Well, if he exists and can do anything, then he clearly doesn't love everyone. Every year, some nine million children under the age of five die due to diseases which eat them away from the inside. If you call sitting there and doing nothing when given the power to prevent such suffering "love", then you've got a really strange idea of what love really is.
I must confess to you, I want so much not to believe the harsh teachings of Scripture--however, it is truly evident from His word that He does not love everyone. After all, He hated Esau. Right there, we have an example from His very word that He did not love everyone.
Most people would think that idea of love as strange: after all, if someone said that suffering was an example of God's loving hand in their life, that person would probably be thought of as psychotic.
It is just so harsh to me that I hang onto what it is written in His word: to trust Him, to hope in Him. All I can say to you is that I love Him. I believe He is just, good, and holy. I trust in Him--in Him alone and not even in the doctrines of my faith. It is true that I can't deny the understanding of the Scripture which the Holy Spirit has given to me, but I can hope in Him. I do believe that He is compassionate, just, and merciful. I want Him to love everyone, yet above all I believe He is just, good, and merciful and it will be made right by Him though not on our terms but on His.
No one can ever convince anyone by way of reason that they should love such a God. The Being who has determined all of time and is the reason for everyone's situation in which they find themselves in is not one to whom someone would logically rush to in order to find comfort. They would look at their suffering and say: "
You are the cause of this? This is what you had planned for me?
This? This horrible suffering? Well then I do not want anything to do with you. I hate you."
That it requires the Holy Spirit to enable one to love God is so evident in that it is impossible to love such a God on one's own trying to do so. The problem I feel is that for someone to not believe in God, usually they believe that this is all there is to life. They do not believe in anything afterwards. I think you even said yourself that the promise of an afterlife would not be enough to make up for the grief of having experienced the horror of someone having raped your child.
I wish I could give a better reason for why He has ordained some onto everlasting death. All I can say is that it is in order to glorify Him, which I believe you said something like to your mind it makes Him seem narcissistic and I can understand that perspective.
What evidence do you have that the suffering of the human god was for the benefit of other humans?
It wasn't. It was for His own glorification.
Give me a good reason to believe your god exists and I'll believe it exists. I refuse to lie to myself.
I, on my own, will never have a good enough reason for you to believe He exists. It must mean He hasn't called you yet.
Actions speak louder than words. To date, no supernatural being has done anything to lead me down the path to believing it exists. If a god can do anything and knows everything, then it would know precisely what it would take to get me to believe it exists. But it does nothing. From this, we can safely conclude that your statement is inaccurate. If your god exists, he doesn't care if we believe he exists.
It must not be in His plan for you to believe yet. I hate saying that He doesn't "care" that we believe He exists because it makes Him seem uncompassionate. There is nothing I can say which will make you believe that He is compassionate though. It is true that He doesn't need us. He doesn't need us for His glorification, His glorification is merely made manifest in us.
Earlier you were talking about God's own glorification. What we do has nothing to do with how narcissistic some supernatural being is.
I agree. What we do has nothing to do with how God is.
From this we can safely conclude that if there is a god, it either doesn't love us enough to prevent the mass suffering or it is incapable of preventing the mass suffering. While I'm happy to discuss these other things, this thread is largely to find out how Christians reconcile this. From one human to another human, I ask, which one of these three you believe to be true.
A) God does not love us enough to stop calamities such as tornadoes, rapes and tsunamis
B) God is incapable of stopping calamities such as tornadoes, rapes and tsunamis
C) You have never thought about the logical invalidity of the problem of evil
It is clearly the first as I confessed in the first paragraph. The reason I didn't want to say it is that it is so harsh for people to accept. I want to believe He loves everyone so much because He loves me and it just kills me to know that it can't be true for everyone. I live in open rebellion against His word because it is just so harsh. The message in Scripture though is clear: it is not about us, it is about Him. And to realize that is an incredibly humbling thing.
For whatever reason, He has ordained some onto everlasting death. Does that make God unjust? If it is all about us, then it would. I hope I am wrong, that God is not harsh. Yet a message which says that God is all love and nothing else is just not biblically accurate; it is so obvious that the biblical God is one of judgment as well as love. Nevertheless, I trust in Him, I hope in Him. And I cannot refuse to recognize the message which the Holy Spirit wants me to understand. I can't dishonor Him by saying, "I don't like it, therefore I won't believe in it." I can't lie to Him though and say, "I like it," because I don't. He knows what is in my heart. It is useless to lie.
Perhaps I was deceiving you and I apologize for this. However, I want to make it clear that I am no biblical scholar and I definitely can be wrong about it. Yet that is the understanding which the Holy Spirit wants me to have. I just didn't want to portray God in such a harsh light so I tried to soften Him. That was incredibly wrong, but being a new Christian and having an understanding which seems so contrary to what it seems like most Christians believe makes it so difficult to say what you really believe (It seems like I also immediately get this condemnation from others such as, "Why are you trying to make God into a monster?" Again, they are only looking at it from a humanity-centered perspective).
Also, I must admit I'm getting back into the research of my favorite person who ever lived and in his writings, he grieved about the harshness of what the Scriptures teach of God. He said he regretted his gloomy Presbyterian training which seemed to instill more a fear of God than a love of Him. He encouraged his wife to teach their children to love, love, love God.
Then explain why a being that loves you would act in such a way that it doesn't love you.
To dis-attach someone from the comforts of this world is the ultimate show of love. This world is under the limited power of the spirit of the world. God allows Satan to have control of it for the time being, all to God's own glorification. To have someone become so wrapped up in this world so that their thoughts are only on it and not endeavoring to be properly obedient to God because they love Him because He has given them faith which will make their works acceptable in God's sight would be the ultimate act of not loving someone.
To someone who does not love God and who cares primarily for the things of this world, how can something like that be thought of as love? They would only see it as punishment or some other negative thing.
What do you mean by "effectually called"?
Those who were chosen by God to everlasting life and not because of anything that He foresaw in the future that they would do.
If they are subjective in nature, then how can I take these experiences to experts so they can tell me for sure it was a supernatural being? It seems as if your god wants very badly to appear no different than a non-existent god. Just how does this serve the overall agenda or purpose of your god?
You probably will not be able to know of God by any objective evidence, that is just not the way He works. He enables belief in Him only by the work of the Holy Spirit. This serves to glorify Him.