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How does one recognize God's love?

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You first question is a great question. All I can say is like in the Matrix ... "Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself."

It is the same with God's love. You have to repent and trust him completely with your life in order to experience His incredible love and grace to the fullest. You will recognize it then (you will know). You can't feel peace until you are forgiven for all your sins. Once you ask Him for forgiveness it is amazing how that could feel. I say could because sometimes people don't feel anything. That is normal, too. It just reminds that God is not a feeling. He is a fact, the reality.

A key to experienceing what you are talking about is believing with all your heart that he does indeed love you. It is more about stepping into reality than experiencing a feeling. When I know that I am loved I feel loved. And even if one feels nothing, (which I have heard may happen), it is more about living in the reality (the truth) that I am loved. Sometimes doubt is our worst enemy.

Question number 2: Hmmn ... the Bible says that God is love. When people love (for real) God is in that. How can you identify that? Well you many not always be able to. Sorry that may not be the answer you want to hear.

Question number 3: God's love includes grace, mercy, justice, patience and sacrifice. May be more that I can't think of right now because it is late at night. Maybe someone else can expand on this one.

Question 4: Same as number 2. Sometimes it is obvious and sometimes you cannot. Even the disciples did not know that Judas was going to betray Jesus and that he would be driven by selfishness. Only Jesus knew because he was God.

Hope that helps. It is pretty late for me and I am now going to bed. So, if this doesn't makes sense that's probably why.
 
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Let's see...

"Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love." (1 John 4:8); and we know what divine love looks like:
1 Cor. 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

 
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God's word says it better than me.

I JOHN 3:16-19 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and truth. This then is how we know that we belong to the truth and how we set our hearts at rest in his presence whenever our hearts condemn us.

I JOHN 4:7-13 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and KNOWS God. Whoever does not love does not KNOW God, because God is love.

LUKE 6:31 If you love those who love you, what thanks can you expect? For even sinners do that Much. And if you lend to those from whom you hope to receive, what thanks can you expect? Even sinners lend to sinners to get back the same amount. INSTEAD ... love your enemies & do good, & lend without any hope of return.
 
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bluedart,


You first question is a great question. All I can say is like in the Matrix ... "Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself."

And how is one to know whether it is indeed the Matrix that one is looking at ...


It is the same with God's love. You have to repent and trust him completely with your life in order to experience His incredible love and grace to the fullest. You will recognize it then (you will know). You can't feel peace until you are forgiven for all your sins. Once you ask Him for forgiveness it is amazing how that could feel. I say could because sometimes people don't feel anything. That is normal, too. It just reminds that God is not a feeling. He is a fact, the reality.

Or it is simply that God does not love those who don't feel that love.


A key to experienceing what you are talking about is believing with all your heart that he does indeed love you.

This way, anything can pass for divine love, and I could be telling myself it is me who is at fault for not seeing it as divine.

An abused child also believes that the abusive parent loves her.


It is more about stepping into reality than experiencing a feeling. When I know that I am loved I feel loved.

But how do you know that you are loved? Because you believe it?
And why do you believe it? Because if you hadn't believed it, there'd be no love for you to feel?


Question number 2: Hmmn ... the Bible says that God is love. When people love (for real) God is in that. How can you identify that? Well you many not always be able to. Sorry that may not be the answer you want to hear.

I seem to be exqusitely unable to identify love. And it is all my fault ...
 
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All love is of the "type" of God's love, in some descendant form (He created all people with the ability to love Him, and each other). But without belief in God - and his definition of love - this can quickly degenerate into something self-serving, until it can barely be called "love" anymore. Any love is in obedience to God, whether He is known or unknown.
 
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Nightfire said:
All love is of the "type" of God's love, in some descendant form (He created all people with the ability to love Him, and each other). But without belief in God - and his definition of love - this can quickly degenerate into something self-serving, until it can barely be called "love" anymore. Any love is in obedience to God, whether He is known or unknown.

*Any* love?

