I believe being imperfect may have been part of the design. When we sin against one another, we have to learn the harm of the sin done to you to know it affects others when you act without love to another. We have to learn humility in humbling our pride to ask forgiveness of another. We have to learn to let go of hurt and anger in granting forgiveness, and understand forgives helps the person granting it. How many times should you forgive? As many times as you would want forgiveness granted from the father.As in many other areas the simple answers are wrong. What are the simple answers:
Jesus rejects both of these. His teaching about judgement show people being judged by their actions, though that's not the only cause. (Rejecting him is also there.)
- Just believe in God. It doesn't matter what you do.
- If there's any sin you haven't repented of, you're doomed. And repent means stop.
But he says that we should forgive someone even if they do the same thing 7 times a day, and that we should forgive because God does. (I mention the second thing because otherwise it looks like we have to forgive, but God doesn't.)
As far as I can tell, we're expected to love God and neighbor, and show that in our actions, but Jesus is aware that we will no doubt continue to sin, maybe even seven times a day.
I believe the real message of the Gospel, is that you are loved by God, right now, where you are, the way you are, God loves you, and nothing separates you from that.
So, I have a friend who is always late, and I forgive him because he forgives me when i lose my temper. That doesn't mean him being late is ok, or he can be as late as he wants to be, nor is it ok that I rage, nor can I go off on him like that whenever I want. We just accept the other's flaws along with their gifts. (That's an analogy of not having freedom to sin as much as you want, but to strive to do good, the freedom of knowing if you make a bad decision and sin, it's just time to pick yourself up and keep going, not get kicked out.
Some more conservative modern day churches, on the other hand, would be like my friend and I telling the other how they need to be on time or we're done, or I have to control my emotions.
The focus is on sin and obedience. Love = obedience. If your wife said, "I think I'm a great wife. I have never cheated on you, never lied to you, have never killed you nor stolen from you," you should be worried. She focuses on what not to do.
If she was focusing on love, the positive, that fulfills the law, she wouldn't be concentrating on not harming, but actively demonstrating love.
1 Corinthians 13 says that without love, you prayers and Speaking in Tongues arw noisy gongs, sacrificing you life has gained you nothing, and despite your miracles, you are nothing.
Whoever says he hates his brother but loves God is a liar, because if we cannot love someone we have seen, how can we love God whom we have not?
1 John 4:7-8 Brothers let us love one another for love is of God and everyone that loves is born of God and knows God; he that does not love does not know God for God is love.
Even the Parable of the sheep and goats was not required goid work to be allowed into heaven. It was the love in their heart that made them do these things almost like second nature, "forget about it" attitude.
And despite this, I am surprised how the message remains: Repent of your sin!
And quite honestly, the person thinks themself holy for going to church. and not killing anyone or stealing. He's married, so decided until marriage to repent of fornicating, nor did his church require abstinence until marriage to teach, become a member or hold office. He hasn't committed adultery, well not physically, or he may be having multiple affairs, as is the culture of his country, where men are given a pass. He focusses on the sins of others, secretly feeling morally superior, tells women going into abortion clinic that they are murderers, yet condemns single moms, single parents on food stamps stealing his tax money. He protests Pride, quotes Leviticus and the death sentence for man having sex with a man as with a woman. but when confronted as Hate Speech because it states killing a targeted group of people, he throws God under the bus and says they are God's words, and golly, he was just spreading the love of Jesus, a boldface lie he believes because he believes tough love - yelling at people, warning them of hell, branding individuals he has never met, infers that they should be killed, and are hated by God, is the only kind of love he knows. Unfortunately to those on the receiving end so no distinguishing factor between him, and a nonChristian:
NC may use dehumanizing language to make harming the person seem justified.
The Christian may just freely misuse the word "abomination," or may tell GLBTQ they are hated by God, and his enemy. He preaches, but refuses to listen, cutting communication, the brands the community as "reprobate," saying God just gave up on the entire community. If you look to Westboro Church, the vulgarity of the language and the hated they spew poised as love matches the homophobic nonChristian, maybe a little more brazen and shameless.
And I question if some people who live this way are saved, and no matter how many times I trying to bring up love, it quickly turns to a yeah, but...
Yes, we have to love but it is loving to point out your sin.
Depends on if you have a 2x4,in your eye.
So, we will debate faith vs works, OSAS or nobody is safe, but rarely are the two most important commandments followed, and if not, the person is not a follower of Christ. And because of their arrogance and self righteousness, refuse to seek God in council to see if the are wrong about an issue. So, being the major theme of the gospel, there is some mental gymnastics you twist around to the focus on sin.
I question like that is saved, and there is nothing one can say that will make them change their attitude, the most difficult type of person to witness to
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