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How does everyone else deal with this??

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Tenorvoice

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How does everyone else here deal with the sorrow of heartbrake, humiliation, pain, rejection. How do you keep it from leading to thoughts of suicide????

These thoughts keep reacurring into my mind over the past few days. The pain is soo prominant on my face and I want to hide it soo much, because of the humiliation of not gaurding my heart like I should have.

I wish that I would never care for anyone in the (Erros) way of love anymore. It hurts too much to let anyone know me ever again.

Please pray for me that I can keep my sanity, and keep from going through with these thoughts.

PLEASE!!!!!
 

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I may be younger than you, and may not have went through such a traumatic loss-- but I have been there. In fact, I still am there. The pain has calmed a bit but it's still there.

The way I dealt with it? Mainly whenever the pain got completely unbearable I'd lean down and pray my heart out to the Lord. I'd pray and cry until I felt comforted (even if that meant praying for hours). I repeated this so many times and eventually the Lord helped those "instances of pain" to subside. Now, although I'm still in love with the one who has sent me on a downward spiral, I feel more at ease and having high hopes that I will soon get over him. I will pray for your comfort. Remember to stay strong!

God bless you.
 
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