It's funny how you frame this, as you completely ignore free will and the issue of sin.
I ignore them because they are diversions. According to your beliefs -
a) all sinners deserve hell
b) all human beings will sin
let's add the missing ingredient...
c) no one asked to be born
Where's the "free will" in the human race being born essentially
hellbound?
You: >I suggest you actually find out what Christianity is about--not some caricture one might find, then come back before you masquerade as one. <
I'm trying to find out what Christianity is about, from Christians. Thus far I am immediately perplexed that folks who not only believe in the existence of eternal conscious torment, but also that everyone is
deserving of such a fate, and that most people will end up there (most probably some of their family and friends also) would choose forum labels for themselves like "Goodnews" and "SweetSoulSong". (Do you see the humour in this?

No, I guess not)
You: >I have no problem with people giving their opinion on an aspect of Christianity, but I do have a problem with people claiming to be Christian yet they are not.
Maybe I'm on the wrong forum. I'm not claiming to be a Christian, certainly not a "fundie" at least. But what is interesting is that all I have done is challenge the generally understood doctrine of hell and immediately, to you, I cannot be a Christian at all? I wasn't aware that a belief in endless torment was what saved one?
You: >You want to know what's unfair, O attempter of rhetoric? A holy and perfect God, who's creation has rebelled against Him, a holy and perfect God who
sends His only Son to
die for that very same creation that rebels<
The even more basic question that comes to mind here is not just is such a scenario fair or unfair, but does it even
make sense? God's creation rebels against Him, (which He knew they would even before He created them and which one wouldn't even have to be omniscient to predict because creating an intelligent creature with it's own free will is a built in
guarantee that said creature will "rebel" - i.e. exercise their free will) and God sends His Son to die for that creation (yet the majority of that creation will
not end up redeemed anyway, which God knew at the beginning, which makes the whole affair a disaster for most people who have ever been born and also a disaster for God, if God is a God of love)
You: >That's what's unfair. I know you've seen a cross; that may even be why you come so confident in your judgments. Yet I doubt that you have even one inkling of what the cross means, and what happened there. I suggest you find out.