Even that by non-Christians? Or by non-believers? Who are, by definition, unrighteous in everything they do?
 
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Furthemore, God's love doesn't depend on how we feel. We very often let our circumstances dictate our emotions (since our emotions are linked to them), so when things don't go our way it's easy to feel God doesn't love us. Fortunately, that's why God provided us with the assurance of his love, as something that can be known apart from our circumstances - even apart from who we are.
 
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LittleLion said:
*Any* love?

Even that by non-Christians? Or by non-believers? Who are, by definition, unrighteous in everything they do?
Yes, any love. God didn't create just the people who believe in Him. But needless to say, love doesn't save anybody. It just leads them to understand grace, and God, and maybe give them more reason to want to be reconciled with the ultimate source of love.
 
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Nightfire said:
Furthemore, God's love doesn't depend on how we feel. We very often let our circumstances dictate our emotions (since our emotions are linked to them), so when things don't go our way it's easy to feel God doesn't love us. Fortunately, that's why God provided us with the assurance of his love, as something that can be known apart from our circumstances - even apart from who we are.

And what would that be?
 
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Knowledge of Gods Love brings people to the joy of Gods love. The kind of love that Jesus taught and reveled gives us the confidence to know that we are lovable to God.

Matthew 5

43 " You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' 44 "But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, 45 "that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 "For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 "And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? 48 "Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.



Many people do love others in this world but often it is for payment. Acceptance, to get love back, To make it a better world for them to live in. The Love revealed by Jesus (to even love our enemies) gives us hope that God loves us. He died for us sinners. How can one not love someone who died so that they could receive something the did not deserve?



Even near the end of His execution Jesus said this about those who had tortured Him and played a part in His murder.



Luke 23

34 Then Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do." And they divided His garments and cast lots.

All Praise The Ancient Of Days
 
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LittleLion said:
How does one recognize that a certain phenomenon in one's life is God's love for said person?

How can a person distinguish God's love from other people's love?

What are the characteristics of God's love?

How can a person with surety identify that a love is indeed God's (and not someone else's) love for them?
Greeting, Little Lion.
Please define that "certain phenomenon in one's life". As I read your post, I understand that your question stems from certain experiences. Intrusion on your privacy is not intended. But additional expalnation is required for possibly proper answer.
Be well,
Diana
 
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Sometimes I behave a bit like my son when he was eight...

One day, he asked me for a quarter. I said, "no." A little storm-clowd appeared over his head, and he turned away in a huff. His sister, arriving on the scene, asked, "what's with him?" So I said (loud enough for the departing boy to hear), "oh, he's decided that a quarter is more important that his friendship with his Dad." At this, the boy stopped. He turned. He smirked. The storm-cloud dissipated. He smiled. I said, "I love you, boy." He said, "I love you Dad."

Too often, the oh-so-very-important-to-me-at-the-time "quarters" that I want in my life can keep me from recognizing the love of God.

LittleLion said:
I seem to be exqusitely unable to identify love.
But the fact that you want to speaks volumes. Now as long as you don't get hung up on the "fault" thing...ain't no love in that.

But perhaps the best answer to the question
LittleLion said:
How does one recognize God's love
Might be inferred from 1 John 4:19: We can recognize God's love because he puts love in our hearts. If we can love, we can recognize his love in and through our love, because he is the source of that love.
 
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LittleLion said:
bluedart,




And how is one to know whether it is indeed the Matrix that one is looking at ...

Another great question! Well, there is a difference between blind faith and faith based on reason and evidence. Many of our religious beliefs are a result of conditioning or socialization. If we grow up in a family that is Buddhist we will probably be Buddhist and so on. If I grew up in a mostly Islamic country that would greatly affect my first perceptions of God and it would be likely that I would be a Muslim. Well, were I am going with this is that we need to make sure we are not just believing because our parents or society believes. We need to really question what we believe and seek out the evidence. That is what takes us from blind faith (which is dangerous) to faith based on reason.

