How do you let go?

[Stanfi]

Hi, Mr. Stace-just thought I chick in and see how you're feeling.

Whitehorse,

I'm doing ok. Thanks for asking.

 

[TheOriginalWhitehorse]

Good, I'm glad to hear it.

 

[bestill]

HI, I'm really sorry for the pain you are feeling. I just wanted to let you know that I understand. I lost my husband almost 3 years ago, and it has taken a very long time to try to work through the grief. And that is what you are feeling right now...greif from your loss.

Someone said that it takes time and that is something none of us wants to hear, but yet it's so very true.
Talking about this to someone...a friend, or someone who really cares...that helps too. It's important to get your thoughts out, even if you take a piece of paper and write down how you feel. I also think we should give ourselves permission to feel the way we do. It's ok to do that. Don't hold in your pain.
God is a wonderful comfort if you ask him. I wish it were true that he would take away the pain, but I think we have to go through the pain...not around it. It helps us to grow, and eventually heal.
It will get better...as it has for me. I just keep telling myself that God has a plan for me. Something wonderful. He has a wonderful plan for you too.
(((((hugs))))

 

[TheOriginalWhitehorse]

Bestill, wow-that must be very difficult. I'm sorry to hear about your loss as well. That's a wonderful testimony, though, that you've found support in God.

 

[Stanfi]

I am sorry to hear of your loss bestill, but as Whitehorse said that is a wonderful testimony. Thanks for sharing it.

 

[kiwiky]

Hello there Everyone. How do u let go..I am finding the same problem hard too.Me and my fiancee were going to get married too. Was goign to join him in his ministry so i know you must be feeling has im grieving still..The emotions, the thinking are so hard to deal with. And anything relationing to him is just too hard. I know that i can only trust in God and seek his will now. I can't do anything without Jesus. So im praying for you has i know how hard brokenness is. Blessings kylee