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How does one recognize God's love?

Radagast

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LittleLion said:
...Alcoholics, drug users, sado-mascohists, suiciders, etc. and the usual normal person who comfort eats himself every now and then and then feels sick -- do they love themselves?
Yes, they do. But they are confused as to how to love themselves properly.

Dante, in the Purgatorio (see my notes) points out that all sin results from misdirected love.

-- Radagast
 
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LittleLion

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bluedart,



Not so. It is an obvious fact that in countries that are predominantly Muslim (or other religion) that high percentages of the children follow the same path. Any sociologist can tell you that. Even clients of mine (I'm a counselor) who hang out with alcoholics are more prone to relapse when around these people. If we just go through life without using our heads (logic) we will be prone to many disasterous decisions. And society or the world as the Bible calls it does affect us. For that reason Paul tells us to not conform to the ways of this world (Romans 12:2).

I think there has been a misunderstading. We adopt the discourses we have been born into, this is obvious.

My comment "I think this is wrong. This way, a person ends up believing in the reasonability of his arguments for beliving in God, but doesn't believe in God per se"

was addressed to your saying
"We need to really question what we believe and seek out the evidence. That is what takes us from blind faith (which is dangerous) to faith based on reason."

Unless your point here is that of being God's elect -- that these people will turn to Him regardless of what society they were born into.


And if it wasn't for logic we would all still be waiting for the tooth fairy or Santa Clause on Christmas.

No. You don't stop believing in the TF or SC because of logic. You stop believing in them because of common sense. This is something completely different and socially conditioned.


God gave us a mind we shouldn't let it go to waste!

Do you believe in predestination and exclusivistic election?


When I talk about faith with reason I am just saying don't let your faith be blind. There are so many people who don't use logic and reason and join cults and end up dead on the 10 o'clock news. I think we can all agree that it would have been good if they done some more thinking and checking.

I don't think people joiniing "cults" has anything to do with the lack of logic or faulty reason per se. Mostly, they are unhappy, and seek a quick way out of their misery. The best one could say is that they lack common sense.


Even what you are doing (seeking and asking questions) is using your God given brain and reason. You don't appear to me to be blindly making decisions. That's all I'm saying.

Desperation leads to desperate matters ... -- hence the "blindly making decisions".


Even if there is evidence (outward signs) for anything when you have hundreds of signs it can be quite compelling.

Yes, compelling if you act on common sense.
See, I don't think "evidence of God" and "sign of God" are the same thing. A "sign of God" is somehting personally accessible only to you and you precisely on the condition that you are honeslty seeking a sign from God; while "evidence of God" would be something accessible to all. For something to be accessible to all, all would have to be honestly seeking a sign from God, in effect, they would have to be unified in spirit, which we are not, hence no objective evidence of God.


And even if evidence is finite, it can still be helpful and compelling. That's why it is used in court rooms.

It is never finite! We do not know what we do not know ...


On your third point you are absolutely correct. No evidence is needed to have faith in God. Someone could place their faith in Christ with no evidence and find God. It is the people who are not so fortunate that I am concerned about.

They need love and help, not "evidence of God".


We all can be mislead and many of us may want to make sure that at the very least what we believe in doesn't contradict itself.

If a person can be mislead, then this person's faith wasn't right to begin with, and it's better such a faith was destroyed.
If the faith was right and the person ws mislead still, then we surmise it happened so with a reason.


"How can that be irrelevant?!
How can that be irrelevant?"

Because it doesn't change the fact that we are loved by God.

If I do not know something, then I cannot consciously, repsonsibly act on it or towards it. This is why I must know at least some things.


I think I already answered this question. Evidence and reason only help in the making of the decision to believe. I cannot prove without a doubt that God exists or that Jesus is God. I still have to demonstrate faith and this faith is in God.

Then you are still clinging on to evidence, and think faith is based on evidence.
To whom do you have to prove that God exists, and why do you feel called to do so?


