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Horrible feelings of hatred

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There's this boy at my school and I have felt horrible feelings, that he's repulsive, hideous, almost makes me feel sick to look at him. I feel angry whenever I see him, though he didn't do much to me. He admitted he fancied me but then he would NOT leave me alone. I made it clear I did not like him that way. But it was so annoying, and I just wanted to hit him. He has a mental disability, I think, which is why he acted oddly, but he was always edging towards me, sitting next to me, following me, and I heard him saying loudly next to me something like "I want to KISS her." But he's always doing things...well...things that I find a bit disgusting. Now whenever I see him I feel so angry! I don't want to, but he just really gets on my nerve, and I find myself ignoring him. How can I stop being so nasty?
 

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It's hard to deal with those kind of feelings.
I have found in the past when I have come across someone I just can't seem to like that praying for them helps... and trying to see them as God's creation who He loves as much as He loves me. If you ask God to bless him every time you see him, you will probably find that the bad feelings fade :)
 
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It's hard to deal with those kind of feelings.
I have found in the past when I have come across someone I just can't seem to like that praying for them helps... and trying to see them as God's creation who He loves as much as He loves me. If you ask God to bless him every time you see him, you will probably find that the bad feelings fade :)


amen, I agree
 
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