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How can an atheist have a relationship with God?

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I can make some suggestions, will you honestly and genuinely take them?
I will listen to them. I can't promise I will take all of them, for instance I will not forsake my children, but I will give it an honest effort.
 
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I will listen to them. I can't promise I will take all of them, for instance I will not forsake my children, but I will give it an honest effort.
Why would you think that I would ask you to forsake your children?
 
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Why would you think that I would ask you to forsake your children?
I don't think you would, but I'm serious when I make a promise, so I'm not comfortable promising to take an action if I don't know what it was. There are accounts of people being told to leave behind their families to follow, that's just one that popped into my mind.
 
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Ok. Question first, have you read Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis?
 
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Yes, but it's been many years. I think I have a copy somewhere.
Fantastic. This isn't going to be a short little excursion here. I don't even know if this will be the path that God has provided for you but I'm stepping out in faith. Ask God once again to reveal Himself to you and to change your heart to accept Him. So for our first step on this journey, please find and read Mere Christianity again. You said you study so I am assuming that you have time to do so in your busy life. Now this time read it not as an unbeliever, but as one who is fortifying yourself with this man's journey. When your mind struggles against any point surrender that struggle to God and literally tell God that you are struggling but you will remain open minded with a open heart. Every time you struggle give it over to God as a believer would and pray for an open mind and heart. When you have finished the book please let me know and we will move on to the next step. I will be praying for you and I hope all the Christians here will do the same. Are you accepting of this?
 
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I will reread it and let you know when I have done so. I will check and see if I still have a copy, if not I'll get one.
 
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I will reread it and let you know when I have done so. I will check and see if I still have a copy, if not I'll get one.
Awesome! Remember the most important point to this is when you struggle with any point therein to give it over to God in your mind and literally remain open minded and have an open heart for God to move. May God be with you.
 
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Yes, I'm sure your right. God knows whether we are frauds or not in our belief. However, he also knows the epistemic boundaries in which we are cognitively situated.

Without the missing link, I can't honestly call myself anything but an agnostic, in fact I don't know how anyone who hadn't closed the loop could fully claim to be Christian
Good point, and I truly appreciate your honesty. But by this stringent epistemic criterion you present regarding belief, MG, then I wouldn't qualify as a Christian since I can't say that I've been able to dot all my 'i's,' cross all my 't's,' or "close the loop" when it comes to the matter of "knowing" things about God. Am I then not a Christian, MG? And who has the full authority and knowledge to say whether I qualify as a Christian or not?

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I think the difference is you believe in God and I don't but would like to. While I attend church and pray, I still need to go further.
 
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I think the difference is you believe in God and I don't but would like to. While I attend church and pray, I still need to go further.

That sounds like a good place to start, MG. And since I saw a plan of study developing between you and Once deceived, I'd encourage you to follow through with her in that study - just you two ladies. That should keep you busy. However, if in the meanwhile you find you have extra time and would like some additional academic level considerations, or you feel you've completed your study with Once deceived and want to journey in another direction, feel free to ask me for some study suggestions which may take you "further" along toward the Lord.

Peace,
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I will do that, thanks!
 
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Well, an alternate translation of the word faith is trust. If you find that you have trust issues within yourself, it is important to note that you will not be able to trust God more than you trust yourself, at least initially.
 
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Hey Deadworm,

Sorry for the long absence. I will be pretty busy this month as well but I will try to respond more frequently.
1) You assume that Paul received this from the Jerusalem apostles and I don't see why you make this assumption. Every other time Paul makes a claim of knowledge and revelation it comes from a vision, why assume that he means something different here?
2) A lot of this depends on the assertion that the gospels are written by the authors to whom they were later attributed and that they were in fact eyewitnesses, or recording the recollections of eyewitnesses. Could you make the case for these positions more plainly for me. In the form of claim: support and links to the evidence or arguments for them.
Hope you had a great Christmas and that your new year is off to a great start
 
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I confess to being a bit confused. It sounds like you are saying that when a god reveals himself there will be a transformitive experience (but maybe not). Why do you think that be livers in other gods relay such similar stories about coming to their God and having paradigm altering experiences that bring them joy and peace etc?
Finally I am never sure what to make of that Hebrews verse. What does it mean to you that faith is the substance of things hoped for? Even more confusing for me is the second bit that says faith is the evidence of things not seen. Faith is the evidence? So my 6 year old has faith that Santa is real, is her faith actual evidence that he does exist? Is the faith of Muslims evidence that Allah exists as the one true god?
 
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That sounds like pretty good evidence for God to me.
Really? Maybe you could explain for me how the things she mentioned can only exist in her life if your God is true and active, because to me those things seem like a combination of chance (where and when she was born and I to what socioeconomic class) and her own decisions.
 
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Having been a Christian and now as an atheist I can assure you that your assumptions about atheists do not always reflect the truth. I am sure there are some atheists that are sad and without peace and certainty but I know many that absolutely have those. Maybe you should find some local atheists and get to know them as people?
 
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Agreed...believers in Allah have the comfort and strength of knowing that God is with them in their struggles. ..
Obviously that is not what you meant but I also didn't see an answer to MG question. If good things are evidence of God what are bad things evidence of?
 
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