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How can anyone not want to lie in bed all day?

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They say you have depression if you feel this way but I seriously don't understand how anyone would NOT want to say wrapped up in their blanket in their bed all day, not doing anything. It's too hard to be out of bed actually doing something. Every time I go back in my room for something, I just want to go lie down on the bed and close my eyes, even if I don't intend to sleep.
 

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They say you have depression if you feel this way but I seriously don't understand how anyone would NOT want to say wrapped up in their blanket in their bed all day, not doing anything. It's too hard to be out of bed actually doing something. Every time I go back in my room for something, I just want to go lie down on the bed and close my eyes, even if I don't intend to sleep.

Well it would be nice for a while but some things spring to mind,
It is bad for your back, posture and overall health. Your muscles would start to waste away.
The body needs exercise and sunshine to be healthy.
It would get kind of lonely and boring not to mention kind of uncomfortable to have pressure along your body all the time -that is how bedsores develop. The idea of creating bedsores really isn't very pleasant.
Also how would you bath? Nothing nicer than a warm shower.
 
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Well it would be nice for a while but some things spring to mind,
It is bad for your back, posture and overall health. Your muscles would start to waste away.
The body needs exercise and sunshine to be healthy.
It would get kind of lonely and boring not to mention kind of uncomfortable to have pressure along your body all the time -that is how bedsores develop. The idea of creating bedsores really isn't very pleasant.
Also how would you bath? Nothing nicer than a warm shower.
good points.
 
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I hope people realize that this is a post written in the perspective of people who have depression and whose behaviors consist of not wanting to get out of the bed when you should. It was not written just because I want to do nothing.
 
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I don't do exactly what I said in my OP, but it's a huge struggle for me not to. I guess you have to be REALLY sick in the head to have this sort of mindset. :|

AD's are really good at making you feel like that sister. The heavier the dosage the worse the tiredness. i had one which had me sleeping literally 20 hours a day, after which it turned me psychotic and had to be replaced.

How many hours do you get sleep? How many hours do you need sleep? Often an afternoon nap helps a lot, but often times makes you feel yucky when you wake up.

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AD's are really good at making you feel like that sister. The heavier the dosage the worse the tiredness. i had one which had me sleeping literally 20 hours a day, after which it turned me psychotic and had to be replaced.

How many hours do you get sleep? How many hours do you need sleep? Often an afternoon nap helps a lot, but often times makes you feel yucky when you wake up.

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I think it's my AD doing it. It helps anxiety so much though, and that's what's keeping me from stopping it. Ironically, when I upped the dose recently, I felt more alert for a couple days, and now I'm feeling tired again. But my previous AD gave me more motivation to stay out of bed, but it also made me so nervous. I hated the nerves too. I can't win for losing.

I can get by with 5 hour sleep. Anything less, I don't feel sane. lol. Sometimes I can only get 4 hours sleep. It happens when I wake up after, say, 3 hours, and can only go back to sleep and sleep for an hour, and then I wake up. But then I can't function the rest of the day. I have tried napping but I never can fall asleep during the day, no matter how tired I am. It's weird.
 
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They say you have depression if you feel this way but I seriously don't understand how anyone would NOT want to say wrapped up in their blanket in their bed all day, not doing anything. It's too hard to be out of bed actually doing something. Every time I go back in my room for something, I just want to go lie down on the bed and close my eyes, even if I don't intend to sleep.
No, it's not normal to want to do nothing. God made us to be active, creative, helpful to others and productive members of society. Even unbelievers have some drive and desire that gets them up each day.
 
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I think it's my AD doing it. It helps anxiety so much though, and that's what's keeping me from stopping it. Ironically, when I upped the dose recently, I felt more alert for a couple days, and now I'm feeling tired again. But my previous AD gave me more motivation to stay out of bed, but it also made me so nervous. I hated the nerves too. I can't win for losing.

I can get by with 5 hour sleep. Anything less, I don't feel sane. lol. Sometimes I can only get 4 hours sleep. It happens when I wake up after, say, 3 hours, and can only go back to sleep and sleep for an hour, and then I wake up. But then I can't function the rest of the day. I have tried napping but I never can fall asleep during the day, no matter how tired I am. It's weird.
No wonder you’re so tired - you’re sleep deprived. I tend towards insomnia and had one six month spell where I averaged 4.5 hours a night. It made me absolutely unable to deal with life!
 
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I think it's my AD doing it. It helps anxiety so much though, and that's what's keeping me from stopping it. Ironically, when I upped the dose recently, I felt more alert for a couple days, and now I'm feeling tired again. But my previous AD gave me more motivation to stay out of bed, but it also made me so nervous. I hated the nerves too. I can't win for losing.

I can get by with 5 hour sleep. Anything less, I don't feel sane. lol. Sometimes I can only get 4 hours sleep. It happens when I wake up after, say, 3 hours, and can only go back to sleep and sleep for an hour, and then I wake up. But then I can't function the rest of the day. I have tried napping but I never can fall asleep during the day, no matter how tired I am. It's weird.


Why wait by yourself when you can wait on God
 
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I don't know. Staying in bed all day sounds kind of boring to me. Eventually, I'd want to get up and do other things.
Same. I also have a child so I can't be lazy.
 
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Same. I also have a child so I can't be lazy.
I can't help but speak up about this. I need to get something out of the way though. I'm not asking anyone to condone what I feel or encourage my behavior. However, the word "lazy" is a terrible word to use toward people who have ACTUAL depression and harbor the sentiment of wanting to perpetually lie in bed. This is not the kind of statement that someone who has empathy toward someone with depression makes. Heck, this doesn't sound like you've ever had depression a day in your life. No one who had this kind of depression for a single day in their life would make this kind of remark toward someone who is suffering in the way I am.
 
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I can't help but speak up about this. I need to get something out of the way though. I'm not asking anyone to condone what I feel or encourage my behavior. However, the word "lazy" is a terrible word to use toward people who have ACTUAL depression and harbor the sentiment of wanting to perpetually lie in bed. This is not the kind of statement that someone who has empathy toward someone with depression makes. Heck, this doesn't sound like you've ever had depression a day in your life. No one who had this kind of depression for a single day in their life would make this kind of remark toward someone who is suffering in the way I am.
Whoa. Calm down. I didnt even realize i was in the depression section. I didnt mean to come off callous. I thought this was a light hearted question not a symptom of a mental illness. Sorry that youre suffering.
 
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Whoa. Calm down. I didnt even realize i was in the depression section. I didnt mean to come off callous. I thought this was a light hearted question not a symptom of a mental illness. Sorry that youre suffering.
I'm sorry too, I was too sensitive.
 
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I'm sorry too, I was too sensitive.
Its okay. I didnt realize you were referring to your depression and i didnt know you were having such a hard time. Are you seeing a therapist or taking meds?
 
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Its okay. I didnt realize you were referring to your depression and i didnt know you were having such a hard time. Are you seeing a therapist or taking meds?
I'm taking meds but I do think the meds are contributing to the "bed" thing. Not that I didn't want to lie in bed before, but the meds make me tired. I just can't decide whether or not to change the meds though.

I feel bad about my little outburst though. I normally don't talk like this to people online or even offline. I'm always level-headed here.
 
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