When I looked at Christianity with an open mind and compared and studied the other religions I saw that Christianity had some backbone. Jesus did exist and die on the cross. This is a historical fact that most historians all agree on. His body was missing. That is a fact as well. He fulfilled hundreds of prophecies in his life, death and resurrection. The Bible is written by 66 different authors and does not have contradictions. It appears to be divine and from God. Other scriptures from other religions have contradictions and mistakes. When we put all this together it makes sense to put our faith in Christ just like it made sense for Neo to trust Morpheus. Neo also had many signs that he put together. He did not make a blind decision. If you are interested in more parallels in the films like this you can check out my book Matrix Reflections.


Or it is simply that God does not love those who don't feel that love.

Well if we choose to believe in Christ because it makes sense. Then we choose to believe what the Bible says about God. The Bible says that God loves everyone and died for everyone. (2 Peter 3:9; John 3:16)


This way, anything can pass for divine love, and I could be telling myself it is me who is at fault for not seeing it as divine.

An abused child also believes that the abusive parent loves her.

Because you are believing in the fact that Jesus died for you and loves you you are living in reality. Whether you feel it or not is irrelevant. Remember once you do the research and things add up you are demonstrating not blind faith but faith based on reason and logic. And God promises to give each believer His Holy Spirit. This is the proof that we are in Him (this you will experience in time). (1 John 4:13; Romans 8:14-17). Also remember that Neo could not have experienced the real had he not taken a leap of faith. Faith is essential to experiencing a spiritual awakening. An abused child may believe that the parent loves her. But things don't add up and this is what could be called blind faith. Faith with reason says love does not abuse me physically, mentally, etc.


But how do you know that you are loved? Because you believe it?
And why do you believe it? Because if you hadn't believed it, there'd be no love for you to feel?

We know that we are loved because the Bible tells us and we know that it is trustworthy. If you do not believe this yet then test the Bible to see if it is the word of God. When you are confident in in then live by faith and act on what it says. It says that we are loved by God. Again we believe it because we have researched it and we have faith that is based on reason and evidence. If we don't believe that God loves us we will not experience that He loves us because we won't allow ourselves to. Yet, God does love us regardless cause scripture tells us this.


I seem to be exqusitely unable to identify love. And it is all my fault ...

The Bible says that God is love. If you want to discover what love is the best way to do this is to read the Bible and the scriptures that describe and define love for us. 1 John 3:16 states, "The way we came to know love was that he laid down his life for us; so we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers."

1 John 4:7-21 expands on this. It tells us that Jesus sacrificing his life for us on the cross is the ultimate expression of love. Someone dying for someone who is an enemy of God (a sinner). Now that's love! That God wants to have a relationship with us and be our best friend - that's love. When we in faith accept this (not blindly) we find and identify love. The Bible tells us that if we seek we shall find. Be encouraged and keep seeking and asking great questions!:)
 
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DIANAC,


Please define that "certain phenomenon in one's life". As I read your post, I understand that your question stems from certain experiences. Intrusion on your privacy is not intended. But additional expalnation is required for possibly proper answer.

That phenomenon can be anything, depending on the person and circumstances.
A parted sea, rain in the desert, a job, a smile on someone's face, a visitation by an angel, ...


* * *


jnhofzinser,


Too often, the oh-so-very-important-to-me-at-the-time "quarters" that I want in my life can keep me from recognizing the love of God.

I see your point. But some discernment is necessary. Or is that too much to ask?


* * *


bluedart,


Another great question! Well, there is a difference between blind faith and faith based on reason and evidence. Many of our religious beliefs are a result of conditioning or socialization. If we grow up in a family that is Buddhist we will probably be Buddhist and so on. If I grew up in a mostly Islamic country that would greatly affect my first perceptions of God and it would be likely that I would be a Muslim. Well, were I am going with this is that we need to make sure we are not just believing because our parents or society believes. We need to really question what we believe and seek out the evidence. That is what takes us from blind faith (which is dangerous) to faith based on reason.

