Originally posted by LouisBooth
"Is the initial temptation to kill someone a sin? No."
Really? I think that's quite unbiblical. So you think the intial thought of having sex with a married women is also not a sin. Christ though differently
I assume you are refering to the sermon on the mount (since you only made reference to the Bible as a whole, I can't be sure).
The relevent passage (Mt 5):
21 "'You have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, "You shall not murder"; and "whoever murders shall be liable to judgement." 22 But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother [
without cause] you will be liable to judgement; and if say Raca to [
insult] a brother, you will be liable to the council; and if you say, "You fool," you will be liable to the hell of fire [
Gehenna]. 23 So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. 25 Come to terms quickly with yoour accuser while you are on the way with him, or your accuser may hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison. 26 Truly I tell you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny.
27 "'You have heard that it was said, "You shall not commit adultery." 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust has already commited adultery with her in his heart.'"
(Italics represent differences in ancient authorities or the alternate translation)
Jesus is showing us that sin is not in the physical act but in our thoughts and intentions. If one is angry with another and desires to kill him or her but doesn't out of fear of punishment, one is as guilty as the murderer. Cowardice does not bring salvation. Anger is dangerous and should be pushed away. This does not mean that we are sinning when we feel angry. It's what we do with it, whether we let it boil within us that is important.
The same applies to lust. Looking at a woman (or a man) with lust and fantasizing about sexual encounters is dangerous. It leads to fornication, adultery, and the objectification of the person. However, the attraction that occurs at first glance, before the will can act, is just attraction.