commit circular reasoning... And their stressed out family members...

Lol.. this comment saved this thread.. somewhat.. lol.
 
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Lol.. this commit saved this thread.. somewhat.. lol.

nah. If she wants to believe she is good at reading most people... let her have it. I know people like that, and... there is no helping them.

Not saying she is exactly like this. But these tend to be the people who like to fix people up and it never works out... And they are arrogant about it. That's where my issue comes from...

she is probably a good nurse and a good listener, and good at her job.
 
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If I was single, I would not consider dating someone, who has more than 25 years, right now. No, beyond that, that is much too old, for me, right now. I do not think it would be inappropriate, for someone in their late 60s, to be dating someone in their early 50s, as by then, the age difference will not matter so much. If someone has a proper professional job, good footing in it, after 25, then I think, dating someone older, they will have more in common. By 27, yes, most people will have their university finished, or nearly so, and a good professional job. They will have more in common, with young adults, for dating. Perhaps, up to the early 40s.
 
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Well I am 25 and it disturbs and angers me personally, but it's their life. I get annoyed by older men who date women my age. It's like find someone your own age. When I'm old they probably ignore me to chase girls half my age. Personally it's sexist and borderline pedophile to me when men do that it disturbs me. Especially because of the double standard, older women dating young men isn't looked on quiet as nice but men do whatever they want. And that young girl she deserves a a young man her own age, it's a disjustice to young women for an old man to date them. Im real spiteful about it so probably don't want my thoughts on this one lol.
 
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borderline pedophile
That's a very strong word there. What they are doing is perfectly legal. and though it seems... inappropriate, the girl is 18+ years old, she is a mature consenting adult. It is not borderline pedophilia. at best, it is borderline ephebophilia. interest in girl 15-19 years old. But even then... if he is 60 and she is 30... It is not the age gap that makes it wrong. It is maturity.


I agree there is something that just seems... inappropriate about it. But it is not a disjustice if the young woman consents to date the older man. Maybe she has good reason for skipping over her generation and dating an older one. Maybe she doesn't... either way she is choosing to do it.
as for the double standard... I don't know. The double standard exists because we live in a patriarchal society. But also, young men might date older women for the same reasons as younger girls date older men, but it's possible that men may care more about looks than women.
 
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