I think this is wrong. This way, a person ends up believing in the reasonability of his arguments for beliving in God, but doesn't believe in God per se.


When I looked at Christianity with an open mind and compared and studied the other religions I saw that Christianity had some backbone. Jesus did exist and die on the cross. This is a historical fact that most historians all agree on. His body was missing. That is a fact as well. He fulfilled hundreds of prophecies in his life, death and resurrection. The Bible is written by 66 different authors and does not have contradictions. It appears to be divine and from God. Other scriptures from other religions have contradictions and mistakes. When we put all this together it makes sense to put our faith in Christ just like it made sense for Neo to trust Morpheus.

One, there is "evidence" for anything.

Two, no amount of evidence is ever finite, and thus, the possibility exists that new evidence can be found which contradicts previous findings. All "compelling evidence" is ultimately arbitrary.

Three, faith is a matter of devotion to God. God is the only one for Whom, per definition (as He is omnipresent), no evidence is needed to have faith in, ie. be devoted to.


Well if we choose to believe in Christ because it makes sense.

Then we only believe in our sense-making explanation of Christ, but not in Christ per se.


Then we choose to believe what the Bible says about God.

Why do we choose so?


Because you are believing in the fact that Jesus died for you and loves you you are living in reality. Whether you feel it or not is irrelevant.

How can that be irrelevant?!
How can that be irrelevant?


Remember once you do the research and things add up you are demonstrating not blind faith but faith based on reason and logic.

Then I only have faith in reason in logic. But not necessarily in God.


And God promises to give each believer His Holy Spirit. This is the proof that we are in Him (this you will experience in time). (1 John 4:13; Romans 8:14-17).

What is the proof that one has received the Holy Spirit?


Also remember that Neo could not have experienced the real had he not taken a leap of faith.

That was not a leap of FAITH. That was a "Let's see what hapens".


Faith is essential to experiencing a spiritual awakening. An abused child may believe that the parent loves her. But things don't add up and this is what could be called blind faith. Faith with reason says love does not abuse me physically, mentally, etc.

Do you have a finite list or some other way to recognize this "faith with reason"?
How is a young child who fell and broke his leg to know that what the parents do (move him, put the leg in braces -- this means a lot of additional pain) are doing it out of love?


But how do you know that you are loved? Because you believe it?
And why do you believe it? Because if you hadn't believed it, there'd be no love for you to feel?

We know that we are loved because the Bible tells us and we know that it is trustworthy.

If you do not believe this yet then test the Bible to see if it is the word of God.

You do realize that if I take the path of collecting evidence, this can take me the whole life, and leave me as frustrated as I started off?

We never have faith in God based on evidence; to have faith in God based on evidence is ultimately relativism.


When you are confident in in then live by faith and act on what it says. It says that we are loved by God. Again we believe it because we have researched it and we have faith that is based on reason and evidence.

Does an infant do research into whether its mother loves it or do infants not do such things?


If we don't believe that God loves us we will not experience that He loves us because we won't allow ourselves to. Yet, God does love us regardless cause scripture tells us this.

I think it is more like: "We live, therefore, we must be having a meaning to life, even though we may not be presently aware of this meaning. We may think our lives are worthless or meaningless, but if it so happens that we keep waking up in the mornings, this means that God allows this. For some reason. From here on, there are only two options: Either God is a sick snob and enjoys watching us suffer -- in which case such a god is not to be worshipped anyway, and he can go mind his own business. Or it is that God has a special affinity to us."

I can come to the same conclusion as you, but without the Bible.


The Bible says that God is love. If you want to discover what love is the best way to do this is to read the Bible and the scriptures that describe and define love for us.

Love is to be found in books? Really?


1 John 3:16 states, "The way we came to know love was that he laid down his life for us; so we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers."