I wrote a letter on this topic this morning to someone, and I think it is good. Let me know if you'd like to read it and I'll pm it to you.


"What is the proof that one has received the Holy Spirit?"

Very difficult to explain ... I might mess it up. You have to take the red pill and see what happens.

No. This is not good enough.


Well we may need to agree to disagree on that one. Morpheus did say "there is no turning back ... you stay in wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes."

Neo made a choice to seek the truth and he trusted (had faith) that Morpheus had the answers. He chose to get in the car and not turn Morpheus in to Smith when interrogated and believed that Morpheus was not a terrorist. He was putting things together from the moment he followed the white rabbit. Then Trinity new everything about him, Morpheus new the building he worked at so well. Neo used his head and reason and it helped him to trust Morpheus.

And in the end of it all, Neo turns out to be the bad one, knowing more than everyone else!


NO. Already answered this too. Faith not based on evidence but it helps.

I think outsiders should be told this more often. Instead, they are expected to have faith based on trusting historic evidence.


As I said evidence is not necessary but may help.

The path of "evidence" is a common one, and it is done to procure what is actually a non-intended side-effect, namely faith.
 
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Radagast said:
Yes, they do. But they are confused as to how to love themselves properly.

Dante, in the Purgatorio (see my notes) points out that all sin results from misdirected love.

Aha. ^_^
You are employing the problem-solving strategy of re-organizing the problem. This can bring one a lot further, yes.
 
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LittleLion said:
They need love and help, not "evidence of God".
Love and help can be evidence of God. Maybe the problem is in calling it that, focussing on the result rather than the process.

If I do not know something, then I cannot consciously, repsonsibly act on it or towards it. This is why I must know at least some things.
And you would want to know true things, not so? Things that justify action. Evidence is "at least some things".

Then you are still clinging on to evidence, and think faith is based on evidence.
To whom do you have to prove that God exists, and why do you feel called to do so?
I don't think he is, just for citing the evidence he deems necessary to have a foundation to build one's faith on. Paul didn't say "and if Christ is not risen, our faith is futile" for no reason. The faith depends on the reality, and the reality cannot but have some things that can be known empirically. Faith may not need these things, but it does not deny these things either.

No. This is not good enough.
John gave this simple test (although it does not go into detail about the fruit of the Spirit and other evidence - see 1 John 3 and Gal. 5:16-26), which connects with what I said above:
1 John 4:2-3 This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God.​
 
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Nightfire,


Love and help can be evidence of God. Maybe the problem is in calling it that, focussing on the result rather than the process.

No, it is not about focusing on the result rather than the process.

If you call something to be from God, the other person may not relate the way you do. How are they to know it is from God, if they don't know who God is or what it means that something is from God? Or, if they have some knowledge of God, how are they to know that something is indeed from God?
Why is it that if you get the job you wanted, God is to be thanked for it, but when a tsunami strikes, God is not thanked and not deemed the author of it?


And you would want to know true things, not so? Things that justify action.

Yes.


Evidence is "at least some things".

Yes. But what do you mean by that?


I don't think he is, just for citing the evidence he deems necessary to have a foundation to build one's faith on.

We derive abstract principles from a certain knowledge of the concrete.
This is why we need the concrete, the "material foundation".


Paul didn't say "and if Christ is not risen, our faith is futile" for no reason.

I devote myself to studying for an exam. I do not know whether I will pass it or not, I do not know that until the exam is over. Until then, I have to do my best despite knowing I might fail. -- Such is the nature of being devoted to an ideal.
(Please note that I am not making any allusions or comparisons that faith in God is in any way an exam or test that one can pass or not.)
 
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LittleLion said:
You are employing the problem-solving strategy of re-organizing the problem. This can bring one a lot further, yes.
Well, no, I'm not. :)

Just not explaining myself well.

What I meant was -- drug addicts, alcoholics, anorexics etc are searching for something which drugs, alcohol, starvation etc cannot deliver.

-- Radagast
 
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Radagast,


What I meant was -- drug addicts, alcoholics, anorexics etc are searching for something which drugs, alcohol, starvation etc cannot deliver.

