Hello
I want to know how to know if the guy you are seeing is the one God wants you to marry.
Input please!!! Ive had 3 guys in my past who were christians ask me to marry them, but I just was not interested in any of them. The guys I have liked in the church have never liked me back, so I'm discouraged. I want to tell you what happened with the 3 guys in my past.
The first one was there at the right 'timing' and we met in the strangest way at the strangest place. It was not a church setting to say the least. I was not interested in him romantically at all. But- we had so much in common- we could of been a good fit, i just wasnt into it though.
The second guy was this dude who was my best freind and he flat out said' do you want to court and give it a shot." I in no way form or fashion liked him. The 3rd guy- and this is wild-
Was a guy who was very much a lover of God, we had the same interests, age, similar personality- he was 'good looking' in the main stream sense. I was not into him at all. One day when we were hanging out. He was talking about his passion for the Lord and simply stated that he wants to do mission work and "go where nobody wants to go." AT that moment, Gods spirit came over me very very strong and very very deep. Gods spirit was reminding me of how much I love the 'untouchables' and hurting, wounded people. It was so deep. God was showing me that was what I was here for. And THEN- FOR about 3 seconds I looked into his eyes and felt a deep attraction to him. He looked so beautiful to me and very attractive spiritually and his heart was gold. At that moment i was attracted to him. And then it VANISHED. It was like this intense magical attraction completely disapeared. He just became the same old guy. It was SO WEIRD how my attraction to him just SHIFTED after the Spirit came upon me. I never liked him- then like a miracle, for 3 seconds i saw him so desireable. And then it went away. Is God trying to tel me something??? I dont like these guys, but it seems as though I could of had a marriage with one of them. I want a guy that I actually like. Im in my 30s and feel like i missed out on some oportunities. But then again i was just not interested in any of them. The 3rd guy, that situation was just wierd. And I know it was God. WHAT was God trying to say????? And some girls tell me God led them to a man they didnt like but then they grew to like him. Its so confusing. And I want to know. Please help. Thanks....!
I want to know how to know if the guy you are seeing is the one God wants you to marry.
Input please!!! Ive had 3 guys in my past who were christians ask me to marry them, but I just was not interested in any of them. The guys I have liked in the church have never liked me back, so I'm discouraged. I want to tell you what happened with the 3 guys in my past.
The first one was there at the right 'timing' and we met in the strangest way at the strangest place. It was not a church setting to say the least. I was not interested in him romantically at all. But- we had so much in common- we could of been a good fit, i just wasnt into it though.
The second guy was this dude who was my best freind and he flat out said' do you want to court and give it a shot." I in no way form or fashion liked him. The 3rd guy- and this is wild-
Was a guy who was very much a lover of God, we had the same interests, age, similar personality- he was 'good looking' in the main stream sense. I was not into him at all. One day when we were hanging out. He was talking about his passion for the Lord and simply stated that he wants to do mission work and "go where nobody wants to go." AT that moment, Gods spirit came over me very very strong and very very deep. Gods spirit was reminding me of how much I love the 'untouchables' and hurting, wounded people. It was so deep. God was showing me that was what I was here for. And THEN- FOR about 3 seconds I looked into his eyes and felt a deep attraction to him. He looked so beautiful to me and very attractive spiritually and his heart was gold. At that moment i was attracted to him. And then it VANISHED. It was like this intense magical attraction completely disapeared. He just became the same old guy. It was SO WEIRD how my attraction to him just SHIFTED after the Spirit came upon me. I never liked him- then like a miracle, for 3 seconds i saw him so desireable. And then it went away. Is God trying to tel me something??? I dont like these guys, but it seems as though I could of had a marriage with one of them. I want a guy that I actually like. Im in my 30s and feel like i missed out on some oportunities. But then again i was just not interested in any of them. The 3rd guy, that situation was just wierd. And I know it was God. WHAT was God trying to say????? And some girls tell me God led them to a man they didnt like but then they grew to like him. Its so confusing. And I want to know. Please help. Thanks....!