1 John 4:7-21 expands on this. It tells us that Jesus sacrificing his life for us on the cross is the ultimate expression of love. Someone dying for someone who is an enemy of God (a sinner). Now that's love!

No, I think this is a very romantic explanation.


That God wants to have a relationship with us and be our best friend - that's love.
When we in faith accept this (not blindly) we find and identify love. The Bible tells us that if we seek we shall find. Be encouraged and keep seeking and asking great questions!


I apologize if I have come across harsh.
While I could not say that my faith in God is strong, I constantly see that I must stand up for myself and not just blindly accept what any believer tells me.
I am not strong enough to fend for myself when it comes to faith, but I am aware that some of the paths suggested to me are misleading -- and I feel I must warn those purporting such paths.


All this "collecting evidence and then making an informed decision" this is not crucial for how one comes to faith. People who think they have come to their faith this way are not seeing what can be obvious to an outside observer: The essence of faith in God is in being devoted to God. While you were doing all your research, you were in fact already practicing devotion. One can do so directly, without any research.

If "collecting evidence and then making an informed decision" were indeed any proper way to come to faith in God, then how come that there are two outcomes of this process:
On one hand, those with faith in God.
On the other, those without faith in God.

Those without -- what is wrong with them? Have they been rebelling against God? No. They have put their devotion into studying and gathering evidence, they have not put their devotion into God. They are not to be blamed; theists themselves have told them to do so.

That you were "collecting evidence and then making an informed decision" is in fact accidental and redundant in your coming to your faith in God.

"Collecting evidence and then making an informed decision" has to do with the wisdom of man, not with the wisdom of God.


What matters is *that* you were doing something with the intention to move towards God, but it doesn't matter much *what* exactly it was that you were doing.
 
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When I slip away from studying the Word of God regularly, I lose the sense of God's mercy toward me. Two seconds in the Bible can bring me back. Bad advice--longer than two seconds! When I go through the day on my own steam, I see only my limited capabilities and deserving. When I rely on God and see his view, I see so much more!

As Rafael and Nightfire and others implied, the Word of God is life. It appears as a printed book, but the spoken word of God that it recorded had power behind it. Think of the Bible as latent energy and insight, waiting to be released.
 
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heron said:
When I slip away from studying the Word of God regularly, I lose the sense of God's mercy toward me. Two seconds in the Bible can bring me back. Bad advice--longer than two seconds! When I go through the day on my own steam, I see only my limited capabilities and deserving. When I rely on God and see his view, I see so much more!

As Rafael and Nightfire and others implied, the Word of God is life. It appears as a printed book, but the spoken word of God that it recorded had power behind it. Think of the Bible as latent energy and insight, waiting to be released.
Amen. I am so often amazed at the power of God's Living Word. Indeed it lives in me and sustains me even though my flesh is weak and ever fading in strength and glory. My Spirit grows, however, step by step, precept upon precept and promise towards the day when eternity is realized completely - being with, seeing, and being like Him.
LittleLion said:
How does one recognize that a certain phenomenon in one's life is God's love for said person?

How can a person distinguish God's love from other people's love?

What are the characteristics of God's love?

How can a person with surety identify that a love is indeed God's (and not someone else's) love for them?
An interesting example about love in a simple and practical sense is when Jesus gave us His second commandment to love our neighbor as we love ourselves (Mat.22:39). Does loving ourselves have anything to do with self esteem, as some psycologists might imply? No. " For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church." (Eph 5:29). Self is fit only for being denied and reckoned as something we are dead to while being alive to the will of God in Christ the annointed (Luke 9:23.24), and our esteem lies in Jesus. He is our righteousness and author/finisher of our faith, and our self-life is crucified with Him and then resurrected to new life in Him so that He sustains us and gives us the true life (Gal.2:20) This is reinforced by what we see the Lord asking about when He returns and asks about those basic things associated with love of self - food, clothing, shelter, fellowship. Notice that the Lord asks about these instead of did we obey His commandment to love our neighbor.
We do not realize all this at once, but grow towards a fruitful completion as we are encourage to grown in His grace - to grow in true love. It is Him living iside us that completes the will of God, giving us the love, and all the benefits and victory over all that is opposed to God.

