That is a great post Avniel. Not only is your logic healthy, but it also gives us pause to consider each individual liberal position per person as to why they are doing what they do.
It is utter nonsense that a Christian or a group of Christians (a Church or denomination) cannot judge an individual or an ideology (another belief system). Jesus makes it clear that it is important to judge things and people, but with a dire warning of guidelines for doing so.
It's facetiousness at its best not only is incorrect with major gaps the very logic is sophomoric. "This is not clearly stated so God has to be ok with it" is their logic but one could say "It's not supported at all anywhere so God has to be against it"(using the same logic they are using).
"Did God really say?"
It is even worse than what Satan said to Eve. I don't know if sophomoric is accurate. I think it may be misplaced concern or ignorance on the lighter side of pro-gay zealotry, but there is an incredible dark side to it as well. When you watchy the amazing machinations to the "Christian" pro-gay argument, it can both make your head swim watching it being played out, or make you feel quite unwell.
Then there next argument is "God made me this way I was born like this"
That is the morality that kept Adam in his sins.
Blaming God for making him a sinner.
no one was born with a sexual orientation that is default,
I think your position there may not be super solid. There are lots of congenital defects within the populace. I believe if warped sexuality was allowed to stay within that definition, there would be a place to accept homosexuality within a Christian framwork. But this "I'm gay and proud" haughtiness may not be something that can be supported per the truth of scripture.
then there is the argument nature vs. nurture which many scientist and studies have proven arguable that nurture wins.
Or nurture corrupts an individual if the nurturing was implemented badly or misguided. Many brainwashed people were nurtured into their washed brains. I think our education system proves that. Many people go into the education system morally sound, and come out of it virtually satanic.
And the bible says train up a child the way he shall go and he shall not part from it...Basically saying that in the case of nature vs nurture nurture wins biblical speaking and scientifically speaking.
True, But the Bible also mentions people born with physical defects. Defects that can even keep them in a religious category not of their own wishes.
They can not prove it and their only way to win the argument is by bringing up black civil rights, gay marriage(which they can't find one gay marriage in the bible) and accusing people of being anti-gay.
In my vast experience with liberalism and progressive activism, my opinion is that THAT is when you know you are dealing with an adversary of The Way (The Church) and not just some hapless ideologue.
Anyone that employs the absurdity of "two wrongs make a right" and is really demanding that, is always in the wrong. Always.