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How can an atheist have a relationship with God?

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I apologize, read your post too quickly, and I will follow up with a more thoughtful reply later.
I would like to follow up on what you mean by God needing to play a part, and if it is possible that he chooses not to in some cases.
 
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I have reread your earlier post, and if I'm understanding you right, I have to start from a Jewish/Christian context to interpret my or others experiences as to whether or not they are evidence of God.
Is that closer?
I would wonder, though, that if we think that way, it's difficult to change out of the religious culture one was born into. We could go from our faith to no faith, and maybe back again , but not from our faith to a markedly different one.
If that's right, though, and in addition there us only one true religion, then those not born into it are at an incredible disadvantage.
 
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Well, I've shared a bit, and I was wondering if you had any thought. Perhaps with Christmas time coming, I'm eager to find a way back.
 
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Well, I've shared a bit, and I was wondering if you had any thought. Perhaps with Christmas time coming, I'm eager to find a way back.

Well, it sounds like you're saying you once did have a belief in God but lost your faith somewhere along the way. But you must logically realize that does not mean God went anywhere. He is still there, waiting patiently for you to speak with Him (also known as prayer). The only way to reach God is through faith and prayer and His Word. Then, once you sincerely and humbly ask Him to fill your heart He will be faithful to do so. It is not difficult but I realize our minds can block God out for many reasons. Sometimes we have emotional pain, sometimes a person has let us down, sometimes we feel lonely and disconnected from God. All of those feelings are common to all human beings. It's ok to hurt and doubt and you can share those feelings with God. You can tell Him you really need Him to give you an unmistakable sign of His presence, to help you.

I've done that and He has always answered my prayers. I have prayed in faith during times of pain and He made it clear, in very sweet, loving and gentle ways that He was with me. He's even performed what I consider to be miraculous events for me, in the physical realm. For me to deny the existence of God I would have to actually deny my own sane, rational mind, that's how deep my faith goes. I have zero doubt about God. I have zero doubt of His sovereignty and power because of how my life has been. I wish I could share how deep and strong my faith is - it's hard to in words - but I would not be living on this earth right now if it weren't for God. He physically saved my life.

Many years ago, a man had attacked me and was beating me; I could have died then, and but for a miraculous intervention of God at that moment I probably would have. Invisible hands shoved the man off me and he ran away. I have no explanation for what happened other than it was God who saved me, because I called out the name of Jesus to help me, at that moment. I had almost lost consciousness but I saw the man fly across the room and slam against the wall. I didn't push him (I couldn't because I had been beaten too badly at that point to be able to fight any more) and there was nobody else there. This is a true story and humbles me to this day to remember it. God not only saved my soul for eternity but He also saved my physical life on this earth. Not because I deserved it because I'm nobody special. But I had faith in Him to save me and still do. I can't explain what happened other than it was God.

Let God in your heart and your life again. He will do wonderful and loving things for you. You're His child.
 
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Hi Mountain,

I have reread your earlier post, and if I'm understanding you right, I have to start from a Jewish/Christian context to interpret my or others experiences as to whether or not they are evidence of God.
Is that closer?
That is somewhat closer, MG, although I'd be tempted to say that what I am more specifically referring to is the fact that the primary "evidences" of the Christian faith, whether seen through Catholic, Orthodox, or various Protestant lenses, will require some familiarity with the literary structures of Jewish, Biblical literature, historiography, and hermeneutical method. Of course, this is not to say that by simply studying these three fields, as they relate to the ancient Jewish mindset of the first few centuries from from B.C. to A.D., you will automatically have "the spiritual lights turn-on" in all their full glory. It would be great if they could, but I don't think this happens for nearly anyone, at least not at a luminosity level we might call "brilliant." However, what studying these hermeneutical patterns can do is give you a partial understanding for how the Jewish mindset, in its more ancient prophetic and its later Rabbinical varieties, lends itself to the thought structures and prophetic patterns we actually find in the Bible, as cryptic as they sometimes are. All of this is something a bit more than what the average Church teaching relates on a refined or extended, Augustinian level (i.e. in looking at say, the Catholic Catechism [link], I'm not finding much that relates to the finer details of exegesis and our understanding of the Bible--more is needed). For instance, until you can see "why" John the Baptist is a fulfillment of the prophecy made in Malachi regarding the "return" of Elijah, a fulfillment that exposes the typological patterns and epistemological motifs that run through the Old Testament, you will continue to come short of evidences ...

I would wonder, though, that if we think that way, it's difficult to change out of the religious culture one was born into.
Sure, if we are perhaps born into any of the more Eastern notions of religion, such as Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, etc. But, if we are talking about a person who was born in the more Enlightened areas of Europe and/or North American, then there isn't as many social mores holding one back. For instance, I wasn't born into a particularly religious family, and despite the fact that Carl Sagan and Stan Lee were my childhood "gurus," my social milieu was more or less a non-intellectual one. But all of this didn't stop me from coming to new realizations one day and deciding to expand my academic horizons. It also didn't stop me from picking up a Bible and reading it for the first time when previous to that, I had little notion that such a thing may be useful to consider.


