How do you "send the signal?"

[LetHimThatGlories]

really? Thats crazy, I'm a very touchy/feely kinda gal!

I've met a bunch of girls at church who like sharing hugs with me and stuff, just none who touch me on the knee when they talk to me. Not to belabor the point, or anything... It's probably just the luck of the draw where I live.

When it comes to other, fairly normal, types of physical contact, like getting those little shoulder hugs, I don't think anything of it beyond just that they're happy to see me. In fact, there's so much physical contact in the culture that I've grown up in that I don't think of it being a "signal", or anything, unless it's something really atypical.

A better indication to me, which has been mentioned before, are the more subtle reactions. I was getting a ride from a friend, and her sister was sitting up front between us. She was sitting real stiffly and blushing big time. She didn't say a word the whole time, she just had this funny little smile.

 

[justaGUYnamedROB]

Hey justaguynamedrob,

Are you considering an answer to my post?

That's just it: there's no universal "one size fits all" way of being a challenge. That's why I said it's different for different people. When people say you need to be more of a challenge, they're really just speaking from their own personal ego; "the world according to me."

I don't know this guy you're referring to from Adam, so I couldn't even begin to speculate as to what he might consider a challenge.

 

[memoriesbymichelle]

Well personally I think the guy is just "blowing smoke" and even HE doesn't know what he means. His previous wife was blonde hair blue eyes barbie type and his current gf is dark hair but very pretty still. I just think he's a jerk and wouldn't know a good woman if she kicked him you know where!