that's what i thought also. for some reason i thought someone said in this thread it was forbidden.
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that's what i thought also. for some reason i thought someone said in this thread it was forbidden.
Well all the answers given were on the mark. BUT my question to you who placed the question WHY DID YOU?
Why should someone's sexuality or orientation or practice determine their eligibility to attend a Bible study class... To me that is just laughable and sad.
She has been upfront more than many hetero's would about where she is at... She is under no obligation to even have to disclose what she has.
Jesus said Come unto to me all who are weary and heavy laden. NO MENTION OF SUITABILITY OR HAVING TO MEET A STANDARD.
how on earth do you think non believers view this... i know how i as a christian view this. Cringe material....
Me said:I see what's going on here. The thread starter doesn't want to reject the woman for living a former lesbian lifestyle, but at the same time, it is important to know who you're dealing with. If the person is turning away from the lifestyle, cool; if they persist and insist that you support it because they figure that it must be right for them to be that way, no.
I understand the woman who was brought up because I turned away from the same thing (except I am a man who struggled with lust of both men and woman). The world keeps saying "it's genetic! It's who you are! You are an inborn bi/homo/whatever-sexual". Personally, I knew that there were elements in my life that caused my to become physio/psychologically messed-up, specifically my sexuality, so it didn't matter what Oprah or Rosie said.
I don't if it was a likely cause, but I was molested as a kid; also "raped" because I was forced to have sexual relations with other males and possibly females at the age of 4, approximately. I didn't exactly understand at that age, so it took me years to spill the beans.
It all started when I was a kid, trying to act like a girl for no good reason. I associated girl's responses to sexual activity as the greatest freedom and feeling, so I tried to mimic female behavior. I associated women's beauty as the only beauty, so I tried to be beautiful like how women would be, specifically with the attempt to be as close to being a woman as possible. I even fantasized that I was a woman, associating being a woman with less responsibility, receiving more sympathy and more free to express oneself.
Basically, I was becoming lustful, perverted and foolish.
This affected my mind so badly that I pretty much "became" a closeted bisexual, and at times, plain homosexual. I also was a closeted transexual, which how it all started: being a woman, a sexual recipient in my mind, which was the Devil's playground. I have tried explaining this to atheist friends... only one listened. I learned to never talk to non-believers who aren't open to faith.
People have to grow out of all sexual perversions because it's a stronghold of the mind. The best thing for anyone struggling with these things to do is this: recognize the source and stray any and all behavior, activities and influences that support unnatural desires.
This speaks of a part of my life right there.How many have gotten into error is by thinking that if someone commits a homosexual act, they are a homosexual. This is wrong. If I try smoking a cigarette am I smoker? No, not unless I continue in it. What if I did continue for five years but then quit and never smoke again, am I still a smoker? No, because I don't PRACTICE smoking.
You could have been a homosexual for years, but if you accept salvation you are cleansed and your nature is changed. You, the real you, the spirit man will no longer want to commit homosexual acts. There flesh might want to because of a unrenewed mind, but not there human spirit. They may even stumble with that same sin and if they commit it God will forgive them.
1. a-Proverbs makes it clear that prostitution is wrong for males as well. b-Leviticus gave us a raw picture of biased laws, not what was clearly Gods' will.Whats up with this:
- Sex with a prostitute is acceptable for the husband but not for the wife
- Polygamy (more than one wife) is acceptable. Solomon, the wisest king of all, had over one thousand
- Slavery and sex with slaves
- Marriage of girls aged 11-13
- Treatment of women as property
The Bible also forbids:
- Interracial marriage
- Birth control
- Discussing or even NAMING a sexual organ
I call this liberal rhetoric.Is gay the new black?
Marriage ban spurs debate
NEW YORK Gay is the new black, say the protest signs and magazine covers, casting the gay marriage battle as the last frontier of equal rights for all.
Gay marriage is not a civil right, opponents counter, insisting that minority status comes from who you are rather than what you do.
The gay rights movement entered a new era when Barack Obama was elected the first black president the same day that voters in California and Florida passed referendums to prevent gays and lesbians from marrying, while Arizonans turned down civil unions and Arkansans said no to adoptions by same-sex couples.
