Amen and amen...
The real danger in calling something sin when the Bible does not is the effect it has on relationships.
Real or perceived sin has the same hardening effect on the heart. If we call everything sinful, our lives will be nothing but fear, guilt and condemnation. This is not salvation, this is legalisim.
Listen to what Paul says.
1 Corinthians 6:12 All things are lawful for me, but all things are not helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.
In other words, things that are not plainly called sin by Jesus is lawful but we are not to be controlled by these things. For example, if I know my brother believes drinking wine is a sin I should not drink in front of him. If I believe my brother in Christ believes eating ham is a sin then I shouldn't eat it in front of him. I shouldn't let my freedom control me even to the point that I cause my WEAKER brother to stumble. If we teach all these things to be sinful, when Jesus does not, we only produce weak brothers and sisters.
Listen to the next verse in the same context.
1 Corinthians 6:13 Foods for the stomach and the stomach for foods, but God will destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.
Both food and the stomach are temporary and will be destroyed in the end but we are not to use our bodies for sexual immorality. Why is sexual morality a sin? Because it comes form the heart.
Matthew 15:16-19 So Jesus said, "Are you also still without understanding? "Do you not yet understand that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and is eliminated? "But those things which proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and they defile a man. "For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies.
Now some people may say this verse is referring to eating with unwashed hands. But the truth of the matter is, it doesn't matter if it's unwashed hands or unwashed dishes because what goes in the mouth is not what defiles a person.
Romans 14:17 for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.
If only the SDA could understand this.