Matthew 25:31 ¶ "But when the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit upon his glorious throne.
32 All the nations will be gathered in his presence, and he will separate them as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats.
33 He will place the sheep at his right hand and the goats at his left.
34 Then the King will say to those on the right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.
35 For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home.
36 I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me.’
37 "Then these righteous ones will reply, ‘Lord, when did we ever see you hungry and feed you? Or thirsty and give you something to drink?
38 Or a stranger and show you hospitality? Or naked and give you clothing?
39 When did we ever see you sick or in prison, and visit you?’
40 And the King will tell them, ‘I assure you, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!’

Luke 9:23 Then he said to the crowd, "If any of you wants to be my follower, you must put aside your selfish ambition, shoulder your cross daily, and follow me.
24 If you try to keep your life for yourself, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for me, you will find true life.

Ga 2:20 "I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.

Romans 6:5 Since we have been united with him in his death, we will also be raised as he was.
6 Our old sinful selves were crucified with Christ so that sin might lose its power in our lives. We are no longer slaves to sin.
7 For when we died with Christ we were set free from the power of sin.
8 And since we died with Christ, we know we will also share his new life.
9 We are sure of this because Christ rose from the dead, and he will never die again. Death no longer has any power over him.
10 He died once to defeat sin, and now he lives for the glory of God.
11 So you should consider yourselves dead to sin and able to live for the glory of God through Christ Jesus.
 
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"I think this is wrong. This way, a person ends up believing in the reasonability of his arguments for beliving in God, but doesn't believe in God per se"

Little Lion,

Not so. It is an obvious fact that in countries that are predominantly Muslim (or other religion) that high percentages of the children follow the same path. Any sociologist can tell you that. Even clients of mine (I'm a counselor) who hang out with alcoholics are more prone to relapse when around these people. If we just go through life without using our heads (logic) we will be prone to many disasterous decisions. And society or the world as the Bible calls it does affect us. For that reason Paul tells us to not conform to the ways of this world (Romans 12:2).

And if it wasn't for logic we would all still be waiting for the tooth fairy or Santa Clause on Christmas. God gave us a mind we shouldn't let it go to waste! When I talk about faith with reason I am just saying don't let your faith be blind. There are so many people who don't use logic and reason and join cults and end up dead on the 10 o'clock news. I think we can all agree that it would have been good if they done some more thinking and checking. Even what you are doing (seeking and asking questions) is using your God given brain and reason. You don't appear to me to be blindly making decisions. That's all I'm saying.

I agree that one can definitely over intellectualize and have more faith in his intellecualizing and gathering of evidence. We do need to be careful there. I commend you for noticing that.


"One, there is "evidence" for anything.

Two, no amount of evidence is ever finite, and thus, the possibility exists that new evidence can be found which contradicts previous findings. All "compelling evidence" is ultimately arbitrary.

Three, faith is a matter of devotion to God. God is the only one for Whom, per definition (as He is omnipresent), no evidence is needed to have faith in, ie. be devoted to God"

Little Lion,

Even if there is evidence (outward signs) for anything when you have hundreds of signs it can be quite compelling. And even if evidence is finite, it can still be helpful and compelling. That's why it is used in court rooms.

On your third point you are absolutely correct. No evidence is needed to have faith in God. Someone could place their faith in Christ with no evidence and find God. It is the people who are not so fortunate that I am concerned about. We all can be mislead and many of us may want to make sure that at the very least what we believe in doesn't contradict itself.


"How can that be irrelevant?!
How can that be irrelevant?"

Little Lion,

Because it doesn't change the fact that we are loved by God.



"Then I only have faith in reason in logic. But not necessarily in God."