Racism was defanged by Obama's triumph, leaving gays as perhaps the last group of Americans claiming that their basic rights are being systematically denied.
"Black people are equal now, and gay people aren't," said Emil Wilbekin, a black gay man and the editor of Giant magazine. "I always have this discussion with my friends: What's worse, being a black man or a black gay man?"
"Civil rights have come much further than gay rights," he said. "A lot of people in the gay community have been condemned for their lifestyle and promiscuity and drugs and sex, so it's odd that when they want to conform and model themselves after straight people and have the same rights for marriage and domestic partnership and adoption, they're being blocked."
In a cover story for the Advocate magazine titled "Gay is the New Black," Michael Joseph Gross wrote, "These past few years we've made so much progress that we'd begun to think everybody saw us as we see ourselves. Suddenly we were faced with the reality that a majority of voters don't like us, don't think we're normal, don't believe our lives and loves count as much or are worth as much as theirs."
Yet even some gay leaders are reluctant to directly tie their fight to the African-American legacy. They acknowledge significant differences in the experiences of gays and blacks, ranging from slavery to the relative affluence of white gay men to the choice made by some gays to conceal their sexual orientation, which is not an option for those with darker skin.
"I believe we are very much in a modern-day civil rights struggle," said Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign, the nation's largest gay rights organization.
"We liken some of the experiences that we have had and will have to the (black) civil rights struggle. We also are enormously respectful of the differences," he said. "What we are best served doing is when we take lessons from the civil rights experience and apply them to our work."
Complicating the issue is the domination of minority politics by blacks and Latinos, who can be less than friendly to gay issues.
In the vote on Proposition 8 in California, which repealed gay marriage, about 70 percent of blacks favored the ban, according to an exit poll; Latinos' close vote may have favored it, though the poll's small sample left some uncertainty. In Florida, 71 percent of blacks and 64 percent of Latinos favored a similar ban.
Opposition to gay rights often has a religious basis, and blacks and Latinos are more churchgoing than society at large. Twenty-six percent of blacks attend religious services more than once per week, compared with 16 percent of Latinos and 14 percent of whites, according to a 2007 survey by the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life.
"I do not consider (gays) to be a minority in legal and adjudicated terms, the same way people who only like to eat broccoli with butter aren't a minority," said the Rev. Samuel Rodriguez, president of the National Hispanic Christian Leadership Conference. "We can't categorize things according to behavior. It's based on ethnicity, on who we are rather than what we do."
"Who am I to say that you weren't born that way ... (but) sexual activity, what you do, who you sleep with, is your business," Rodriguez said. "That's between you, your lover, and the good God Almighty in heaven. I don't want to know. Let's leave sexual activity in the bedroom. The government shouldn't be legislating what we do behind closed doors between two consenting adults. And to compare it to the African-American struggle, to me that's an abomination."
So is gay the new black, or did the election define a new and unique set of gay challenges?
"The gay fight for marriage has its own integrity, its own background," said Andrew Cherlin, a professor of sociology and public policy at Johns Hopkins University. "The experience of blacks in the United States is very different. ... I don't think it helps the fight for equality to make that claim."
Cherlin says that fight began in the 1980s when the AIDS epidemic unfolded. Gay partners had few rights to help their ailing loved ones, visit them in hospitals or inherit their property, which led to the push for civil unions.
Today, only Connecticut and Massachusetts permit gay marriage, and a few states allow civil unions or domestic partnerships that grant some rights of marriage. Galvanized by the stinging Nov. 4 defeat in liberal California, the marriage movement is now as much symbolic as practical.
"There was a shift in the '90s, from rights to the symbolism of being married," Cherlin said. "This is not primarily a battle about rights now. If it was, all you'd be hearing about is domestic partnerships. Now it's at two levels simultaneously. One is the level of rights; the second is the level of symbols."
One symbol that some see missing from the gay rights movement is a figurehead. There are famous people who are out and proud, such as Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., or Ellen DeGeneres. But "we don't have our Martin Luther King or Malcolm X or Barack Obama," Wilbekin said.
Yet the nature of activism has changed since the days when King proposed the idea of a mass march on Washington. The recent nationwide gay protests were instigated by a Seattle blogger who set up a Web page three days after the California vote.
