Is it in my thoughts?
Is it a voice from above or within?
Could it be in my dreams?
I would really love some guidance from god, but I am not sure if he is talking to me or not

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How does God talk to you?
I have experienced God talking to me in a variety of imaginative ways - well, he is the Creator! But, I think we tend to limit God.
God has never appeared to me in a burning bush or a blinding flash of light. I have heard his word on one occasion. He has not visited me in any dream as far as I know.
But I see his messages written in the ordinary conversations of people. Even those people who are, dare I admit as much, not my cup of tea. Yet, it is often from such people that I hear a phrase that has the message for me - not that those present would recognise as much. And I spend time is contemplation and meditation - just dwelling on a sentence, or a word, from the Bible. Not that anything significant might happen but perhaps a week, two weeks, later up will pop my answer from some unexpected quarter - even from a newspaper piece. Once, the answer was written in the stars - or I might have just been looking skywards at the time.
It would be wrong to think that I 'look' for such answers - they just happen. In fact, it is my experience that 'looking' for answers is not a good option - too often any such 'answer' is probably contrived in some way by my own silent agenda about how I might 'wish' things would be.
We tend to look for the dramatic - clashing symbols, the trumpets, the lightening. More often it is in the quiet of the dawn, the drop of water from a tap, the fall of a leaf, the spontaneous laughter of children - the small and insignificant things that herald the presence of God.