My daughter is 4. I was told that my daughter was being molested by me...which is unthinkable/doable just plain sick.
I was also told that on one occasion that my 4 year old was playing house with her babies with her 6,4 and almost 3 year old nephews when she has said that they, her and the 6 year old just got married and had a baby. This coming from the fact that myself and her father had just got married so this was no surprise that she would say such a thing. As the kids were coming down the stairs the 6 YO said that he was nursing the baby. I knew right then that the mother of that child would twist something sick into that comment so I pulled my daughter aside and told her she was not to play with them out of my sight/upstairs. Sure enough 2 days later a call was made to my husband and was told that we needed to watch our daughter. I don't know what she could have done wrong but I tried to at the time to stop any actions that could cause such a call to my husband knowing the childs mother VERY well.
Now as of the last few days this person has been telling EVERYONE that I am molesting my daughter because:she dresses and undresses several times a day. She plays with her baby who is big enough to wear real baby clothes which she has dressed and undressed her dolls. That she pulled the 6 YO head toward her potty butt which I question that for 2 reasons. 1)Had anyone witnessed this or is she going on what the child said and 2)She has stated many times that she has talked to her kids about good touch/bad touch, so I wonder if she did not talk the child into his comment ei
child)Mom, she pulled my head closer to her(mom)how?(child)like this. She want me to sit closer.(mom)show me how she did this.(child)ok, like this....and if that child head was within inches of that area I can see the mom making more out of it. Trust me if I ever thought that I was able to or thought someone else was hurting my child I would come unglued. I pray that God opens her eyes so she can see what kind of damage she is doing to her own kids by quizing her kids the way she does. Its way beyond what you would call normal. I am affraid that she is Sybil's mother...you know who Sybil is right? This person does not have split personality but she unbalanced enough to maybe cause it.
Now back to my question. How far is to far? I have debated whether or not to report this to the police. I want to so they have it on record that shes claiming this. With this kind of statement anyone could call the state on me at any time(which I would too if I thought a child was being harmed). Her reply to my husband was...ok I told you and if you don't believe me wait until shes in school and the school finds out. Is that a threat? How much damage will I do to my daughter proving she is NOT being molested.
I have handed the whole situation to God and pray that I keep my cool over all this. The sad thing...she professes to be a christian which I know she is but is letting Satan in willingly.
I was also told that on one occasion that my 4 year old was playing house with her babies with her 6,4 and almost 3 year old nephews when she has said that they, her and the 6 year old just got married and had a baby. This coming from the fact that myself and her father had just got married so this was no surprise that she would say such a thing. As the kids were coming down the stairs the 6 YO said that he was nursing the baby. I knew right then that the mother of that child would twist something sick into that comment so I pulled my daughter aside and told her she was not to play with them out of my sight/upstairs. Sure enough 2 days later a call was made to my husband and was told that we needed to watch our daughter. I don't know what she could have done wrong but I tried to at the time to stop any actions that could cause such a call to my husband knowing the childs mother VERY well.
Now as of the last few days this person has been telling EVERYONE that I am molesting my daughter because:she dresses and undresses several times a day. She plays with her baby who is big enough to wear real baby clothes which she has dressed and undressed her dolls. That she pulled the 6 YO head toward her potty butt which I question that for 2 reasons. 1)Had anyone witnessed this or is she going on what the child said and 2)She has stated many times that she has talked to her kids about good touch/bad touch, so I wonder if she did not talk the child into his comment ei
child)Mom, she pulled my head closer to her(mom)how?(child)like this. She want me to sit closer.(mom)show me how she did this.(child)ok, like this....and if that child head was within inches of that area I can see the mom making more out of it. Trust me if I ever thought that I was able to or thought someone else was hurting my child I would come unglued. I pray that God opens her eyes so she can see what kind of damage she is doing to her own kids by quizing her kids the way she does. Its way beyond what you would call normal. I am affraid that she is Sybil's mother...you know who Sybil is right? This person does not have split personality but she unbalanced enough to maybe cause it.Now back to my question. How far is to far? I have debated whether or not to report this to the police. I want to so they have it on record that shes claiming this. With this kind of statement anyone could call the state on me at any time(which I would too if I thought a child was being harmed). Her reply to my husband was...ok I told you and if you don't believe me wait until shes in school and the school finds out. Is that a threat? How much damage will I do to my daughter proving she is NOT being molested.
I have handed the whole situation to God and pray that I keep my cool over all this. The sad thing...she professes to be a christian which I know she is but is letting Satan in willingly.
