a girl likes you? or if you even maybe have a chance? how do you go about asking a girl out? especially if you are totally freaked out about getting rejected.
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joeman1
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All i can do is say ask away the worse that can happen is she can say no. I did and it may not have been pretty either time but its a learning experience. God bless and i will rmemeber you in prayer about this.
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Confidence is a big thing (or so I'm told.sykotick said:
), so if she sees that you are freaked out, it will most likely hurt your cause. Be comfortable and confident in who you are, who your father is, and let everything else work from there. I know it's cliche, because we all want to be accepted by other humans, but ultimately it's also true.As for how you know - I haven't the foggiest clue. But I can say this: I'm a very shy person, especially when it comes to asking women out. But... because I was comfortable in who I was (when I was dating), I was actually asked out more than I asked. Not saying that to brag at all, because I'm nothing special. That's just the way it worked out.
Just be yourself - that's all that anyone can ask. And if "she" doesn't like it, then it's her loss.
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Go to the mall with a motivating friend and ask every woman out you find remotely attractive, start with ughly ones if you have to. Ask, ask, ask... for the digits over, and over, and over... Change your approach to see what works best and what doesn't work at all. After around 40 to 100 times you should be competent in asking women out, and hopefully you'll have a few names and numbers for practice dates.sykotick said:
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THIS WORKS!!!desi said:
LOL, actualy your COULD go about it this way and break some hearts. But I would advise against it. It hurts to hurt others trust me. You may want to try to gain some confidence. Just find out who you really are and be strong in that. I did that and next thing I knew I had a lot of women considering me as possably being a bf. Not braging though:o
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Sure it works. Practice is underated by many Christians, especially in this area.looksgood said:THIS WORKS!!!
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Yeah ...this works only if you look like Arnold Used to in his body building days. Or if you are able to wear the "wife beater" T-Shirts and skin tight jeans and weight less than 180 on a 6' frame.desi said:
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Have you tried it or are you just being pessimistic? I don't look like Arnold and after awhile it worked for me. Practice is the great equalizer. If you use it you will eventually succeed in whatever you do.Tenorvoice said:Yeah ...this works only if you look like Arnold Used to in his body building days. Or if you are able to wear the "wife beater" T-Shirts and skin tight jeans and weight less than 180 on a 6' frame.
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TheDatelessLoserX2
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I'm all for them having to put a sign that says whether they like you or not (It is just so impossible to tell sometimes, sigh, MINDGAMES!)
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Try not to be freaked about the possibility of getting rejected. Think of it this way: are you going out with her now? Nope. If she says "no," are you going out with her then? Nope. Seems to me the outcome is the same as what you have now even if the worst possible scenario happened. However, she can say "yes" and you would be going out with her. You have only to win. Just be sure that (a) you don't get distraught over rejection, since it happens to nearly everyone at some point, and (b) if you're good friends with her now, don't let it get weird between the two of you afterwards. At the very least, keep being her friend. Also keep in mind that if it's not her, God has something better planned for you, and that is an encouraging thought.
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Yes I have tryed it many ...many times and failed each and every time. It just does not work for a guy that it 27...slightly balding...6' 250......!!desi said:
Works for some but not most..more power to you if it does work tho'
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