I have a specific question concerning forgiveness. I know that the Bible is very clear that Christians must forgive others. I understand that we are to forgive our fellow Christians as well as non-Christians. I also understand that God requires us to forgive even when the other party isn't sorry or repentant. Beyond this, I understand that God will even chasten us if we persist in unforgiveness. My question is this:
How do you know if you have truly forgiven someone else?
I know that forgiving another person does not mean that all feelings of pain or hurt caused by another person must be gone. Sometimes it may still hurt if the thought of that person and what they did comes to mind.
I also know that forgiveness is done obedience to the Lord - it is an act of the will. After that, it also seems like it is also an ongoing act of the will to "reckon" a past offense as still forgiven when something causes you to be reminded of the offense.
What biblical guidance is there to help me be sure that I have truly forgiven someone?
(kindly - please keep responses to those that can be supported from the Bible - please reference book, chapter, and verse for any points made.)
thank you.
How do you know if you have truly forgiven someone else?
I know that forgiving another person does not mean that all feelings of pain or hurt caused by another person must be gone. Sometimes it may still hurt if the thought of that person and what they did comes to mind.
I also know that forgiveness is done obedience to the Lord - it is an act of the will. After that, it also seems like it is also an ongoing act of the will to "reckon" a past offense as still forgiven when something causes you to be reminded of the offense.
What biblical guidance is there to help me be sure that I have truly forgiven someone?
(kindly - please keep responses to those that can be supported from the Bible - please reference book, chapter, and verse for any points made.)
thank you.