And in some ways, gays see Obama himself as a symbol of gay progress even though he opposes gay marriage.
Obama is in favor of civil unions, and during his victory speech, when he included gays in his description of America, it made them feel part of the historic racial milestone.
Solmonese said that the election defeats of Nov. 4 have inspired a level of gay activism not seen since the early days of the AIDS epidemic. "That is buoyed by equal parts anger and rage about Proposition 8," he said, "but also hope and inspiration about doing something that for a long time we didn't think possible like electing Barack Obama as our president."
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20081130...e_new_black;_ylt=Alrvi05yObNjyO5qSC5vAXms0NUE
Nothing to do with homosexuality.I call this liberal rhetoric.
black =/= gay
BTW interracial relationships are not banned in scripture so this connection is moot.
Ouch! That sounds painful! Well, then I won't ask you to help me get the speck out of mine (and it's really bugging me too!).![]()
Oh my tanzel, I just watched that video. Looks like Oprah has converted another lost soul, how heartwarming. Looks like the new spin on homosexuality and religion is to replace the word religion with the word spiriturality. People with spiriturality are obviously very deep, and are therefore of higher moral character then us biggoted ignorant pigs who are religious. Oh we are so evil! I think we should abolish religion because of the horrible evil it promotes in its people and opt for the new spiriturality that is to come.
Ok, ok, enough of the sarcastic rant. I wil quit for now. For anyone new here who has not read my rants before, believe me when I tell you I was not being serious up there. By the way I intended to aim that rant at those who spin religion not at homosexuals. I get frustrated when people spin religion (to almost 180 degrees) and make it evil. They think their way is better because it sounds like it is better, and it usually takes a few decades to prove that it isn't better. In the meantime they are condecending at the very least, and imposing their will on us politically and socially at the worst. I believe that religion can cause problems, but abolishment of religion is not the solution.
Some of this treatment is the fault of the Christian church. Had they treated homosexuals and other people who had a problem with various sins the way Jesus treated those who had problems with sin, we would not be experiencing such a backlash. Futermore very few ever spoke out against those who were abusing homosexuals and other people who struggle with sin. Even today Christians don't get it. Jesus came to save, not condem (paraphrase of John 3:17). He loved and accepted people who were struggling, not the sin, but the person. He wanted to help them.
Many years ago, when the AIDS epidemic was just starting, a local church in Washington D.C. went down to a gay bar and handed out condoms and aids awareness information. They cared about the people and their health. They wanted these people to not contract the disease. This church that did this was not a Christian church, not in the least bit. Shame on us.
When that epidemic started, Christians could have found ways to help and care for people, but instead they chose to proclaim that the disease was God's wrath on them. This made the whole epidemic worse. People were afraid to seek treatment.
Welcome to the future people. If Christians don't start apoligising and repenting of past sins, like the horrible treatment of homosexuals, and if they don't start loving and treating people with decency, we are going to be the ones labeled as the evil ones who need to be abolished. We are the ones who need to start demonstrating what real spiriturality is. We need to show people what the love of God is.
Yes homosexuality is a sin..but it makes me very angry when christians will treat and act like they are dogs just because they are gay...but would never ever preach to their heterosexual neighbor that is shacking it up with their gf/bf or having sex before marriage is all im getting at...where the thread about heterosexual premarital sex huh? You dont see that..many christians are double standard!! They wont talk to the man that has multpile female sexual partners but they will jump with a powerful "CONVICTION" when they see a man walking down the street holding another man's hand..what i am saying is if you gona preach about sexual immortality..then preach all grounds...child molestation, adultery, premarital sex ( whoever it may be gay or straight) and stop soley singling out homosexuals to "preach" to!![]()
All sex ouside of marriage is wrong. The homosexuals have an agenda that I do not agree with...legalizing homosexual unions... In short they are trying to redefine what marriage is. This is totally against what God ordained to be holy. We as Christians are to uphold God's word as truth...this is not judging.

[/FONT]wow, close-minded much, huh.We are not the judge, nor we should we be judging anyone on the board.
-If you are a gay or a Lesbian, you can not be a Christian, period.
It is totally against the Lord. Being gay is totally wrong in the eyes of the Lord.
(besides it's sick)