Thanks for the welcome! I look forward to talking with you all as well. It is nice to meet you Ken - Quaffer - and Hollypop.
Yes I apologize for the toloreance - temperance confussion. Should be temperance. Not sure what happened there.
In the situation I was in the scripture (Matt 7:20) fits perfectly.
Matt 7:20
20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.KJV
The gifts of the Spirit in this particular church were strongly divided. You could tell the difference between what you are saying Quaffer, as in not knowing what to pray, and the Holy Spirit leading, and the fact someone is standing in the aisle gossiping and then turns to start praying in tongues. There is not any praying in English so the person has any clue what is going on it's just a constant babble of the same "words". If it's a language then why would people be saying "babalalababa lalabababa" or something like that over and over. We have many words for our language. Why wouldn't God's love language have the same. The people I have also heard pray in tongues that I believe are from God a wonderful gift don't just babble one or two sylabels.
It's hard to explain in a way. I will try without messing it up to bad.
What you are saying Quaffer is true and I agree with it completely. Praying or even singing in the Spirit personally is awesome and edifying, and then there are what I call public tongues, when you pray for someone else or have the interpertation and for the non-believer etc.
You just know the difference. I can't explain it but God has shown me the difference. This woman and a few others in the church I would not want or allow to pray over me in tongues. I have dealt to many times with people praying curses over others and such that it is something I asked for and God showed me (*in this situation) the truth. We bless with our words as well as we can curse with our mouths. The Bible also states somewhere about testing the spirits and not letting just anyone lay hands on you.
I would go into detail (with scripture) but I am short on time today.
This is not easy for me to explain I guess, but she would at will just pray in tongues when you asked her to. I believe it's false. It may have started out as a true gift from God but it is no longer. Maybe I am wrong. But I don't think so in this situation. It's a false spirit of tongues in this place. Unfortunately the Pastor also has begun to use it from the flesh. There is such a difference when it was not from the flesh.
What I was refering to with the Holy of Holies, is that there is a certain frame of mind/spirit person that we enter into when we pray in tongues or manifest any gift of the Spirit. There is prayer, praise and worship, sacrifice and offering, thanksgiving. Maybe not in that order, but if someone says hey- come talk in tongues, don't you think it would be creepy if they were just speaking it like a second language like from english to spanish?
Anyway I agree with you Qauffer, about your post and what it says and I believe that is the truth to praying in tongues, but if someone can stand there gossiping and chatting with others and then automatically start speaking in tongues, it's weird to me. Have I confused everyone? I hope not. It's a gift, not something that is taught.
When you pray at will Quaffer, are you in the God state of mind and seeking His answers? It seems to me that is what you are saying when you pray at will. I can understand that. To me that's natuarl, but what I am saying doesn't match what you are saying. People at this church will just start praying, there is no fruit of the spirit, and it's wrong what they are doing.
Maybe I should send them here or print the posts - hehe - but somehow now I am the insane person for leaving a church that is under false teaching and false worship.
Maybe I will begin a new post about what happened in this place. It would make an excellent discussion. It's downright creepy and scarey. Sometimes when you start seeking the truth and you get the truth from God, it's not easy to deal with. But I can no longer die with them. I keep them in prayer, the deception has snagged many people into following the Pastor and not God. If you keep following God and not the Pastor - he uses the pulpit to belittle and talk down to you. It's just plain wrong and sad.
Anyhow, it's nice to meet you all. I understand and appreciate your posts. Quaffer, I am not saying everyone who can pray at will is wrong. I am just saying this particular situation was and is false.
Seeking the Truth always.
I may not show much wisdom with this post Ken
I am on short time right now! It's a weird situation. I may not show much wisdom at all. LOL It's always a journey!
Bless God and Peace to you all. I look forward to chatting with all of you.