Little Lion,

I think I already answered this question. Evidence and reason only help in the making of the decision to believe. I cannot prove without a doubt that God exists or that Jesus is God. I still have to demonstrate faith and this faith is in God.

Also, I think I'd just like to add that I don't think Christianity is a dumb man's religion.


"What is the proof that one has received the Holy Spirit?"

Little Lion,

Very difficult to explain ... I might mess it up. You have to take the red pill and see what happens.


That was not a leap of FAITH. That was a "Let's see what hapens".

Little Lion,

Well we may need to agree to disagree on that one. Morpheus did say "there is no turning back ... you stay in wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes."

Neo made a choice to seek the truth and he trusted (had faith) that Morpheus had the answers. He chose to get in the car and not turn Morpheus in to Smith when interrogated and believed that Morpheus was not a terrorist. He was putting things together from the moment he followed the white rabbit. Then Trinity new everything about him, Morpheus new the building he worked at so well. Neo used his head and reason and it helped him to trust Morpheus.


"Do you have a finite list or some other way to recognize this "faith with reason"?

Little Lion,

How is a young child who fell and broke his leg to know that what the parents do (move him, put the leg in braces -- this means a lot of additional pain) are doing it out of love?"

As I said reason only helps. Without it we would never figure out the parents motives. With reason and advice we may.


"You do realize that if I take the path of collecting evidence, this can take me the whole life, and leave me as frustrated as I started off?

We never have faith in God based on evidence; to have faith in God based on evidence is ultimately relativism."

Little Lion,

Relativism means all truth is relative. The opposite of relativism is believing there is absolute(s) truth. Reason only helps me to make a decision. I still have to step out in faith. Think I covered this above.


"Does an infant do research into whether its mother loves it or do infants not do such things?"

Little Lion,

NO. Already answered this too. Faith not based on evidence but it helps.


"I think it is more like: "We live, therefore, we must be having a meaning to life, even though we may not be presently aware of this meaning. We may think our lives are worthless or meaningless, but if it so happens that we keep waking up in the mornings, this means that God allows this. For some reason. From here on, there are only two options: Either God is a sick snob and enjoys watching us suffer -- in which case such a god is not to be worshipped anyway, and he can go mind his own business. Or it is that God has a special affinity to us."

I can come to the same conclusion as you, but without the Bible."

Little Lion,

Maybe so. As I said evidence is not necessary but may help. Prayer can also help. The Bible says that if you seek God with all your heart he will make himself known. Wow! That took awhile. Thanks for your points. They are good ones and deserve answers. Hope that I was helpful. Rock on!


"Love is to be found in books? Really?"

Scripture.


"I apologize if I have come across harsh.
While I could not say that my faith in God is strong, I constantly see that I must stand up for myself and not just blindly accept what any believer tells me."

Little Lion,

No need to apologize, this is one of your greatest strengths! It is great to stand up for yourself and not blindly accept things. You are using reason and logic and that is good.
 
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When I slip away from studying the Word of God regularly, I lose the sense of God's mercy toward me. Two seconds in the Bible can bring me back. Bad advice--longer than two seconds! When I go through the day on my own steam, I see only my limited capabilities and deserving. When I rely on God and see his view, I see so much more!

As Rafael and Nightfire and others implied, the Word of God is life. It appears as a printed book, but the spoken word of God that it recorded had power behind it. Think of the Bible as latent energy and insight, waiting to be released.

Two things:

One-
The Bible can be so powerful for you because of your faith in God, not the other way around. If you wouldn't have faith in God, the Bible would mean nothing to you, and no amount of reading would make it mean something to you.

Two-
If we perform an activity with the explicit motive to worship God, then our sense of devotion, our faith, grows stronger. As this happens, we feel more alive and more inclined to be devoted to God even further.


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Rafael,



For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it

This is something I could never quite understand or agree with.
Alcoholics, drug users, sado-mascohists, suiciders, etc. and the usual normal person who comfort eats himself every now and then and then feels sick -- do they love themselves?
 
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