How do you define....

[Redheaded Goddess]

How do you define friendship?

What are the qualities you look for in a friend?

Feel free to add your own "how do you define" words too! I find it interesting to hear a vairety of responses.

 

[oncewaslost]

hmm... qualties i look for in a friendship are, honesty mostly, trustworthiness, and that's all i can think of right now.

 

[lucypevensie]

It must be someone I can totally be myself around, and they must be comfortable in that way with me. Honesty is important but a friend will not use honesty as a tool to hurt me (say something unkind and then give the excuse they were only telling the truth). Does not gossip about people. Likes a lot of the same things I do. A good sense of humour.

 

[LouisBooth]

a TRUE friend is someone that looks past your faults and shortcomings to the point they aren't seen and they share your life and honest with you about things. I call those people friends. oh...and we can play video games too :lol:

 

[TheShadow989]

"a true friend stabs you in the front" has anyone heard that quote before?

 

[joatamos]

humm thats way to true shadow i above all should know most ppl are olny a brutis(sp) but there are a few who will not hide it the fathfull are the wounds of a friend; butthe kisses of an enemy are deceitful. proverbs 27:6

also iv made some poems on this ill try to get them up here or in the creative(sp) writting(sp) board in my grass hut (a post i made fore stuff like this)

follow the flame

 

[Optimus_P]

my personal views on friendship are prolly no diffearnt then anyones but here it goes....

a friend is someone who you dont even have to ask for help/something because you already know that he would do his best to help/provide but out of respect you do ask.

a friend is someone that will not bad talk you or others for personal pleasure.

a true friend is someone that will be themselvs 100% of the time and allow you to do the same w/o any fears or worries if they will be your friend tommarow.

 

[joatamos]

When troubles come your soul to try
You Love the friend who just stands by.
Perhaps there's nothing she can do
The thing is strictly up to you.
For there are troubles all your own
And paths the soul must tread alone.
Times when love can't smooth the road
Nor friendship lift the heavy load.
But just to feel you have a friend
Who will stand by until the end.
Whose sympathy through all endures
Whose warm handclasp is always yours.
It helps somehow to pull you through
Although there's nothing she can do.
And so with fervent heart we cry
God Bless the friend who just stands by.


follow the FLAME

 

[Redheaded Goddess]

a friend is someone who you dont even have to ask for help/something because you already know that he would do his best to help/provide but out of respect you do ask.

Totaly great line. I like that.

And nice poem joatamos!

Moving on!


How do you define.....family?

 

[Gerry]

Originally posted by TheShadow989
"a true friend stabs you in the front" has anyone heard that quote before?

Well, I suppose if you gotta be stabbed, at least you can see it coming. Still.......doesn't seem right to stab a friend though!

 

[amie]

I define friendship with honesty and loyalty. I will always be honest with my friends and I will never abandon them. EVER.

 

[Blessed-one]

one who can be trusted and shared feelings with, one who will understand you in many ways.

 

[spirituality]

Moving on...
How do you define: LOVE

 

[frog4ever]

family... people who love you no matter what. of course that could also apply with friends.

I never got to post on the friends one. I really don't know what I look for in a friend. they have to be nice, of course, but I also like them to have things in common with me. and they HAVE to have a sense of humor, because I am constantly laughing

 

[daughter of the king]

some one who loves or is a good friend will be unconditionaly there for you, they won't mind if you ring them at 3am. i heard this i thought it was good for a friend
A friend is some one who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.

 

[Gerry]

Originally posted by daughter of the king
some one who loves or is a good friend will be unconditionaly there for you, they won't mind if you ring them at 3am. i heard this i thought it was good for a friend
A friend is some one who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.

Best start on the definition of a friend, yet posted. The key word is unconditional.

 

[Martin]

I'd put it simply as - someone I relate to who relates to me

I think we can be too demanding on friendship at times........

 

[SeRapH&CheRi]

TRUST and HONESTY......when that is established, I believe that everything else falls into place.

 

[kitkatsnarepadpen]

Someone that would do anything for me.

 

 JIMBO