Well, fortunately, what I'm NOT saying is that you have to drop your Catholic predilections and make way for some "other" denominational viewpoint. That's not what this is about. As for myself, even though I'm not Roman Catholic, I'm very ecumenical and I take what I call the 2,000 Year Approach, meaning that everything in concert with the Christian faith as it has developed and even transmogrified through the centuries...is open for exploration. So, if you live in a "free," Western nation, MG, then you can simply decide to "Explore Your Faith" while remaining within your Roman Catholic tradition, if that makes you feel comfortable.

Anyway, all of this is a suggestion, as I stated earlier, MG It in no way is going to be a comprehensive cure for your doubts, but it can help to some extent. After that, however, it really is God who will have to take you the rest of the way into the eternity that we all hope to share together with our Trinitarian Lord.

Peace,
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Do you think there is a chance that God exists? If so, what arguments, experiences, or people gave rise to that "chance"?
 
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Hi Athee. Came into the forum today for the first time in a long time and was wondering what you were discussing and found this. I don't remember asking you this so: How and why were you a Christian?
 
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It seems that while one can study and pray, there's really no way they can obtain faith unless God chooses to give it to them. I may be incorrect in this, but I then wonder why God doesn't chose to give it to all who sincerely ask?
 
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Thanks for the thoughtful post. I wanted to touch on the denomination issue and give a bit more background. I was raised Catholic, but in these many years of searching, I did look at other Christian paths, including about a year as an active member of an Assembly of God church, about six months at a Baptist Church, many years in the Episcopalian Church, and I've attended services at Mennonite and Methodist churches and gone to Quaker meetings.
I've come back to attending and being active in a Catholic Church for a few reasons. I've got some family cultural connections, my location limits choices and I respect the long history of the Church. I do wonder sometimes, if I should expand my search to non Christian churches.
 
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It sounds like you've done some diverse searching, as I have, MG. And if Catholicism is where you feel you "connect" the best, the I'm glad you are where you are.

But....as to you expanding your search to Non-Christian Churches? In what way do you mean this? Because if you mean by it something like looking into the "Jehovah's Witnesses" or "Mormons," then that is very problematic. Don't waste your time. Or, if you look into the thoughts of the other, various World Religions, you're not going to find much there either (and I speak as one with a degree in philosophy which includes these topics).

But, if instead you mean that you could expand your search by looking into the beliefs of the Messianic Jews or Jews for Jesus, or even explore the varieties of Judaism and their approaches to the Bible--or something like that--then that in and of itself may be useful.

Besides, what specifically do you feel you are searching for? "Evidence"? Still, just "evidence"?

Personally, I've been around the "spiritual-block" in ways similar to yourself, and I can tell you that if all you are doing is searching for "evidence," you're going to find little to none of that kind of thing, or at least not the kind we all wish we had. No, what I suggest is that you work to understanding the diverse field of hermeneutics, along with epistemology. Of course, it won't hurt to still say your personal prayers, asking God for wisdom along the way.

Peace,
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At this point, although I go to church regularly and pray, I'm not convinced there is a God. So when I say evidence, I don't necessarily mean physical evidence, but anything that would help move thr needle in one way or another. It could be physical evidence, reasoning, personal spiritual experience or even evidence such as noting a markedly different set of behaviors in Christians due to their receiving, say of the Holy Spirit. .a holiness, joy or peace that non Christians don't have
I mentioned other religions because I've been searching for God inside a Christian paradigm and I'm wondering if I'm too limited in my search for God and should be also giving thought to the idea that there are many gods, or that the universe and god are one.
 
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There's nothing stopping you from looking at other religions. In fact, it could be of service to some extent; I know it was for me in that by studying many of the other religions, I gained a better appreciation for the specific and comparative qualities of the Christian faith.

As one educated person to another, take my warning: You can look at other non-Jewish World religions, but I can tell you now that you will find about as much substance there as you will in standing in the arid, waterless desert and letting the substance of sand run between your fingers, GM.

Peace,
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I did the exact thing when I was a teenager/early 20s, except I also added LDS and Islam. I hope you find what you are looking for Mountain Girl.
I did similar things in my 20s, although I learned more about Islam from a colleague in my 30's. My feelings about Islam at that time were that there was so much similar between the two faiths, that it didn't seem worth the upheaval it would cause in my family to switch from Christianity to Islam. I had some good discussions though, and gained a respect for folks like my friend. I did find that at least in real life as I've experienced it, Muslims were more willing to have challenging discussions on issues of faith and the existence of God than the Christians I knew.
 
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I'd like to get to know God, how do I go about meeting Him? I've prayed, but I'm not sure I haven't been talking to myself.
 
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When you have a few minutes, I hope you listen to the video added to my last note to you above this post. Be back in a bit after I finish reading the rest of the posts here, so can get a better understanding as to what you are all talking about.
Sorry, I don't have sufficient Internet to watch videos, perhaps there's a summary or transcript?
 
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