part 6
Havdalah
Just as we proclaim the entrance of Shabbat by making "Kiddush," so too we mark the exit of Shabbat with "Havdalah."
1. What You'll Need:
double-wicked candle (or two candles held with flames together) & candle holder.
Small Wine cup, & wine or grape juice
spices (cloves,& cinnamon work well. You can mix what you want, it just needs to smell sweet) a small box or small baby food jar to put spices in.
small plate for dripping the candle on, and extinguishing the flame
2. Shabbat ends when three stars are visible in the evening sky. This time varies according to location and season.
Gather family around the table.
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[Read]
Havdalah ( l’hav-deal ) means to differentiate. Between Holy and profane, Between 6 days and the Shabbat.
Light the Havdalah candle (a braided candle with at least two wicks, or two candles held with their flames together). (no blessing is said yet)
[Read]
Psalm 128:1 A song of ascents. Blessed are all who fear the LORD, who walk in his ways.
2 You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours.
3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your sons will be like olive shoots around your table.
4 Thus is the man blessed who fears the LORD.
5 May the LORD bless you from Zion all the days of your life; may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem,
6 and may you live to see your children's children. Peace be upon Israel.
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[Fill a kiddush cup with either wine or grape juice, until the liquid overflows onto the plate below.]
[Holding the wine cup the blessing is said]
This is symbolic of our desire for blessings to overflow into the week.
And may our life overflow with the joy that comes from our Salvation.
Barukh atah Adonai Elohaynu melekh ha-olam, borei p’riy ha-gafen. (Amein)
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who creates the fruit of the vine. (Amen)
(Each person drinks some wine):
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[The spice box (usually cloves & cinnamon) is picked up and the following blessing is recited:]
May the remembrance of the Shabbat be as sweet to us as these sweet spices are. And may we have a sweet week.
Barukh atah Adonai Elohaynu melekh ha-olam, borei minei b'samim. (Amein)
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who creates varieties of spices. (Amen)
[The leader then smells the spices and passes them around for all to smell].
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[lift the candle and read]
Shabbat has brightened our life as we get both physical and spiritual rest. Our eyes again have been focused on Yeshua, our Shabbat, the light of the world. Lighting the candle as the first act of the new week reminds us, that G-d’s first act of creation took place when he said, ”Let there be light.”
We now bid Shabbat farewell by lighting the Havdalah candle, and just as Yeshua our light that brings Redemption was taken up. Will one-day return as a groom for his bride.
Barukh atah Adonai Elohaynu melekh ha-olam, borei m'orei ha-eish. (Amein)
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who creates the light of the fire. (Amen)
[Everyone now extends their hands toward the flame to see their fingernails
and fell the warmth of the fire. (to take advantage of the light of the candle).]
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“Blessings for Havdalah.”
[Read]
The final blessing is the havdalah blessing itself, the blessing over the separation of different things.
Barukh atah Adonai Elohaynu melekh ha-olam, ha-mavdil bayn kodesh l'chol,
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who distinguishes between the sacred and the secular,
bayn or l'choshekh, bayn yisrael la-amim, bayn yom ha-sh'vi'i l'shayshet y'may ha-ma'aseh
between light and dark, between Israel and the nations, between the seventh day and the six days of labor
Barukh atah Adonai, ha-mavdil bayn kodesh l'chol. (Amein)
Blessed are You, Lord, who distinguishes between the sacred and the secular. (Amein)
[Read]
All of our senses have been touched by Havdalah.
We have Seen the light of the fire
We have heard the word of G-d
We have tasted the sweet taste of the fruit of the vine.
We have Smelled the sweet smell of spices and
We have Felt the warmth from the fire
Matthew 6: 25 - 34
[the wine in the plate is used to extinguish the flame. Immerse the flame until the fire is out].
Havdalah is now complete.
[Greet each other with “Shavuah Tov” Have a good week!]
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This is how we keep Shabbat. We make a separation from this day and all the other days of the week, We keep it Holy!
Shalom