Of course.

My point with re-organizing the problem is this:

Not rarely, drug addicts, acoholics etc. are seen as people who do not love themselves, who hate themselves. And then they believe this -- that they hate themselves, and in effect, are not contributing to their health. Then, someone trying to help them tells them "You must love yourself, you must not hate yourself", and the addict, of course, sees nothing that he could love about himself, he sees the decay of his body and his spirit. And thus, such a helper puts the addict into an even greater despair than he was in before. "How could I love something unlovable?" Madness is expected of him -- to do the impossible.

Instead, the problem can be re-organized and said "You are misdirecting your love. You love drugs, not your life" -- and this is something that can help the addict further, and to overcome his problem.
 
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Well, I have a testimony to give you. Before I became a Christian, I was a seeker. I became aware of a still small voice. It was like my thought process but unlike it also. Mainly because it contained wisdom that I just didn't have. However I was still listening to that other voice, the one I was familiar with. So, I decided to grow some opium poppies. My crop came in and I began to partake of the fruit of my labor. once a week use became every other day use. One day I was driving my car and listening to some political talk drivel when a voice said out loud, "It started out an experiment, it will become an addiction ". I thought, What?! I began listening to the program intently. Nothing on there about experiments or addiction. The comentator's voice was nothing like the one I'd heard. On some level I realised that God had spoken, out loud, to me. This caused me to throw my crop away. Later after I'd come to know Jesus and joined a church, I was to be baptised. A woman who'd recently joined the church gave me a post card with a congratultory note and a scriptural quote.It was psalm,145:18. It says. The lord is nigh unto all them that call upon him, to all that call upon him in truth. On the front of the card was a picture of POPPIES! I've kept this card as a physical sign that God delivered me,an unbeliever who was seeking him. This is a good example of Gods love. He wants us all to come to him. If we are searching he will help. You are searching, you will find him.
 
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Harlan,
Very good example. Thank you for sharing.
LittleLion,
As we can see from Harlan's testimony, God speaks to each one of us differently. In a "custom designed" way. I also have countless examples of God's speaking to me, be it in the way of material evidence, or favorable circumstance. These things will not mean much to the next person, but to me, at that moment it means a great deal. We had a family friend, now deceased. He was searching for God, but mostly doing his own thing leading the life he wanted to. A number of years ago while driving, he fell asleep, only to wake up to the sound of a police siren and right before crushing into a cement wall. He thanked the police officer who woke him up, whose number (from his badge) was 693. Next day he went to the local Police department to thank the officer who clearly saved his life, only to be told that there was no such number assigned to patrol that location. And that it is not possible to have that number in that area since they do not have that many officers. This man very short time later joined a church the one that we just started attending. He immediately joined my brother's Bible study group which just started. He accepted Jesus Christ and started growing in his faith and in the knowledge of the Word. Out entire family befriended him. Once, at the dinner table, my husband, once he heard this story, started searching the Bible. And he found Psalm 69 verse 3 (the only combination possible in both OT and NT). It says: "I am worn out calling for help; my throat is parched. My eyes fail, looking for my God". Very few years later, as one Bible study series was coming to an end, our friend got ill (he was also of advanced age). After short stay in the hospital he had passed away, but not before handing to my brother a completed test questions (my brother was in the habit of giving to the group a test at the completion of series of lessons). God heard his cry, saved him physically, saved his soul, answered all his questions before his days ended.
God will not turn away anyone, he will respond, once we call out to him. But ultimately our faith should not be based on these sort of occurrences. We should not be looking for miracles to guide us. We should grow in the knowledge of God's word. And even when God chooses to speak to us a certain way, that will never, never be in conflict with the Bible. How do we know if the love shown to us is from God or from man? If that love has an element of possessiveness or abuse, or competitiveness or is demanding or belittling, etc it can not be from God. Man perverted the concept of love. We know what is God's love, it's Jesus!
Be well,
Diana
 
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